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03-22-2017, 08:00 AM
If that's true it's pathetic. Dudes shouldn't even be counting their tinder bangs as a +1.
I seriously doubts guys in the west are regularly banging anything more than 4s and 5s on tinder.
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03-27-2017, 01:37 AM
I assume the "pathetic" calling I was given, since 78% of my lays come from the internet.
However I have put hundreds and hundreds of hours into night game (a few on daygame) and I have never gotten consistent lays from there, because of a multitude of factors (not good-looking, bad dressing style in my young years, no muscle, baby face, horrible voice etc). Like I said some people need the internet because they are already weeded out before they get even to spit their game, just like some guys here have bad to average game but still can swoop because they are 6'3" or have some biceps.
TLDR: I think some of the online players here can spit well, but in a very competitive environment (like night clubs) they are overshadowed and just aren't even given the time to spit because they lack some elements that make people like kirdiesel shine.
Personally I could not pull in a night club to save my life (only times I did, the woman was quite older than me...). However, behind my computer/my smartphone, even though I don't get a single match on Tinder, on Adopteunmec I get allowed to start a conversation like once every four girls I swipe, because of the humor, the wits and sarcasm on my profile (no one reads anything on Tinder, so I don't get nothing there. On Adopte you have to write a bit). Since pretty much girls don't even give me the chance to apply the same conversation skills IRL (because of my face and/or voice), I can bypass those two when I am on the internet.
Usually, what happens is that the girl is a bit let down when we meet, because of those two factors (that's what a couple have told me post bang). However, since most have been done BEFORE we meet, through text, the attraction remains high enough that it stays above the required threshold for her to bang. That's a terrible way to do it, and I wish I could insta drop panties with my body only. Am working towards that. However for the time being (not really now since I am in 2 LTRs-met online, with that method by the way) Internet game (especially AdopteUnMec game, not Tinder game) is a vitality. Without it I definitely can't get laid, because I have close to zero perceived value when I first show my face/use my voice.
Voilà.
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03-27-2017, 02:27 AM
What is a tinder?
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03-27-2017, 03:16 AM
I'm the opposite. Whenever I get a tinder lay, it's always very left field. I can never say it hasn't been worth it because I've had some awesome experiences on the rare occasion anything comes through, but man were hours wasted on that thing. Real life is 10 times easier for me than tinder. I guess I just don't come across as that impressive on a little photo in a mobile phone's screen.
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03-27-2017, 09:06 AM
Quote: (03-27-2017 02:27 AM)BrewDog Wrote:
What is a tinder?
A smart phone app that inflates a female ego and feeds her endless validation.
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03-30-2017, 05:25 PM
I used Tinder for about a week. I matched with someone that was very forward, also chubby but she looked cute. I Fucked her in the back seat of her car (my car is too nice for that) she bled everywhere. . .
I drove home deleted the app and haven't looked back.
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04-02-2017, 08:20 PM
Just to clarify, I didn't mean using tinder was pathetic. But claiming +1 in the bang thread – c'mon guys.
When I clicked through that thread, and saw the whole page full of tinder bangs, you gotta wonder whether you're dealing with players here.
I seriously doubt many of these are bangs worth reporting. As I said, 4s and 5s tops for the vast majority.
For my part, online isn't worth the time or the effort. Much better results in meatspace.
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04-03-2017, 08:40 AM
Quote: (04-02-2017 08:20 PM)churros Wrote:
Just to clarify, I didn't mean using tinder was pathetic. But claiming +1 in the bang thread – c'mon guys.
When I clicked through that thread, and saw the whole page full of tinder bangs, you gotta wonder whether you're dealing with players here.
I seriously doubt many of these are bangs worth reporting. As I said, 4s and 5s tops for the vast majority.
For my part, online isn't worth the time or the effort. Much better results in meatspace.
A bang is a bang IMO.
I think of Tinder and these other dating apps as kind of stepping stones or training wheels in a sense. Helps get my confidence up banging average to slightly above average girls and then parlaying that into day/night game. You'll have to use a different tool set altogether of course for day/night game BUT the most important tool you'll need is confidence. Use the capital you gained from fucking the slags on Tinder/OKC on the 7's or 8's you want to get in the sack.
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04-03-2017, 09:40 AM
Quote: (04-03-2017 08:48 AM)ksbms Wrote:
Quote: (04-03-2017 08:40 AM)Vill@in Wrote:
Quote: (04-02-2017 08:20 PM)churros Wrote:
Just to clarify, I didn't mean using tinder was pathetic. But claiming +1 in the bang thread – c'mon guys.
When I clicked through that thread, and saw the whole page full of tinder bangs, you gotta wonder whether you're dealing with players here.
I seriously doubt many of these are bangs worth reporting. As I said, 4s and 5s tops for the vast majority.
For my part, online isn't worth the time or the effort. Much better results in meatspace.
A bang is a bang IMO.
I think of Tinder and these other dating apps as kind of stepping stones or training wheels in a sense. Helps get my confidence up banging average to slightly above average girls and then parlaying that into day/night game. You'll have to use a different tool set altogether of course for day/night game BUT the most important tool you'll need is confidence. Use the capital you gained from fucking the slags on Tinder/OKC on the 7's or 8's you want to get in the sack.
Which brings me to a question. Does banging a number of girls off Tinder, alleviates or reduces anxiety to approach girls in real life?
I can't speak for everyone, but it helps me. If I know I made that Tinder 5 squeal like a fucking pig and bark like a dog the night before then I know I can make that 8 standing at the bar do the same. After all, when you get them naked they are all operating with the same parts and pleasure points.
It's all a mindset. If you can pull girls off Tinder with your looks (which is what 95% of all Tinder matches are based on) then you know that you use those same looks on that 8 at the bar. You'll have to bring a bit more to the table once you start gaming that 8, but your foot will be in the door at that's the hardest part.
YMMV of course, but that's how it has helped me.
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04-04-2017, 09:32 AM
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Quote: (04-03-2017 08:48 AM)ksbms Wrote:
A bang is a bang IMO.
I think of Tinder and these other dating apps as kind of stepping stones or training wheels in a sense. Helps get my confidence up banging average to slightly above average girls and then parlaying that into day/night game. You'll have to use a different tool set altogether of course for day/night game BUT the most important tool you'll need is confidence. Use the capital you gained from fucking the slags on Tinder/OKC on the 7's or 8's you want to get in the sack.
Which brings me to a question. Does banging a number of girls off Tinder, alleviates or reduces anxiety to approach girls in real life?
Maybe if your confidence was unusually low. But for many guys I'd argue that Tinder is a crutch/excuse for not putting themselves out there.
Tinder is a convenient buffer against the sting of real life rejection.
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04-04-2017, 09:53 AM
Quote: (04-04-2017 09:32 AM)Bushido Wrote:
Maybe if your confidence was unusually low. But for many guys I'd argue that Tinder is a crutch/excuse for not putting themselves out there.
Tinder is a convenient buffer against the sting of real life rejection.
https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/26/buffers/
Yeah, I definitely agree with this. If Tinder is your only means of meeting girls, you're going to have a hard time in the wild.
But if you use Tinder/dating apps as just one of your many tools I think it can help. It helps me at least.
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