Quote: (10-06-2017 12:08 PM)Titus Wrote:
Hi Brazilianguy, nice to talk to other Brazilians here. I was actually posting my view from a man perspective.
I think your thoughts regarding the type of guys that do great here are valid, but are more applicable for some niches:
- Upper class girls
- Young girls (18-25 yo)
- Internet celebrities
- 9s or 10s that are hit by tons of guys and therefore have a vast portfolio of options to choose from
Those girls tend to care more about social circle and social status, therefore gaming them is more difficult… totally agree with your thoughts in that way.
But according to my own experience, single middle class older girls (25 -35 yo, 6s to 8s, most) tends to be more open minded and are still bangable through the good old game. I know it sounds ingenuous, but I have lots of friends, that are not the best looking, some even unemployed, that manage to get new notches from nice girls, some that even pay the motel room in a ONS situation…
And also, competition is lower for those girls. It´s like they´re a "forgotten niche". After 25 yo, if single, they missed the ideal age of being in a LTR to get married. They have independent lifes, with nice jobs, that reduce their time available to socialize and know new people. At the same time, lots of Brazilian men are becoming hipsters or revealing theirselves as gays. It´s common to hear those girls complaining: "THERE´S NOT ENOUGH MEN AVAILABLE!"... Yeah, that´s where my harem comes from... lol
The bad thing about that is that this kind of girls are usually more westernalized in dressing, looking and attittude. Even though that they´re healthy and have nice bodies, forget about the typical stereotyped misterious young latina that foreigners love (Colombia is the place for that).
What I really thinks that there´s a real factor of difficulty when coming to gaming Brazilian girls in average is that the “traditional game” applicable to other countries doesn´t apply here: Forget about daygame. And you need to have the perfect combination of looks, attittude, a great opening and the right aggressiveness (too soft and slow, will be considered a moron, too hard and fast, will be considered an idiot). As I mentioned, even locals sometimes find it hard to adjust their game.
The reason why 25-35 year old women are easier to bang is because their value is lower, and their value is lower precisely because when they were 18-24 they acted as if they were princesses (an attitude which was made possible only because of social media, which was created precisely for that).
Now they know they ain´t so hot anymore and their time is limited, so since they couldn´t secure their first choices in men when they were in their prime years, they are settling for Mr. Good Enough. And you can bet they´re going to put their best effort into looking like good girls, because they´re not after hot sex (they had plenty when they were younger), no no no, they´re after a relationship and you´re gonna have to work for it.
So when you choose to use your game on one of these women (supposing you´re a man who is into self improvement on all areas) you´re devaluing yourself, because deep inside you know she´s not the woman you really want, and it´s clear to you that she also considers you one of her last options.
This means your game is based on neediness and deception and not confidence and honesty, which are the foundations for any real relationship, be it sexual or just a friendship.
And that´s why you have to keep lying to these women, because their only use is recreational sex.
No real relationship, not even a casual one, can exist between a guy who´s into self improvement and a loser woman, because she will drag you down with her attitude and lack of values (not feminine, can´t and won´t please a man, career oriented, yadda, yadda).
And worst of all, she will never recognize your value as a man. She can´t!
Because if she does, the abysmal difference between the both of you will be crystal clear and she will know that it will take a lot of effort to overcome that (an effort she is unwilling to make).
The result is that she will have to reduce you with words to make you believe you´re not high value.
So, yeah, low tier women can be had in Brazil, but is that a good enough reason to spend time, money and effort on a country with a high cost of living, huge crime rates and low cultural and educational level?