I tend to be very meticulous and petty in relationship about little but inappropriate things [to me] my GF [every GF I had] says and does towards me. For example, I called her out when she started texting me some passive aggressive remarks after I didn't call her back for some time. Or when she didn't take care of her stuff out of pure laziness, losing documents, forgetting phone, and feeling OK with it. Stuff like that.
Stuff like that.
To be honest I do it out of fear of getting it out of control. You know as they say, give them a finger, they'll take the whole hand, power corrupts, etc. I've seen some examples of confident men turning into passive wimps in their relationship just because they ignored certain symptoms, allowed their women for too much and slowly but surely let their GF/wifes walk over them in the end.
The good thing was that after every thing like that she knew what she did wrong and rarely repeated it. She knew exactly what would happen when she cross the line again.
The bad thing of course was that we argued more than we should have, but who really knows what's the "good" threshold.
Do you tend to let shit slide or you stay alert calling out everything?
On one hand it can be viewed as "cool" when you don't react to bullshit cause you're above and beyond the bullshit and little things do not get to you. On the other hand man of value with self respect expects the best and does not tolerate any bullshit.
Where's the sweet spot?
Stuff like that.
To be honest I do it out of fear of getting it out of control. You know as they say, give them a finger, they'll take the whole hand, power corrupts, etc. I've seen some examples of confident men turning into passive wimps in their relationship just because they ignored certain symptoms, allowed their women for too much and slowly but surely let their GF/wifes walk over them in the end.
The good thing was that after every thing like that she knew what she did wrong and rarely repeated it. She knew exactly what would happen when she cross the line again.
The bad thing of course was that we argued more than we should have, but who really knows what's the "good" threshold.
Do you tend to let shit slide or you stay alert calling out everything?
On one hand it can be viewed as "cool" when you don't react to bullshit cause you're above and beyond the bullshit and little things do not get to you. On the other hand man of value with self respect expects the best and does not tolerate any bullshit.
Where's the sweet spot?