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It's called colonialism. Actual in history, and mental with what you see in Hollywood movies and porn.

This bitch-made attitude would've been exactly like how Blacks in America would've been like pre civil rights. In fact it hasn't changed too much cause i still see a lot of black ladies going for white guys.

But i agree, it's pathetic that the men have to endure such humiliation.
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Quote: (12-28-2016 05:03 PM)Joeno Wrote:  

It's called colonialism. Actual in history, and mental with what you see in Hollywood movies and porn.

This bitch-made attitude would've been exactly like how Blacks in America would've been like pre civil rights. In fact it hasn't changed too much cause i still see a lot of black ladies going for white guys.

LOL you see more (usually well hung) black dudes tapping white ass in porn than vice versa.

Blacks are probably the least bitch-made overall. The NFL and professional sports where blacks dominate, demonstrates that amply and daily.

Historically, black groups have repeatedly fought whites in numerous wars (read up on the Haitian Revolution, Isandlwana, Adowa etc), sometimes with primitive, outdated weapons and not giving a fuck.

Black people are not bitches. Everyone knows black people throw down lol.
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Quote: (12-28-2016 02:14 PM)Dusty Wrote:  

I think hapa girls have life by the balls. Their chance of looking hot is very high. It seems to be tougher for hapa guys. Some do turn out to be attractive (Kona )but a lot do not.

Fixed that for you.

I am hapa. The whole family is. A true-to-the-word hapa has to have Polynesian in them.

My sister is an example of a hapa girl with life by the balls. She attends a fancy California college and has perfect grades in a stem program.

She has the exoticness factor plus the minority credentials going.

I can't comment on the straight white/Asian mix because we factor in the Polynesian traits. I think my whole family has the perfect blend that balances out the Samoan fatness with Japanese/Filipino.

I also can't comment on how I was treated as a child because I come from the land of the hapa, where we are the majority.

Once I went away to college, most white folks assumed I was a tall Mexican. I had to explain my ethnicity, and the Hawaiian factor is always a positive. My looks, once explained, led to many fantastic encounters with girls, but horrible ones with cops.

The thread where I put up some pictures is linked already. So check those girls out.

In my opinion, Samseau (no relation to Junior) put it best, that attractiveness will trump all.

And by the way "looking for a wife" translated to under 25 hapa girl lingo is "taking her to the BAE area." I don't make the rules.

Aloha!
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As long as you respect Asian people and culture and are not racist or hold extremist views, I think an arrangement like this could work. This means giving your kids a balanced upbringing and if you do have a male child, teach him game and let him experience success with women early so he isn't handicapped later in life.

If you do harbor some 'alt-right' sentiments and decide to go through with a mixed marriage, you need to be very prudent about how your children will perceive you. An old fart neo-Nazi and a Thai bargirl do not make for well-adjusted kids.

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I always thought Kona was black.

Take care of those titties for me.
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#56

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Typical Jewish abc propaganda.

STOP WHITE GENOCIDE

Have a baby with a wonderful, beautiful e.e. girl. Don't dilute your heritage. Diversity and feminism is the two headed Jewish snake, which causes literally all the problems we talk about on here. It's why the Western countries suck more, why they're more reserved.
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Quote: (12-28-2016 02:14 PM)Dusty Wrote:  

I think hapa girls have life by the balls. Their chance of looking hot is very high. It seems to be tougher for hapa guys. Some do turn out to be attractive (Keanu Reeves) but a lot do not. A lot of the guys may have decent faces, but are small, not just height, but narrow shoulders and not a masculine build ( eg, Elliot Rodgers).

This is confirmation bias, you being a straight man only check out the hotter hapa girls and hardly look at the guys and the uglier girls.

Knowing enough of them socially, their chance of being attractive - for the girls or guys - is about the same. Often they are more attractive than both of their parents though. That son in your photo, despite not being the most handsome fella around, is better looking than his white dad who looked like he fell off the ugly tree and got slapped hard by his disappointed parents at birth.

Being into powerlifting and boxing, I know plenty of tall big hapa guys who do really well with attractive girls despite (being typical of Aussies) having no game.

The slight build you see in Asian or half Asian guys is because those guys don't lift or play any sport. The ones who do tend to build muscles very easily without getting fat. Two of my Viet friends in powerlifting and boxing are around 6-6'2" and used to be about 130~140lb soaking wet as teenagers. Now they're both around 220lb lean. There are also plenty of smaller ones who are similar with muscle building, myself included.
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Quote: (12-28-2016 06:33 PM)Dusty Wrote:  

I always thought Kona was black.

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He's not?!
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OP, I don't think the question of whether a mixed-race child will be discriminated against is the most important issue here. Sure, it is an important issue, as you want your children to grow up being accepted by the larger community. But in my opinion, racial discrimination by others should not be the biggest problem in the world, at least if you are living in the US.

The reason why I, personally, would prefer not to have children with a non-white woman (I am white/half Jewish) is because I want to have children who look like me and have a similar genetic makeup to me.

I remember a conversation I had with my Italian grandmother recently. I asked her if she knew where all her ancestors were from, and she responded with the name of a town near Genoa, Italy. I responded "What about the rest of your ancestors? They can't all be from that town, right?" And she responded that they were, in fact, all from the same town. And then it dawned on me that it was the norm throughout the vast majority of human history for all of one's ancestors to have been from the same town, let alone country. I then asked my grandmother if all of my grandfather's ancestors came from the same town, and she told me that they all came from the same town in Basque Country (northern Spain).

Considering that what I just described was the norm throughout most of history, I would worry about what kind of effect it would have mixed-race (half-white, half-Asian) children if their mother and father come from opposite sides of the world, from cultures so vastly different from one another. I would be more worried about the child dealing with internal identity issues than external ones. What would it feel like if you looked nothing like your mother or your father? Every time you spent time with your extended family from either side, you would be seen as the outsider. During family get-togethers, everyone at the table would look similar to each other and share a cultural identity, except for you.

My wife, who I plan on starting a family with, happens to be of similar genetic makeup as me. Like me, she also has Italian and Basque ancestry. However, I did not know this when I met her. In fact, I did not know she had Italian blood until relatively recently. However, I don't think this was merely a coincidence. I think one of the reasons I was drawn to her (and her to me) was because of our similar genetic makeup. I think it is simply in our nature to look for husbands/wives who are genetically similar to us, because that is what we did for the vast majority of human history.

As for the whole white-worship thing that goes on in Asian cultures (especially among Asian women), I believe it is a recent cultural phenomenon based on the fact that whites are perceived to have more money and higher status. I once had a Thai girl I went out with tell me that people back in Thailand tell her she is ugly because her skin is too dark (her skin wasn't even all that dark). If I were Asian, I would surely be offended by the way Asian women seem to worship whites, and by the way white culture in general is worshipped. Then again, maybe I am oversimplifying the situation. I am not Asian, so maybe someone who is Asian (or has lived in east Asia) can explain this phenomenon better than I can.
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Quote: (12-28-2016 01:06 AM)Samseau Wrote:  

Lots of speculation but this is actually an easy topic.

If you want to race mix without your children suffering negative consequences, you need to use your race to your advantage. No slumming it.

Yup, I agree. I think there is a certain set of white male loser types that think: I don't want to act like a man, might as well get a submissive wife from Asia who will make up for my lack of masculinity and self-worth. These are the types of guys who slum it, and I think the kids suffer. Those kids would also suffer if the schlubby white dude married some white chick, and watched their mom henpeck him to death for his bitch behavior.

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So if you're a White guy seeking children with non-Whites, you should be punching anywhere from 1-3 points higher than your same race equivalent depending on the race. I would say, as a White man, if you're dating...

...a Hispanic woman, at least 1 point higher.
...an Asian woman, at least 2 points higher.
...a Black woman, at least 3 points higher.

In my experience if you follow that guide, your mixed race kids will be so attractive no one cares about their race. Beauty trumps all. Elliot Rodgers was the product of a pretty average looking Chinese woman. The Dad slummed it, was an absent father, and Eliot paid the price.

I agree with your guidelines. Selectiveness is key. Picking a wife is a one-off opportunity. You don't get a do-over on getting it right. I filter with extreme prejudice and encourage all men to do likewise. I think that is especially true if you are dating outside of your race. As a tall, relatively good looking white man in Asia, I can easily punch above my weight for girls in terms of attractiveness and age difference. If I went to the Philippines and and married the first 5.5 that paid attention to me, yes, I think that slumming it would produce adverse effects. Without being a total eugenicist, I'm well aware that a mother's genes are linked to her beauty. There's no point in not getting the best deal you can make, regardless of her race. I've not attracted to the overwhelmingly majority of black women, for instance. I'd make some exceptions to Ethiopian women. This is all based solely upon looks. I want to raise my children Catholic, so finding a Catholic (or Orthodox) woman is key. Values and upbringing matter to me as much as beauty. They go hand in hand for a wife search IMO.

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And by the way, it works in reverse with White women as well. How frequently do you see Black men dating White women 2 points or more below their own race value? Asian guys I rarely see with White chicks unless they are very successful, but they can still get Black chicks at above market value or other Asian women at equal value (from Asia). Same shit with Hispanic men, punching a bit below their weight just for the coveted White genes.

Very true. Most black dudes here in the United States date white women below their own attractiveness. The exceptions I've noticed tend to be really successful black guys who have a popular following or swagger. Think DJ's, athletes, models, etc. It is hard for black guys in the United States to punch above their weight with white women, without other mitigating factors. Given that the overwhelming majority of black women in the United States are either overweight or outright obese, a chubby white chick might actually be a step up. I don't envy the average black guy's dating options in America.

I live in California, where there's a sizeable Asian population. Overwhelmingly, Asian women date other Asian men or white men. The amount of Asian girls dating or marrying Latinos or blacks is insignificant. It just doesn't happen in any sizable numbers. I'm open to dating a Latina woman, but my filter is set very hard for them given a lot of them and their families are big into left-wing politics, plus with at least Mexican-American girls, they tend not to take care of themselves and get fat. I'd only date a Mexican girl if her mother actually made a point of looking good and staying fit. Slumming it, as you've pointed out, makes no sense.

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At the end of the day, since Whites attract the most attractive of all races, what tends to happen is a great merging of attractive people into one giant K-selected super race... with skin that gets lighter and lighter over time. I've seen this process occur in my Middle Eastern half of the family. We've been race mixing for God knows how long, centuries at least, all sorts of colors in my family, and yet White phenotypes are everywhere.

I've noticed that especially with some of my mixed Lebanese and Persian acquaintances with Euro blood. Both the men and women are extremely attractive. Good genes + compatible cultural values for marriage = Jackpot for wife spot

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The White phenotype is highly desirable, there's no way to sugar coat it, so if you have it you gotta leverage it.

Yup, I agree. No point in being lazy and slumming it. I didn't build my business or exercise in the gym only to punk out and just phone it in for a wife search.

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Quote: (12-28-2016 12:14 AM)Brosemite Wrote:  

^ That was a hidden camera hoax done by professional actors intended to cause an uproar amongst witnesses in a restaurant opposed to what Asian guys actually deal with when meeting the parents of their partners......

That video attempts to make a racial hate victim out of the Asian guy and demonise old country white people at the same time. Pathetic!

My bad, I didn't watch the video to the end, so I missed the part where it was a setup. My mistake for not doing my homework on something a MSM produced. Truly pathetic race baiting bullshit.

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Let me tell you from me and my uncle's examples of dating and marrying white women from rural areas: the meeting with the parents is always very pleasant.

My uncle is married to a Polish woman from some tiny village. He wasn't even Christian. He first met his future parents-in-law at Christmas and brought them some massive ham and fine whiskey for the father. They loved him to bits and wanted their daughter to marry him asap. My uncle would joke that they'd get him to marry their other daughter too if it were possible!

In my social circle I have a lot of Vietnamese and Polish friends. Although they are from radically different parts of the world, there are some serious overlaps. For one, both cultures place extremely strong values on family importance and respect. Both cultures have a tradition of eating together with friends and family a lot as a bonding experience, they both know how to throw a party. Both cultures are very traditional when compared to the rest of the world regarding men's and women's roles within a relationship. Feminism in Poland and Vietnam are minor movements compared to the rot that they are in the West. The Viet's have been fighting people left, right and center for ages. They know what it means to defend themselves. The Poles are a thick-headed bunch (I say that in a loving way) that got those thick skulls from fighting the Nazi's and Commies. I think there's something to be said for people that go through hardship being well-adjusted compared to the pampered spoiled brats that our current soft generation is known for.

Any further insights on your uncles that married white girls? Their marriages and how they make it work? Do they have any kids, and if so, hopefully they were well-raised? Also, once your uncles found these white girls, what country did they end up settling in with their new wife, and how did that home work out for them?

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My wife's entire family live in a tiny Aussie coastal town where it's almost 100% lily white, everyone goes to the same church and knows everyone else. My parents-in-law loved talking to me the first time we met, and at times they almost forgot to talk to their own daughter that they have not seen in a while because she moved to the city. They were a bit surprised that we got engaged relatively quickly compared to the modern "standard" of waiting the better part of a decade, but they couldn't be any happier for their daughter. My father-in-law is very fond of and has great respect for me, he frequently asks me for my guidance in mentoring my brother-in-law who's 20.

Excellent. I think a strong respect of future in-laws is critical to a wife search. Your family must love their family and vice versa. I honestly couldn't fathom marrying a girl from any culture that had parents I either didn't respect, or they didn't respect me.

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I have met a few parents of white girls I considered for serious relationships in the past, and it has always been pleasant. I used to think that it could be like this video from time to time and was looking forward to a similar racist encounter because I love dealing with conflicts, but alas these bloody white parents are always so nice to me!

Well, I sense that you present well, so if someone isn't overly biased, why would they give you a hard time? I expect a girl that is raised well by her parents, regardless of culture, should be respectful of me also. I have a very low threshold for rudeness and don't believe using cultural differences is an excuse for hostility. Classy people are classy regardless of color. Assholes are assholes, avoid them like a toxic plague.

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Bro, but what's your ranking when it comes to Asian women?

I'd put mine as (hottest to ugliest):

Indonesian
Korean
Japanese
Chinese (law of big numbers)
Thai
Malay
SEA-not Thai
Phils

Largely agree, with a few caveats. Indonesian girls can be drop-dead gorgeous. Some of the most exotic beauties you'll ever meet are Indo. Pleasant personalities overall from my limited interaction with them online. Most of them are Suni Islam, but I found a few Christians in the mix. The culture is conservative, so even if they have a rocking body, they aren't going to be flaunting it. Korean women can be quite stunning too, same for Japanese. When you're dealing with higher-end in looks for those groups, they often have truly doll like faces or alternatively rather sharp by tasteful facial structures. How much of that is surgrery in Korea, who knows? Same thing goes for higher-end Chinese girls. All three of these groups for high-end women (not slumming it) I get the impression that they would rather date a high-end alpha from their native country, or at least a very well-versed foreigner in their native language and country. Can it be done? Probably, but I think the hurdle is very high, especially in Korea based upon multiple reports of Korean parents scoffing at their daughters dating white guys, much less a Latino or black. Thai's tend to have a more masculine look to me, not the biggest fan. There are a few that make the exception to the rule, but by and large I'm just not feeling it. Philippines is really slumming it in the looks department unless you date a girl with a lot of Spanish blood in her. Having spent time there, I can confirm that most of the girls, while skinny, have no curves. No chest, no butt and no hips. Very boyish bodies and uniformly average or even harsh faces. It would be an extremely rear Filipina that I found stunning. One wildcard that I think is overlooked is Vietnamese girls. There's a fair split between the have's and have not's in terms of looks. But there are a lot of friendly 6's, 7's and 8's who are interested in finding a boyfriend online. Besides the pleasant personalities, if you like petite women with surprisingly curvy chests with tiny waists and feminine faces, I'd say they are worth looking over.

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With that said, with my time in Korea/Japan the halfie kids who were well adjusted had a definite advantage with the top shelf chicks. On top of fitting in visually they had the opportunity to possess not only social ties/knowledge about their culture but also about the foreign culture that people are generally curious about/find interesting.

Just like most everything in life, what you may perceive as a "weakness" can generally be spun into a "strength".

That would be my ideal if I married an Asian girl. Insist she teach them her native language in addition to English. Give the kids a cultural and linguistic advantage early on. Let them spend time in both cultures so they can learn and take the best traits of both, while also critiquing the worst parts. Honesty is key.

Quote: (12-28-2016 02:14 PM)Dusty Wrote:  

I think hapa girls have life by the balls. Their chance of looking hot is very high. It seems to be tougher for hapa guys. Some do turn out to be attractive (Keanu Reeves) but a lot do not. A lot of the guys may have decent faces, but are small, not just height, but narrow shoulders and not a masculine build ( eg, Elliot Rodgers).

I don't think Eliot Rodgers was an ugly dude. He needed to lift some weights and stop obsessing over women he didn't even have the balls to say "hi" to. I honestly think he was a mental case with bad parents.

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Having said that, I know this one hapa guy who is one of the most attractive guys I've known (no homo) and he's six feet tall. It's s crap shoot.

I'd have a kid with an Asian, but having a girl would probably be easier.

The only hapa kids I know are three girls, all of them gorgeous. Don't have a sample of hapa guys to go off to judge looks or adjustment for personality.

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Here is John Derbyshire (old school alt right writer) with his family. Derb is ugly, but managed to produce a cute hybrid daughter. The boy is not as fortunate.

Derb has the brains, but not the look. Agreed. His son isn't "ugly" to me, he needs to stop scowling in that pic though, it does him no favors.

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I think hapa girls have life by the balls. Their chance of looking hot is very high. It seems to be tougher for hapa guys. Some do turn out to be attractive (Kona )but a lot do not.

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Fixed that for you.

I am hapa. The whole family is. A true-to-the-word hapa has to have Polynesian in them.

My sister is an example of a hapa girl with life by the balls. She attends a fancy California college and has perfect grades in a stem program.

She has the exoticness factor plus the minority credentials going.

I can't comment on the straight white/Asian mix because we factor in the Polynesian traits. I think my whole family has the perfect blend that balances out the Samoan fatness with Japanese/Filipino.

I also can't comment on how I was treated as a child because I come from the land of the hapa, where we are the majority.

Once I went away to college, most white folks assumed I was a tall Mexican. I had to explain my ethnicity, and the Hawaiian factor is always a positive. My looks, once explained, led to many fantastic encounters with girls, but horrible ones with cops.

The thread where I put up some pictures is linked already. So check those girls out.

In my opinion, Samseau (no relation to Junior) put it best, that attractiveness will trump all.

And by the way "looking for a wife" translated to under 25 hapa girl lingo is "taking her to the BAE area." I don't make the rules.

Aloha!

I guess the hapa population of HI isn't a representative group, given the extremely high amount of pure Asians and hapas alredy there. It isn't like they are growing up in a completely foreign land. Do you or any of your hapa friends/family have experience living outside of HI which radically changed how they were treated or saw the world?

Quote: (12-28-2016 06:21 PM)Il Bersagliere Wrote:  

As long as you respect Asian people and culture and are not racist or hold extremist views, I think an arrangement like this could work. This means giving your kids a balanced upbringing and if you do have a male child, teach him game and let him experience success with women early so he isn't handicapped later in life.

If you do harbor some 'alt-right' sentiments and decide to go through with a mixed marriage, you need to be very prudent about how your children will perceive you. An old fart neo-Nazi and a Thai bargirl do not make for well-adjusted kids.

Haha, had to laugh at your last sentence. I'm just trying to imagine a pureblood neo-Nazi with a Thai bar girl. Talk about an unlikely match! I see myself as an old-fashion straight talker. I call bullshit out wherever I see it, regardless of race. I don't sugar coat things, but I don't go out of my way to offend people of different races or cultures. Show me respect, and you'll earn mine is how I roll.

Quote: (12-28-2016 06:38 PM)StrikeBack Wrote:  

Quote: (12-28-2016 02:14 PM)Dusty Wrote:  

I think hapa girls have life by the balls. Their chance of looking hot is very high. It seems to be tougher for hapa guys. Some do turn out to be attractive (Keanu Reeves) but a lot do not. A lot of the guys may have decent faces, but are small, not just height, but narrow shoulders and not a masculine build ( eg, Elliot Rodgers).

This is confirmation bias, you being a straight man only check out the hotter hapa girls and hardly look at the guys and the uglier girls.

Knowing enough of them socially, their chance of being attractive - for the girls or guys - is about the same. Often they are more attractive than both of their parents though. That son in your photo, despite not being the most handsome fella around, is better looking than his white dad who looked like he fell off the ugly tree and got slapped hard by his disappointed parents at birth.

Being into powerlifting and boxing, I know plenty of tall big hapa guys who do really well with attractive girls despite (being typical of Aussies) having no game.

The slight build you see in Asian or half Asian guys is because those guys don't lift or play any sport. The ones who do tend to build muscles very easily without getting fat. Two of my Viet friends in powerlifting and boxing are around 6-6'2" and used to be about 130~140lb soaking wet as teenagers. Now they're both around 220lb lean. There are also plenty of smaller ones who are similar with muscle building, myself included.

That's what I've noticed too. White and Asian genes seem to balance out with the averages. Kids often beating their parent's combined average. I think any father should teach his son fitness. I'd say even more so for Asian sons or half-Asian sons given that there are too many stereotypes of them being feminine, passive or geeky. I don't want my son to feel like he is unattractive or unmasculine, so I say when he reaches the right age, his first gift will be a weight set. The Asian guys I've met that tend to be successful in life and socially are physically fit, by and large. They don't let their (often) shorter statures or more naturally slender frames act as an excuse for not being fit and having good posture. In fact, one of the most successful Asian dudes I know is only about 5'3", speaks with a thick Vietnamese accent and actually rather unattractive looking. Still, he has great posture, a winning smile and is funny as hell. He rakes down $1.5m a year as a senior partner in the financial sector, has a wonderful wife and children, and the respect of of many wonderful friends and business partners. He never let his being an Asian man, short, not having an attractive face, being born in a different country, etc. be an excuse for why he couldn't be successful. He's actually one of my biggest mentors, because he helped me out a lot in my own business endeavors.

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Dark skinned Asians = peasant background, working outdoor all day under the sun, face down, bum up

Lighter skinned Asians = rich, live/work indoors

It's been like that since well before Asians saw white people for the first time. Women being social climbers are obviously more obsessed with that than men.

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Considering that what I just described was the norm throughout most of history, I would worry about what kind of effect it would have mixed-race (half-white, half-Asian) children if their mother and father come from opposite sides of the world, from cultures so vastly different from one another. I would be more worried about the child dealing with internal identity issues than external ones. What would it feel like if you looked nothing like your mother or your father? Every time you spent time with your extended family from either side, you would be seen as the outsider. During family get-togethers, everyone at the table would look similar to each other and share a cultural identity, except for you.

Seeing as in my family, both my uncle and I marry a white woman and have or plan to have children....

It feels like a complete non-issue. I think you're probably overstating its importance.

I can trace back to one of my ancestors from 200+ years ago who was a high-ranking scholar in the imperial court and whose court gown is still on display in the imperial palace now. I'm his direct descendant and heir. As far as I'm concerned, I'm writing a new chapter in the family history just like he did, because from what I could tell, he was the only scholar in his family of carpenters and farmers, and was given land to settle in a new area after becoming a royal scholar. I can just imagine the carpenters and farmers at his family's gatherings giving him some sticks over being someone who made a living with a pen and words instead with their hands like a real StrikeBack would. They'd probably kick me out because I use a computer to make money and speak a lame sounding (modern) version of Vietnamese!

My uncle has three children. The first one looks exactly like him, the second one like his Polish wife and the third one is a mix. Nobody in the family discriminates against them or his wife, in fact his wife is most often praised by my grandmother for being excellent at her wifely and motherly duties.

In an all Vietnamese marriage like my parents, I look like my father but nothing like my mother. This is the source of a lot of inner jokes between us but never a problem.

"The norm throughout history" depends on how long you trace it back or which area of the world. Sometimes certain norms have only been around for a couple of hundred years in certain regions, but we seem to think it's always been like that. Some customs or traditions are also not worth preserving, e.g the prevalence of cousin marriages in most small regions around the world where people prefer to "stick to their own kind".

This is mostly a personal preference. If it is important to you, go for it (as you're obviously doing) but it may not be that important to others.

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I think it is simply in our nature to look for husbands/wives who are genetically similar to us, because that is what we did for the vast majority of human history.

More like it was a lot easier to find a wife who shared common backgrounds to you because Gaming in a different culture or class / caste was damn hard. Same reason most people these days find their mates within the same social circles.
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I have a happa white/chinese friend and he kills it. He isn't tall or all that good looking but speaks fluent chinese and stuff. I think happa guys do really well in asia. I knew happa white/pinoy dudes who did well in USA as well.

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Quote: (12-28-2016 07:25 PM)Rob Banks Wrote:  

OP, I don't think the question of whether a mixed-race child will be discriminated against is the most important issue here. Sure, it is an important issue, as you want your children to grow up being accepted by the larger community. But in my opinion, racial discrimination by others should not be the biggest problem in the world, at least if you are living in the US.

I'm not sure where I will be living long-term, which is why I solicited so many different opinions. Regardless of the race you marry, raising a family in what has become the burning trash heap of American culture is one hell of a challenge, spiritually and legally. Although I love my country dearly, I feel I am in exile here. I think Trump will challenge some of the prevailing political correctness that has ruled over us for far too long, but that isn't changing Family Law that is biased against men, or this ridiculous 58 gender pronoun crap that our universities are pushing. There are plenty of advantages to living in the USA, but raising children here I don't think is one of them, unless you truly move them out to the middle of nowhere.

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The reason why I, personally, would prefer not to have children with a non-white woman (I am white/half Jewish) is because I want to have children who look like me and have a similar genetic makeup to me.

On some level, I agree with that argument. Having strong resemblance to your family lineage is a plus. I'm a mix of Portuguese, English, Irish, Scottish, French, German, Flemish, and Italian. I've had many people say I look even Greek or Jewish, because I have darker features and curly hair. I've often been mistaken for Italian. I don't look particularly Irish, even though I have a considerable percentage in me. Here in the United States, most of us are mutts to begin with. I think in continental European cultures, there's a more homogenous look to "blend in". Your average German looks very "German" to me, whereas your average white American just looks, like...a mixture of white ethnic groups.

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I remember a conversation I had with my Italian grandmother recently. I asked her if she knew where all her ancestors were from, and she responded with the name of a town near Genoa, Italy. I responded "What about the rest of your ancestors? They can't all be from that town, right?" And she responded that they were, in fact, all from the same town. And then it dawned on me that it was the norm throughout the vast majority of human history for all of one's ancestors to have been from the same town, let alone country. I then asked my grandmother if all of my grandfather's ancestors came from the same town, and she told me that they all came from the same town in Basque Country (northern Spain).

I think family history, and love of roots are an important part of culture. Still, when taken to a logical extreme as in the case of the Ashkenazi Jewish community, many ultra-traditional cultures like Pakistan you start getting inbreeding and genetic problems, with increased health issues and mental neuroticism. Given that I'm a mixture of over a half-dozen different white ethic groups, who is my "home" culture? Sure, if I met a very traditional white 20 year old American girl that wants to marry a 32 year old (me) and have my kids, and be a respectful wife and mother, I'd hop all over that. I believe going to a foreign culture requires extra hurdles to leap in some instances that you don't have with marrying a native. That being said, how many girls in the West are even considering being a loving wife and mother at age 20? The amount of neurotic white women in America is staggering. Over 1 in 4 are on mental health drugs. These are not the foundations I want for a marriage, even if it might sadly mean giving up the "looks" of my ancestors if I marry a woman from a different culture. For the men of this forum who are looking for wives, there is simply a shortage of qualified white, American women, our natural mating cohort. We can't invent more wonderful women. They will either come round on their own, or men will choose other options, or take a sucker's bet.

You mentioned that you're half-Jewish.

Look at Israel, founded by Jews from Soviet countries, German Jews, French Jews, etc. There's no one completely "Jewish" look, but rather a blend. I'm not sure looking like family members of times gone by is the most key factor to a happy marriage. I think the good genes of your future mother, plus a set of spiritual and cultural values that agree surpass that in my own opinion. If I could find that in a white girl who had all those traits, born in America and wanted to get married young before riding the cock carousel, then I'd certainly see that as a plus. There JUST AREN'T MANY of those types of women. The men of this forum giving serious consideration to marriage need to consider foreign options, because their a severe shortage of marriage-quality women in the USA. Full stop.

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Considering that what I just described was the norm throughout most of history, I would worry about what kind of effect it would have mixed-race (half-white, half-Asian) children if their mother and father come from opposite sides of the world, from cultures so vastly different from one another. I would be more worried about the child dealing with internal identity issues than external ones. What would it feel like if you looked nothing like your mother or your father? Every time you spent time with your extended family from either side, you would be seen as the outsider. During family get-togethers, everyone at the table would look similar to each other and share a cultural identity, except for you.

A valid point. Thankfully I don't have an ultra racist family. I have an uncle who is Portuguese who married a Mexican. They have a wonderful marriage. That's but one example of two different cultures merging. If I was to marry a white girl in the United States, do I teach them my over half-dozen European identities? I think the case can be made in Europe it matters more to maintain that familial line and "look", as the individual countries are more homogeneous than here in the USA. Europeans have a long history of being more tribal and nationalistic when it comes to race than Americans. Most white Americans are a mix of at least three or four different European backgrounds. We don't have a solidified "white" identity. That's why the KKK isn't ever going to make a strong comeback. Most white Americans don't strongly identify with their European roots. I think it would be nice if we stopped demonizing white folks here in the US as racists all the time, but that's something out of my direct control and ability to change. European identity has been dormant for too long, and I think it will rise again to face the Islamic hordes and I hope so. The chart and path of Europe is very different than that of white Americans. I don't think there is a parallel.

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My wife, who I plan on starting a family with, happens to be of similar genetic makeup as me. Like me, she also has Italian and Basque ancestry. However, I did not know this when I met her. In fact, I did not know she had Italian blood until relatively recently. However, I don't think this was merely a coincidence. I think one of the reasons I was drawn to her (and her to me) was because of our similar genetic makeup. I think it is simply in our nature to look for husbands/wives who are genetically similar to us, because that is what we did for the vast majority of human history.

Yes, before modern travel, people mostly mated with folks in their village or nearby towns. There are a more standardized look of a country. In the era of mass transportation, that is not true. In fact, even before airplanes and boats, there have been many wars fought which have changed the genetic makeup of the lands. Look at your Italian history for example. I've met plenty of Italians with silver or blue colored eyes and even with red or blonde hair! You might even think of them as Scandinavian before being sons or daughters of Italy.

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As for the whole white-worship thing that goes on in Asian cultures (especially among Asian women), I believe it is a recent cultural phenomenon based on the fact that whites are perceived to have more money and higher status. I once had a Thai girl I went out with tell me that people back in Thailand tell her she is ugly because her skin is too dark (her skin wasn't even all that dark). If I were Asian, I would surely be offended by the way Asian women seem to worship whites, and by the way white culture in general is worshipped. Then again, maybe I am oversimplifying the situation. I am not Asian, so maybe someone who is Asian (or has lived in east Asia) can explain this phenomenon better than I can.

Make no mistake, that there are certainly a sizable number of Asian women (especially from the poorer countries) that see marrying a white man as a step up. They are probably right to think so. I have nothing against them for waiting to get the best deal at the bargaining table, as do I. Keep in mind that my target for wife searching is educated in her own country. I'm not looking for some poverty row girl that just wants a meal ticket. I want a strong, smart woman to raise children with. That means she has a brain and knows how to use it, not just waiting for a white savior. That's where a man must filter strongly!

Right now, white American women are some of the most spoiled brats ever to walk the face of the Earth. I know a few exceptions to that rule who are wonderful wives and mothers. But today's generation of young, white American women are a disaster. Marrying one (other an a truly exceptional angel) would be a recipe for disaster in my opinion. That "Wife Hunting Abroad" thread wouldn't be dozens of pages deep if many other men had come to that same conclusion. The divorce stats don't lie. American men who marry women from abroad have MUCH lower divorce rates. If you go through all the hassle of marrying a woman from abroad, it is because you've done all the extra filtering and homework worth making it worth it. I'd still marry a white American girl in a heartbeat if she had the temperament of many Asian girls, and the desire to be a mother and wife to me. Those are massively tall orders for women that by and large have left that role in droves. You can't convince someone to do something they don't want to. I can't call the shots with regards to what American women want. If I find a unicorn, I'll marry her. But in the mean time, exploring foreign options is in the interest of every American man.

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Also, laughing at the dude who says all mixed-race children are the result of fetishizes. I didn't realize that I could only truly love a person who looks like me. I guess I better find a fair-skinned black wife, otherwise I won't be able to love her.

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I won't say who, but this forum has a number of American dudes with Asian wives or very serious asian girlfriends. Let's try and be rational. Claiming that only unions between people of the same race can work is hilarious.

Most happa dudes I've met who are fucked up had the typical 80's beta white dad who was the lowest of the low in terms of social standing and social skills and an ugly, old asian mom who had them when she was like 30+. It's hard not to be fucking lame when your dad is a loser with a lot of money and your mom is a tiger mom who makes a helicopter parent look normal.

A lot of dudes I know who have asian wives these days are doing business in asia (alpha) and have young, attractive, traditional wives (that even asian dudes are jealous of) and are in their early to mid twenties.

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Quote: (12-28-2016 08:08 PM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

In my social circle I have a lot of Vietnamese and Polish friends. Although they are from radically different parts of the world, there are some serious overlaps....

This is very true. My uncle who marries a Polish woman often says that Poles are like Viets in many ways, and while I was single he would tell me to get my arse to Poland so he could find me a nice girl.

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Any further insights on your uncles that married white girls? Their marriages and how they make it work? Do they have any kids, and if so, hopefully they were well-raised? Also, once your uncles found these white girls, what country did they end up settling in with their new wife, and how did that home work out for them?

My two uncles moved to Eastern Europe in the late 80s / early 90s (smuggling shit pass the commies!) and settled there. One marries a Pole and the other marries a Czech woman. I'm only in touch with the former, and don't know much about the latter, other than that he was a big player and gambler while single. The former has 3 kids (2 boys, 1 girl) and they seem well behaved to me. The latter has a daughter with his current wife, I think, and also has some previous children out of wed lock during his player days.

They live and run successful businesses among the small but strong Vietnamese communities in their respective Eastern European cities. I visited my uncle in Poland recently with my wife, and I could tell that they just stick to their traditional roles and work hard. Life in Vietnam and Poland is not as easy as in countries like Australia and America, so they probably never think that much about how their cultures might clash or there might be identity issues with their children or whatever.


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That's what I've noticed too. White and Asian genes seem to balance out with the averages. Kids often beating their parent's combined average. I think any father should teach his son fitness. I'd say even more so for Asian sons or half-Asian sons given that there are too many stereotypes of them being feminine, passive or geeky. I don't want my son to feel like he is unattractive or unmasculine, so I say when he reaches the right age, his first gift will be a weight set. The Asian guys I've met that tend to be successful in life and socially are physically fit, by and large. They don't let their (often) shorter statures or more naturally slender frames act as an excuse for not being fit and having good posture. In fact, one of the most successful Asian dudes I know is only about 5'3", speaks with a thick Vietnamese accent and actually rather unattractive looking. Still, he has great posture, a winning smile and is funny as hell. He rakes down $1.5m a year as a senior partner in the financial sector, has a wonderful wife and children, and the respect of of many wonderful friends and business partners. He never let his being an Asian man, short, not having an attractive face, being born in a different country, etc. be an excuse for why he couldn't be successful. He's actually one of my biggest mentors, because he helped me out a lot in my own business endeavors.

Yeah, regardless of race, a father must teach his son to be fit and strong.

Viets don't make excuses, because for thousands of years we've always been the underdogs against the big powers like China and it's not like they would send smaller armies or weaker soldiers just to be fair to us anyway! We learn how to stack things in our favour, survive and fight back with whatever we have.
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My white grandfather (amazing life, terrible father) had at least two wives from South America. All children were born here, youngest daughter moved to SA and reportedly suffers from depression, but seemed stable enough when I met her. Two others from another wife stayed in the US and have led very successful lives. Ironically, the ones who are doing better were raised by a single mother part of their lives, the one who is in SA had him around for her entire life. He was quite old when she was born though, mid-late 60's and a late 20's wife, which would probably have caused some issues in itself, both from peer teasing and loss of his ability to be an active, engaged father. The two who are successful are likely, from what I've gathered, more stable individuals than my own mother (bless her heart), a product of a broken home. Both of her parents were white Europeans, albeit from opposite ends of the continent.

I don't know my extended family well at all though, so more than the brief anecdotes, the main reason I brought them up is that one half-aunt is very tall, close to 6' while her mother is low 5', average to maybe slightly above for her race. My grandfather was quite tall, over 6' back in the day.

Height was mentioned several times here, and has always been a concern of mine as well. Always heard that height was predominantly inherited through the mother, but that's clearly not the case. According to this article - https://www.scientificamerican.com/artic...an-height/ there is a formula to estimate how tall your children will be, and also a bonus for some - in some races height is supposedly more heritable than in others. Asian women, according to the piece, have the weakest height heritability genes and European races have some of the strongest.

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Heritability can also be used to predict an individual's height if the parents' heights are known. For example, say a man 175 cm tall marries a woman 165 cm tall, and both are from a Chinese population with a population mean of 170 cm for men and 160 cm for women. We can predict the height of their children, assuming the heritability is 65 percent for men and 60 percent for women in this population. For a son, the expected height difference from the population mean is: 0.65 x [(175 - 170) + (165 - 160)] / 2, which equals 3.25 cm; for a daughter, the difference is 0.6 x [(175 - 170) + (165 - 160)] / 2, which equals 3 cm. Thus, the expected height of a son is 170 + 3.2, or 173.2 cm, and of a daughter 160 + 3, or 163 cm. On the other hand, environmental effects can add 1.75 cm to a son's height: 0.35 x [(175 - 170) + (165 - 160)] / 2, and 2 cm to a daughter's: 0.4 x [(175 - 170) + (165 - 160)] / 2. Of course, these predictions only reflect the mean expected height for each of the two siblings (brothers and sisters); the actual observed height may be different.

They don't give the example but from above it seems that if we swapped out a 6' tall white male (183cm) of Italian background (average male height 177cm) the formula would look like this, with the 80% European height heritability - 0.80 x (183 - 177) + .65 x (165 - 160)] / 2 = 4cm taller than average. Assume this would be added to an average of the 177 and 170 mean heights as well, for a son (173.5), which would give a son an expected height of 177.5 cm or nearly 5'10", from a 6' father and sub 5'5" mother. The article goes on to say that this could be increased with additional minerals and protein.

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One wildcard that I think is overlooked is Vietnamese girls. There's a fair split between the have's and have not's in terms of looks. But there are a lot of friendly 6's, 7's and 8's who are interested in finding a boyfriend online. Besides the pleasant personalities, if you like petite women with surprisingly curvy chests with tiny waists and feminine faces, I'd say they are worth looking over.

It was a Vietnamese raised student I met on the street this summer that got me thinking of them as wife material. Very pretty, sweet, smart, and submissive. I'm somewhat averse to meeting my future wife online but with screening a successful pairing could no doubt be pulled off.
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Coming back and rereading this thread, I see a lot of great advice and anecdotes for you OP.

I think the consensus here seems to be go for it.
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Quote: (12-28-2016 08:46 PM)Fortis Wrote:  

Also, laughing at the dude who says all mixed-race children are the result of fetishizes. I didn't realize that I could only truly love a person who looks like me. I guess I better find a fair-skinned black wife, otherwise I won't be able to love her.

If that was the case, your odds would be extremely slim. When you break down that subset of American women, that are single, you are really shopping in a rare pond. No going outside of that walled garden for you! [Image: biggrin.gif]

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I won't say who, but this forum has a number of American dudes with Asian wives or very serious asian girlfriends. Let's try and be rational. Claiming that only unions between people of the same race can work is hilarious.

I've had girlfriends of different races, and dated or known women of many more. Race, although one factor, is not the primary one in my mind for picking a wife, and future mother for your children. Cultural values, her faith in God and femininity matter most. A woman that is at peace with being a woman, not a feminist. I wouldn't touch the average white woman in the United States with all her tattoos and feminist bullshit any more than I would touch the average black woman in the United States with the "I'm large and in charge" fattitude and ridiculously high rates of STD's and out-of-wedlock birthrates that now white American women are starting to catch up with. That's a race to the bottom. Nobody wins. American women of all shades of color are uniformly bad marriage options, with rare exceptions.

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Most happa dudes I've met who are fucked up had the typical 80's beta white dad who was the lowest of the low in terms of social standing and social skills and an ugly, old asian mom who had them when she was like 30+. It's hard not to be fucking lame when your dad is a loser with a lot of money and your mom is a tiger mom who makes a helicopter parent look normal.

That's been my gut instinct. That the hapa boys who are screwed up had these dopey white omega or beta male wimp dads, not a benevolent alpha father who instilled masculinity in their sons. If they married white women, I have a feeling the all white sons would still be wimps due to poor fathering.

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A lot of dudes I know who have asian wives these days are doing business in asia (alpha) and have young, attractive, traditional wives (that even asian dudes are jealous of) and are in their early to mid twenties.

Bingo. I want the best possible "deal" when you look objectively to find a wife. Deep down, I'm actually a rather romantic soul, and enjoy being that passionate lover to a special woman. Still, the rational and masculine side of my brain says "make sure you see it like business at first". Filter, filter, filter! Find the best woman, regardless of culture, then throw your chips in the pot and deal the hand. Play your strongest cards and fold weak hands.


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Quote: (12-28-2016 08:08 PM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

In my social circle I have a lot of Vietnamese and Polish friends. Although they are from radically different parts of the world, there are some serious overlaps....

This is very true. My uncle who marries a Polish woman often says that Poles are like Viets in many ways, and while I was single he would tell me to get my arse to Poland so he could find me a nice girl.

People that go through a lot of suffering and hardship are mentally tougher than those who do not. The Poles and Viets have a collective history of trying hard not to get their asses kicked from every possible direction. They are both street smart. Look at Europe right now. Poland is one of the few countries that still has a strong national identity, people still go to church, abortion is frowned upon, women want to get married early and mass Muslim immigration is a no-go. Like the Viets, they aren't the richest people in the world, but they are a hardy bunch of thick skulled Slavs you can trust on your side if you're in a fight. Viets are the same way, by and large. Ride or die people. Don't screw with them, and you'll be just fine. Try to fuck one up, and good luck. The parallel between the two cultures is that if you mess with the tribe, friends, family or nation, they won't take the bullshit. I admire that about any culture that stands up for itself. I hope that Germany, France and others collectively wake up and realize that traditional cultures are the only way to go if you want a nation to survive.

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Any further insights on your uncles that married white girls? Their marriages and how they make it work? Do they have any kids, and if so, hopefully they were well-raised? Also, once your uncles found these white girls, what country did they end up settling in with their new wife, and how did that home work out for them?

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My two uncles moved to Eastern Europe in the late 80s / early 90s (smuggling shit pass the commies!) and settled there. One marries a Pole and the other marries a Czech woman. I'm only in touch with the former, and don't know much about the latter, other than that he was a big player and gambler while single. The former has 3 kids (2 boys, 1 girl) and they seem well behaved to me. The latter has a daughter with his current wife, I think, and also has some previous children out of wed lock during his player days.

They live and run successful businesses among the small but strong Vietnamese communities in their respective Eastern European cities. I visited my uncle in Poland recently with my wife, and I could tell that they just stick to their traditional roles and work hard. Life in Vietnam and Poland is not as easy as in countries like Australia and America, so they probably never think that much about how their cultures might clash or there might be identity issues with their children or whatever.

Great story. Vietnamese entrepreneurship beating the Commie Commissars. I love it. Classic Viet spirit.

Strong point to be made regarding the hard work that has to be done to survive in these countries. People are too busy going about their daily lives to be concerned with SJW BS. Family and friends are a necessity when you don't have big government to bail you out all the time. Social bonds matter most.


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That's what I've noticed too. White and Asian genes seem to balance out with the averages. Kids often beating their parent's combined average. I think any father should teach his son fitness. I'd say even more so for Asian sons or half-Asian sons given that there are too many stereotypes of them being feminine, passive or geeky. I don't want my son to feel like he is unattractive or unmasculine, so I say when he reaches the right age, his first gift will be a weight set. The Asian guys I've met that tend to be successful in life and socially are physically fit, by and large. They don't let their (often) shorter statures or more naturally slender frames act as an excuse for not being fit and having good posture. In fact, one of the most successful Asian dudes I know is only about 5'3", speaks with a thick Vietnamese accent and actually rather unattractive looking. Still, he has great posture, a winning smile and is funny as hell. He rakes down $1.5m a year as a senior partner in the financial sector, has a wonderful wife and children, and the respect of of many wonderful friends and business partners. He never let his being an Asian man, short, not having an attractive face, being born in a different country, etc. be an excuse for why he couldn't be successful. He's actually one of my biggest mentors, because he helped me out a lot in my own business endeavors.

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Yeah, regardless of race, a father must teach his son to be fit and strong.

Yes, he should lead by example, then get his son to the gym. Daughters should strive to be fit as well, because it teaches them discipline and self-respect of their bodies, which is critical to them attracting and keeping a quality man as they get older. A wife that stays fit also shows respect for her husband, and the community she lives in. Everyone needs to be physically fit. A strong family in body is a stronger family mentally and spiritually.

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Viets don't make excuses, because for thousands of years we've always been the underdogs against the big powers like China and it's not like they would send smaller armies or weaker soldiers just to be fair to us anyway! We learn how to stack things in our favour, survive and fight back with whatever we have.

Without getting too far off-topic, reading through the ancient history of Vietnam you realize that the Chinese have long meddled with them and given them headaches. Many foreigners are only knowledgeable about the history of Vietnam during the Vietnam War, but have no idea how much fighting the Viets had to do BEFORE that to maintain their own independence and cultural identity. It makes for interesting reading, and also some insight as to why Viets I think have the mindset they do.

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@John Michael Kane: Like your shit bro, but you gotta stop with the essay. TL;DR brother.
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Quote: (12-28-2016 09:58 PM)jj90 Wrote:  

@John Michael Kane: Like your shit bro, but you gotta stop with the essay. TL;DR brother.

Thanks for the props.

When I have something pithy to say, I'll keep it short. When there's a complex and challenging issue like picking the right wife and mother of my future children, you can bet your last dollar I'll delve into the nuance.

Hey look, only three paragraphs. Happy now? [Image: biggrin.gif]

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Quote: (12-28-2016 10:04 PM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

Quote: (12-28-2016 09:58 PM)jj90 Wrote:  

@John Michael Kane: Like your shit bro, but you gotta stop with the essay. TL;DR brother.

Thanks for the props.

When I have something pithy to say, I'll keep it short. When there's a complex and challenging issue like picking the right wife and mother of my future children, you can bet your last dollar I'll delve into the nuance.

Hey look, only three paragraphs. Happy now? [Image: biggrin.gif]

@John Michael Kane: I like your stuff bro, but you gotta stop making short 3 paragraph posts. I want deep, meaningful commentaries that stimulate my thinking and take a while to digest, even if takes a while to read them, not some short shitpost that adds nothing of value to the thread.
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Quote: (12-28-2016 06:33 PM)Dusty Wrote:  

I always thought Kona was black.

He's not?!

I'm Samoan/Maori/Filipino/Japanese/Haole.

Regarding black guys and Asian / hapa girls, which I see mentioned before, here is my opinion:

The Asian girls everyone wants to bang, want to bang black guys. This is true all over Asia (except maybe china, as I've never even there with a black man) in Hawaii, and in the USA. The better looking and let's say "dirtier" the more likely a black guy has the best shot with her. Asian /hapas that are in the car model show, work at cape stores or hooters, bottle service girls, Korean bar hostesses or strippers. All of these girls first target is a hip and swaggered black guy. Have muscles and look thuggish but with fancy branded clothing.

Girls like this:
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They are talking about fucking black guys. Trust me.

Now as far as marriage. It depends on how traditional the girls family is, but most likely a no go. Her father will write her out of the will. Her brother will get the nail shop.

So the fun and sexy part of Asian girls is there for the takng , let the Asian guys marry them.

Aloha!
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Wow you're an ignorant fool. Those white guys are banging hookers and sluts. Do you expect them to belike Saudi Arabia and cover their women up? If those women slut it up, they will be slut shamed. You have Arab, African, and Asian guys buying up white black, and Latinas. It goes both ways but for now the status, power, and money is with white guys because of the US and Europe. Women have always been attracted to those things. Look at how many black athletes have hot white women hanging on them.
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LOL you're full of shit. Of course there are some Asian women who like black guys. As far as all of the hot ones wanting to fuck black guys that is crap from your brain. You're a Samoan guy so you know all about East Asian culture, right? LMAO
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Quote: (12-28-2016 11:56 PM)dallasguy Wrote:  

LOL you're full of shit. Of course there are some Asian women who like black guys. As far as all of the hot ones wanting to fuck black guys that is crap from your brain. You're a Samoan guy so you know all about East Asian culture, right? LMAO

Did you read what I wrote at all?

You have a very bad attitude. I hope you cheer up.

Aloha!
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