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06-24-2017, 10:44 AM
No offence Rex pal but your threads are rather depressing to read. The advice given to you is not going to change, just get cut, and go and fucking meet people.
I have no idea how one cannot even secure dates with women, if they are not autistic or have a complete disfigurement. Facially I'm only average but when I was going out and doing stuff regularly (which I'm not currently doing) then I would always find opportunities with women, just by talking to them and charming them. It's not rocket science.
If you have to, shag a fatty or even an absolute hambeast worthy of a place on the 'Most busted lizard you ever poked' thread. Or even buy a prostitute.
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06-24-2017, 11:08 AM
Has OP been to a psychologist to try and tease out what's making him so averse to sticking with any given woman?
If he's 42, and he knows he should've had a girlfriend by now, but he hasn't, this isn't a Hit the Gym!™ and Approach 10 Women!™ thing.
I don't think an internet forum is qualified to fix this for you, OP. You need to go try 3 different psychologists, who know the human brain, and have direct one-on-one live conversation with them, choose the smartest one, and then spend a bunch of hours with him trying to tease out what the root of the problem is.
Have you done that? If so post here why you felt it wasn't successful.
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06-24-2017, 11:25 AM
But I guess too answer your question, do you work with a lot of girls?
About 80% of the guys I know got their girlfriend through work.
I guess just be friendly and fun with every girl you know, and ask them out for a drink at some point. Show your intent, hope they find you attractive looking and try to sleep with them, and then just 'fall' into a boyfriend/girlfriend situation?
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06-24-2017, 11:40 AM
haha! It's just what worked for most guys I know.
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06-24-2017, 12:49 PM
I have no idea about Rex's financial status. But this is a prime case of a guy who needs to move to a third world place and just get easy lays for a long period of time.
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06-24-2017, 02:58 PM
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Has OP been to a psychologist to try and tease out what's making him so averse to sticking with any given woman?
That last (and only) girl left me, because I was against
teh gheyzzz.
If only you knew how bad things really are.
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06-24-2017, 03:03 PM
Quote: (06-24-2017 12:49 PM)lavidaloca Wrote:
I have no idea about Rex's financial status. But this is a prime case of a guy who needs to move to a third world place and just get easy lays for a long period of time.
How exactly is this a prime case for easy 3rd world sex? He's complaining about not having a girlfriend, not about getting laid.
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06-24-2017, 03:04 PM
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Has OP been to a psychologist to try and tease out what's making him so averse to sticking with any given woman?
That last (and only) girl left me, because I was against teh gheyzzz.
Well the last girl I was with frowned upon me for being too tolerant of them.
Me. Maybe you should visit Mexico.
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06-24-2017, 03:24 PM
^ Hundreds of lays "under your belt" has never been an antidote to loneliness.
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06-24-2017, 03:29 PM
Just make women (and men) feel comfortable around you, no stupid jokes and stupid arguments. Easy as that. I reeinforce that you might have to rethink about your social skills and do something about it. But I understand it is easier said than done. There was some hatred towards a thread about "most guys are not made for the player lifestyle", but it is an interesting perspective, while in your case being a player is not what is in question, I see a pattern with many guys nowadays who have authistic tendencies, this is probably due to very protective upbringings, safe spaces, tv, videogames and overall nowadays enetertainment. Not saying it is your case, but any individual with some social skills, and like I think it is your case, in reasonable shape and not bad looking, should not have issues to find a woman once in a while. You can skype me, or whatsapp or viber whenever you want. And maybe I can give you some better advice and tips, from the perspective of an european guy.
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06-24-2017, 04:28 PM
You seem to following 'game' too formulaicely and it looks to me like you dont really understand and havent really experienced many of emotions and dynamics behind the interactions. You say in your other threads you met some girl and the interaction went in such and such a way. Thats too general.
You dont even know, or just havent told us what went wrong with the girl you mentioned in the OP. What happened there? That is more important that all the little one-time interactions you've had because you both knew each other for a few months. You should know what type of girl she was, what she wanted in her life, how you fit into that, can she get better than you, is the relationship progressing etc?
I mean, didnt it even hurt when she broke it off? Didnt that hurt your ego? If it didnt then I think you might have some serious issues. Ego is big part of it and the desire to preserve your ego is what pushes us to dominate girls emotionally and psychologically. If you can do that, or atleast want to do that, then you are on the right track.
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06-24-2017, 04:55 PM
No, she was the second of two.
If only you knew how bad things really are.
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06-24-2017, 06:06 PM
Hey Rex,
I'm basically the same age as you, and I've never really had a girlfriend either. So cheer up.
Now, in all the threads and whatnot, I don't see anyone giving you this most crucial piece of advice:
Just be yourself!
Thank me later.
Aloha!
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06-24-2017, 06:11 PM
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Can you expound on this? Why did she consider you to be that?
She didn't. It's all in the other thread. I said I was against gay marriage and she didn't like that.
If only you knew how bad things really are.