[nola]

The current girl I'm seeing regularly is bi-sexual and really into threesomes. She is pushing hard for me to find a 2nd girlfriend for both of us. This is proving to be very difficult in EE. To be honest I'm not really pushing back on the idea just failing miserably at accomplishing the task.

Currently I'm still in Moldova and while the girls are a bit less traditional than Ukraine it's proving impossible.

I naturally have not been getting good responses proposing this type of arrangement. Few girls went absolutely ballistic which was entertaining to say the least but did not result in acceptance no matter how I explained it.

I've tried getting her to join in the hunt but the prospects she has brought to the table don't pass my boner test. She also has stated she'd prefer me to be the one to set everything up anyway.

She is not really into just hooking up with random girls and wants it to be the type of situation where we go out together and all sleep together.

I've hit a wall in ideas of how to do this. I'm sure it would be easier if it was just some one time hookup situation with random girls. In her mind it's got to be a plural relationship kinda thing.

This is a situation I've personally never been in. If anyone has experience with this in a more traditional part of the world your advice would be much appreciated.

Note: The other girl can't be acting full lesbian. She has expressed her interest in watching me fuck the other girl.

---- Also this girl is 23 which is over a decade my junior so I'm on the cusp of struggling to land girls under 25 much less proposing such a strange arrangement to them.

[Beirut]

She should be able to set it up. Usually they have a bunch of girls that they've been fucking since teenage years around. Or she can go to a bar and I imagine it'd be easy.

One guy here has had a girl do that plenty of times. I imagine it'd take next level game or luck for you to be able to reliably initiate that with a new girl as opposed to her.

[FenyoLuc]

I dont know how, it not gonna be me who will answer this. I just ask: do you want it too? Or is it just her? Cause if you don twant it then dont do it

[nola]

(05-12-2018 08:00 AM)Beirut Wrote:  

She should be able to set it up. Usually they have a bunch of girls that they've been fucking since teenage years around. Or she can go to a bar and I imagine it'd be easy.

One guy here has had a girl do that plenty of times. I imagine it'd take next level game or luck for you to be able to reliably initiate that with a new girl as opposed to her.

She has brought some SJW or hipster looking girls to the table, colored hair - stupid tats - bull ring types with good figures at least. She looks much more traditional and I'm not down fucking girls with the SJW or hipster look. She has also expressed more interest in traditional looking girls.

I think it is part of her fetish for the guy to arrange the relationship. She get's weird when I push her to find the girl.

Also she is looking for more of a we all cook together, go out together and sleep together kinda thing. It's not just pure sexual fantasy.

[Beirut]

Oh Moldova. Thought you were in Ukraine. I don't know then. It's only ever happened with Ukrainian girls.

Just do it together and let her stop being a bitch. There's a guy here in Barcelona who drags his girl to bars and she games her heart out for the dude.ive seen them 3 times already

[nola]

(05-12-2018 08:23 AM)Beirut Wrote:  

Oh Moldova. Thought you were in Ukraine. I don't know then. It's only ever happened with Ukrainian girls.

Just do it together and let her stop being a bitch. There's a guy here in Barcelona who drags his girl to bars and she games her heart out for the dude.ive seen them 3 times already

I live in Ukraine, just doing some business here in Moldova for the time being.

Yeah... this girl has no game, she is super shy and just sits and drinks tea in silence when we go out. If I bring a girl over she barely opens her mouth. It's pretty frustrating to be honest. A few forum members have met her and can verify her boring public persona even though she is a total freak during sex.

She is super into strip clubs so I've tried this route but they were all wanting to just go pro and sex only. Don't know why I expected it to be different but was worth a college try.

Kinda sucks because I would love to have this arrangement as she is also open to more then one girl but I can't even land the first one so I'm getting a bit ahead of myself.

This appears to be a reverse cuckold situation where she wants me to cuck her with other chicks.

Funny and possibly pretty important side note: Both her parents are Georgian Hari Krishna's, I don't know if this is some weird religious thing. She claims her dad asked if I had found another girl yet. So I might be fucking around with some cult shit. I've been googling it with fury.

[Beirut]

Nola maybe meet some girls and hook up with them or have them really hooked before you bring it up to them. No idea how that shit works

[superiorClimber]

Let me chime in directly having met this girl over at nola's place
She's definitely a weird mix -- very traditional looking, quiet, art student. We hung out at a bar with another couple, and she didn't say a word until someone brought up the idea of going to a strip club. She comes off as a total homebody - drinks absolutely no alcohol, doesn't like to go out that much.
She pulled up paintings she did of semi-trucks.
She sends txts all day long, directly asking for sex.

It would be pretty normal if she was in the US or Western Europe, but she's in Moldova...not an easy place to arrange for specific sexual arrangements like this.

[nola]

(05-12-2018 08:44 AM)Beirut Wrote:  

Nola maybe meet some girls and hook up with them or have them really hooked before you bring it up to them. No idea how that shit works

That's a interesting strategy and worth a try. Let me lay another weird thing on you. She is not pleased when I tell her about other girls I'm fucking which is currently only one at the moment. But she does express interest in meeting, hooking up and likes her look.

The problem is this other girl is in Kharkov, Ukraine so doesn't do me much good here. And I'm sure my other girl would attempt or successfully murder me if I brought it up. The girl in Ukraine already attempted to have my entry scan deleted from the system in to keep me from leaving the country and also piled bricks in from of my flat door to trap me inside because she was suspicious of me seeing other girls. That's a whole other unrelated story.

I'm kinda scared to bang a girl here then say yo you want to meet up with my steady girlfriend and have a plural relationship.?

[Beirut]

Lol man any special reason you keep ltr-ing headcases ? I have a soft spot for hot broken girls but geez. How does a girl even do those two things

[nola]

(05-12-2018 09:25 AM)Beirut Wrote:  

Lol man any special reason you keep ltr-ing headcases ? I have a soft spot for hot broken girls but geez. How does a girl even do those two things

Personally I'm a very bad judge of character when it comes to women. I'm a bit slow on the ball as it takes me a few fucks to get them to pull off the mask. I'm proactively working on this issue but to no avail.

I don't really consider any girls I see as ltr's because it's not my intention to keep them around long term. I usually just let them ride until my aloof behavior or lack of communication finally causes them to ghost or dump me. This is always my goal when I'm done with a girl or she pushes me too far.

I've found that dumping girls in my personal experience results in a level of female insanity that I could start a separate thread about, because I've never figured out how to dump a girl with my words properly.