[Comte De St. Germain]

Uncle TK is dropping some tough love. I'd highly suggest listening to what he's saying and make a concerted effort to change that mindset and attitude of yours.

[Mercenary]

OP claims his girl's boyfriend is stalking him on RVF and posting screenshots.

Despite this dangerous doxing and potential threat to OP's identity being revealed to the world, he keeps posting on RVF and even starts a thread asking us for "help".

[Travel Museums]

(06-20-2017 09:07 AM)Jetset Wrote:  

(06-20-2017 08:50 AM)Travel Museums Wrote:  

Hence trying out south america. this time tomorrow i'll be dealing with fat tattooed brazilians with pig nose rings. hopefully they wont be too annoyed i dont speak any Portuguese and am leaving soon.

You must need to associate with a better class of Brazilians.

You've idealized this woman beyond all reason, when she's a near-NEET banging some other dude for beer money. There are tons of self-esteem problems here that, as has already been said, are on course to get you in a lot of trouble. You keep trying to convince yourself that she's your best option, but the subtext of your words is that she's something you found in the bottom of a barrel.

thats what my options look like based on tinder. hope im pleasantly surprised.

im not idealizing her. ive gone out of my way to point out all the positives AND negatives. The real issue is i have yet to meet a woman 20-40 who has her own time and money to travel around the world. even with me giving her some nice perks like free airfare or whatever. a few come close but they annoy me. or like this chick have other issues.

i just recognize that there's always going to be some trade off. if it's another dude she wants to fleece, what's that to me? my relationship predates him. and ive told them both i don't think it's a good relationship but you're adults so do what you want. im not the love police. im going to live my life and date other girls. never lied about that either.

i notice that most users who do the prolonged epic travel thing usually stop posting after awhile. wondering how much this may or may not have to do with it.

[Jetset]

(06-20-2017 09:20 AM)Travel Museums Wrote:  

im not idealizing her. ive gone out of my way to point out all the positives AND negatives. The real issue is i have yet to meet a woman 20-40 who has her own time and money to travel around the world. even with me giving her some nice perks like free airfare or whatever. a few come close but they annoy me. or like this chick have other issues.

Huh.

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and ive told them both i don't think it's a good relationship but you're adults so do what you want. im not the love police.

No, but you seem to imagine yourself as love's airport baggage screener. Why would you get this involved in her other relationship?

I've banged a few married/attached women, but I didn't befriend their idiot mates and try to give them relationship advice. What were you trying to do here? If a woman was this careless to let him figure it out and then let him contact me with angry, bizarre threatening messages - on her own phone, no less - she'd be gone before she knew what happened.

[Suits]

Having read through this thread, I've reached an official conclusion.

OP is thirsty.

[Ringo]

TM, from the other thread to this one you are crossing the line between terrible game and outright danger.

You ask for advice but ignore everything that is said and rationalize your own behavior.

You waste valuable members' time and efforts.

Sorry man, this girl ain't shit - if you keep looking you'll find a much better one.

You're just lazy, infatuated and probably get off on the risk. Terrible.

[Travel Museums]

yeah i told her to stop giving over her phone. thats weird too. i guess i should have just nexted her. but im really tired of having to cut off every chick i meet. it makes me not want to meet any new chicks.

im not friends with this guy. we kinda became friend or had a friendly exchange for a bit when he was filling me in on stuff from her past. i then told him its not a good idea for us to keep communicating. when he turned stalker i actually had to actively block him.

so i guess this is what happens when you try to keep in touch past one year. interesting.

[Buck Wild]

(06-20-2017 09:38 AM)Ringo Wrote:  

TM, from the other thread to this one you are crossing the line between terrible game and outright danger.

You ask for advice but ignore everything that is said and rationalize your own behavior.

You waste valuable members' time and efforts.

Sorry man, this girl ain't shit - if you keep looking you'll find a much better one.

You're just lazy, infatuated and probably get off on the risk. Terrible.

The old folks have a saying where I'm from: a hard head makes for a soft ass. This OP is completely uncoachable and when you get a nigga like this it's best to fallback a bit and let him make the mistakes he's determined to make.

[TravelerKai]

(06-20-2017 09:11 AM)Travel Museums Wrote:  

i did worry about posting detailed travel accounts in the data sheets. but i saw so many people doing it. that was something that was suggested by other senior members as the best way to connect and contribute with the community. now you're saying it was stupid?

I don't think i even mentioned being on this site at all. just supposing it as a possibility. if it was it was probably once in an hour long video when i was trying to recall where i heard a travel tip or something like that. as for being doxxed. doubtful. this guy works for an intl humanitarian organization. i dont think theyd be happy he has a money girl. it's his job, visa, property, lifes work, and repuation on the line. he is the one in the illegal situation. plus he is nuts over this girl. you think he wants he plastered on the web as a money girl. he'd ruin her life.

i agree though that at this point it's easiest to just cut it off. she messaged me asking what a 9/10 meant. she thinks it means there is one prettier girl. its nonsensical trying to go into all that. its so weird.

Making detailed datasheets do not get dudes doxxed. Nobody, that I am aware of at least, got doxxed over a datasheet that did not have pics of girls in it. I don't know who you asked to review your datasheet, but it certainly wasn't me or anyone else I have asked to review any of mine before posting one.

Do you know what was in your sheet that got you doxxed? Doesn't seem like it at first glance because you still do not know how that dude caught you in the first place! So why are you trying to deflect blame on the forum for being an idiot? You got mixed up with some dude and his bitch, then when dude finds dirt on you, you blame RVF?

I bet you I know what happened. In one of your conversations with that guy you probably spoke too much or used RVF like terms or stories you posted about previously (like your example of 9/10 told to that chick). Dude probably Googled that and caught you. Maybe you two talked about getting her a US visa. As cringeworthy as that sounds, I would not give you the benefit of the doubt based upon what you have already written.

You could have also logged in on this woman's device or PC/laptop. Maybe she found it on yours. An LM Mcoy situation is very likely here.

Regardless, if you are not intelligent enough to figure out how they found you, you certainly are not fit nor qualified to place blame on the community for getting found.

Take some responsibility for your actions for once.

[Comte De St. Germain]

(06-20-2017 09:41 AM)Travel Museums Wrote:  

yeah i told her to stop giving over her phone. thats weird too. i guess i should have just nexted her. but im really tired of having to cut off every chick i meet. it makes me not want to meet any new chicks.

[Suits]

OP just wants us to commiserate and agree that bitches are responsible for all the evil in the world.

The last thing he wants to do is put in the hard work to improve himself so as to stop fucking up.

[zatara]

Shes a part time hooker / full time gold digger who lives thousands of miles away from you. Why are you talking to her, or thinking about her, at all? Get some self respect, cut all contact, and move on.

This is some desperate one-itis shit right here. And even worse its for a bottom of the barrel woman.

[TravelerKai]

(06-20-2017 09:37 AM)Suits Wrote:  

Having read through this thread, I've reached an official conclusion.

OP is thirsty.

[PapayaTapper]

Another fucking thread about this shit? OP is

[Exult]

So he found your username and posts on this site and your response is to make more posts about the situation for him to see lol. OK

[Suits]

[churros]

(06-20-2017 06:30 AM)Travel Museums Wrote:  

I was able to retire in my 20s. I can afford to travel full-time because I stick to a budget. I have money in the bank. But I'm not touching my principle to dole out support payments to women. Nor so I can have an extra grand/month to "baller" in Bangkok.

Did you write a data sheet on how you did this?

The advice here is already spot-on, but judging by your responses, you are evading the truth. The matter is quite simple. You don't involve ever yourself with gold-diggers, of any calibre, not even exceptions.

This is not a game situation. This is a practical situation, so hard next.

Edit: learn game, and stop relying on your finances.

[Travel Museums]

Pile on guys. Jeese

Never logged into her devices. Never posted identifying info of anyone I met. No pics.

Not blaming RVF. Just pointing out that I made a thread about how it can be isolating traveling internationally fulltime. It's hard to connect with like minded people. Maybe I should get a travel buddy to try the baller lifestyle blah blah. The responses were to keep traveling alone but try to contribute more on data sheets and connect with other members.

I'm not a master pick up artist. I never claim to be. I fuck up like anyone. I posted to hear constructive criticism and share my experience with others.

I knew I'd catch hell and what the responses would be. I was hoping maybe a few people would share having gone through this. I can't be the only guy on RVF to ever have feelings and keep in touch with a woman. Whether or not it ended well.

No one in my personal life has much perspective on this kind of thing. Most just want to live in NY or LA and do the same thing year after year.

I guess I have to except that I either settle down in one place or have to cut off every girl I get close to. Neither one sits well with me. But that's the general consensus?

[Suits]

(06-20-2017 10:13 AM)Exult Wrote:  

So he found your username and posts on this site and your response is to make more posts about the situation for him to see lol. OK

[TravelerKai]

(06-20-2017 10:30 AM)Travel Museums Wrote:  

Pile on guys. Jeese

Never logged into her devices. Never posted identifying info of anyone I met. No pics.

Not blaming RVF. Just pointing out that I made a thread about how it can be isolating traveling internationally fulltime. It's hard to connect with like minded people. Maybe I should get a travel buddy to try the baller lifestyle blah blah. The responses were to keep traveling alone but try to contribute more on data sheets and connect with other members.

I'm not a master pick up artist. I never claim to be. I fuck up like anyone. I posted to hear constructive criticism and share my experience with others.

I knew I'd catch hell and what the responses would be. I was hoping maybe a few people would share having gone through this. I can't be the only guy on RVF to ever have feelings and keep in touch with a woman. Whether or not it ended well.

No one in my personal life has much perspective on this kind of thing. Most just want to live in NY or LA and do the same thing year after year.

I guess I have to except that I either settle down in one place or have to cut off every girl I get close to. Neither one sits well with me. But that's the general consensus?

Dude there are at least 1 to 2 Oneitis Threads every week here! If you do not see one on page 1, do not assume there are not any on page two and start another thread just to see if anyone else can empathize with you. You can always go into the newbie section, swallow your pride and read the same stuff more or less. If that fails, use the search button.

The truth is that you started this thread for either sympathy or validation for your feelings and got neither.

[Suits]

(06-20-2017 10:30 AM)Travel Museums Wrote:  

I was hoping maybe a few people would share having gone through this. I can't be the only guy on RVF to ever have feelings and keep in touch with a woman.

Not just any woman. A fucking gold-digger who out gamed you by a mile and a half.

[Travel Museums]

Nope. I asked if anyone every had been found out on RVF. That was the point of THIS thread.

I did make another thread where I whine like a little bitch about my hard on for this particular girl and how she's my soulmate blah blah.

[churros]

Frankly this is some real newb shit. You better get on that data sheet if you want help with game.

Edit: In defence of OP he posted good material on investing in other threads, so he deserves some patience.

[Suits]

(06-20-2017 10:46 AM)Travel Museums Wrote:  

Nope. I asked if anyone every had been found out on RVF. That was the point of THIS thread.

OP, are you saying that this thread is not going in the direction you were hoping for?

[Mercenary]

Well, seeing how OP doesn't seem to care at all that his real identity is possibly compromised due to his continuing posts here, I'm now waiting for the girl's boyfriend to create an RVF account and start "stalking" him in this thread.