How do you deal with your GF's misbehavior?
@bk19xsa
Yeah, that probably pissed her off. That text was essentially putting out the vibe you should have been putting off the whole time - I don't need you, you're fucking things up it gives her exactly 3 options, fight with you, apologize, or ghost. Your best shot was being able to reset the frame if she fought with you or apologized. She may just go ghost, she may come back and apologize, but I would not hold out for it - I don't think you laid down the ground work and game early enough for that line to work in your favor, unless you count losing this broke bitch as your favor which honestly I would. All this rationalizing you're doing is completely useless. You're asking all these questions about the whys and hows but you know enough to discern a few basic things - she tested you with the sex and gas thing and you failed - you pussy begged and gave into her gas demands. This kills attraction. You attempted a frame reset and she deleted you off facebook. I hate to say this man but that girl has more game than you, you see what she's doing? She's doing exactly what you should be doing. *boop* *delete* *next simp*. If she's sitting there thinking half as much about you as you are her she WILL hit you back up. If she doesn't, that's your answer she doesn't give a shit why should you?
Unless you want to be paying this girls gas bills and taking shit from her I would go radio silent, forget this girl. If she re-initializes cool, reset into Dominance frame. If you don't know what I'm talking about read up: Sex God Method, Rationale Male, even Iceburg Slim's PIMP wouldn't hurt just to get you out of that beta provider mindset.
The reason you're having a hard time understanding her doing these things when it seems so fucking bizarre is you're using male logic AKA logic AKA reason AKA rationale thinking. She's using female logic AKA hamsterizing AKA emotion AKA feelings. Let's do a little thought exercise bare with me
Imagine you went on a date with this girl right. She was pretty but not more than a 6or7/10. So you guys laughed and had a good time and you went home and banged her. You went on a another date, banged her again. You stopped going on dates and started hanging out at eachothers houses doing regular domestic stuff right, then you started to notice she had kind of a bad attitude, but you're still banging so it's chill (really you should have corrected her attitude from incident fucking 1, but this isn't part of the exercise). Her attitude started getting on your nerves a little but once again still banging so chill. Then one day you come home from work she's in your apartment bathroom passed out covered in her own shit feces and vomit with 3 tubs of empty ice cream on the counter and in this surreal fucked up scene you noticed she gained 10 pounds since you met her only a month ago. Nasty right, you'd probably ghost the fuck out of that girl because you lost attraction and her attitude was shitty. Now you might, maybe, if you're a very generous man roofied yourself to forget that nasty scene and get that bitch on a treadmill if she had a good personality and attitude. And if you hadn't of seen that fucked up mess you might've kept banging her and dealt with the attitude (again, fucking don't do this IRL).
Now switch stances. Let's apply this to your situation. The fucked up apartment bathroom scene is you failing her shit tests, you stop being attractive to her shit test by shit test until there's nothing left in the attraction department. The shitty attitude is you cutting her off from fun new experiences/money/favors. So now she has a man who she's not attracted to, and isn't simping for her anymore. She needs attractive dick and she needs dough, where does that put you? Follow me?
You lost her attraction and stopped having utility, that's why she's doing what she's doing. It's really not worth thinking about further than that, I encourage you to forget about it.
I encourage you to read more game literature as well, maybe get off the SA for a while and attract a girl via genuine regular old wit and game and leave money and fake promises of money out of it for a little while so you can learn how to get your dominance, frame, and relationship skills under control. I'm getting the feeling that you're good at leveraging your resources to get bangs but not good at fundamentals.
Yeah, that probably pissed her off. That text was essentially putting out the vibe you should have been putting off the whole time - I don't need you, you're fucking things up it gives her exactly 3 options, fight with you, apologize, or ghost. Your best shot was being able to reset the frame if she fought with you or apologized. She may just go ghost, she may come back and apologize, but I would not hold out for it - I don't think you laid down the ground work and game early enough for that line to work in your favor, unless you count losing this broke bitch as your favor which honestly I would. All this rationalizing you're doing is completely useless. You're asking all these questions about the whys and hows but you know enough to discern a few basic things - she tested you with the sex and gas thing and you failed - you pussy begged and gave into her gas demands. This kills attraction. You attempted a frame reset and she deleted you off facebook. I hate to say this man but that girl has more game than you, you see what she's doing? She's doing exactly what you should be doing. *boop* *delete* *next simp*. If she's sitting there thinking half as much about you as you are her she WILL hit you back up. If she doesn't, that's your answer she doesn't give a shit why should you?
Unless you want to be paying this girls gas bills and taking shit from her I would go radio silent, forget this girl. If she re-initializes cool, reset into Dominance frame. If you don't know what I'm talking about read up: Sex God Method, Rationale Male, even Iceburg Slim's PIMP wouldn't hurt just to get you out of that beta provider mindset.
The reason you're having a hard time understanding her doing these things when it seems so fucking bizarre is you're using male logic AKA logic AKA reason AKA rationale thinking. She's using female logic AKA hamsterizing AKA emotion AKA feelings. Let's do a little thought exercise bare with me
Imagine you went on a date with this girl right. She was pretty but not more than a 6or7/10. So you guys laughed and had a good time and you went home and banged her. You went on a another date, banged her again. You stopped going on dates and started hanging out at eachothers houses doing regular domestic stuff right, then you started to notice she had kind of a bad attitude, but you're still banging so it's chill (really you should have corrected her attitude from incident fucking 1, but this isn't part of the exercise). Her attitude started getting on your nerves a little but once again still banging so chill. Then one day you come home from work she's in your apartment bathroom passed out covered in her own shit feces and vomit with 3 tubs of empty ice cream on the counter and in this surreal fucked up scene you noticed she gained 10 pounds since you met her only a month ago. Nasty right, you'd probably ghost the fuck out of that girl because you lost attraction and her attitude was shitty. Now you might, maybe, if you're a very generous man roofied yourself to forget that nasty scene and get that bitch on a treadmill if she had a good personality and attitude. And if you hadn't of seen that fucked up mess you might've kept banging her and dealt with the attitude (again, fucking don't do this IRL).
Now switch stances. Let's apply this to your situation. The fucked up apartment bathroom scene is you failing her shit tests, you stop being attractive to her shit test by shit test until there's nothing left in the attraction department. The shitty attitude is you cutting her off from fun new experiences/money/favors. So now she has a man who she's not attracted to, and isn't simping for her anymore. She needs attractive dick and she needs dough, where does that put you? Follow me?
You lost her attraction and stopped having utility, that's why she's doing what she's doing. It's really not worth thinking about further than that, I encourage you to forget about it.
I encourage you to read more game literature as well, maybe get off the SA for a while and attract a girl via genuine regular old wit and game and leave money and fake promises of money out of it for a little while so you can learn how to get your dominance, frame, and relationship skills under control. I'm getting the feeling that you're good at leveraging your resources to get bangs but not good at fundamentals.
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