Quote: (08-18-2016 11:52 AM)churros Wrote:
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I get this point. However, I am willing to spend more time on a 9 than a 7, which means the game tools I'm using will be different.
For example, I will take the 9 to a nice bar, maybe change location. Whereas the 7 I'll take only to a park bench. From there I will bounce straight to the apartment. If the 7 doesn't bite, who cares. I'll take things much slower with the 9.
The problem is that these birds are rare, so there's less chance to practice high-level manoeuvres. I'm trying to be more selective about who I take out, and just focus on higher-level game.
I don't entirely get this half-ass approach.
With the 7, you are still wasting time. Why not swing for the fences from the get-go?
In my case, I run the same general game intensity on pretty much all women regardless of attractiveness. All I care about is whether I want to bang them or not.
If anything, I think people should spend less time trying to impress the upper scale chicks because they have seen it all already: the beach view property, the fancy car, the upscale restaurants, the love letters, prestigious job titles, the paid for exotic vacations, the stalkers, thirsty men from every direction constantly, tons of validation everyday, and people giving them/offering gifts and money. They might have not experienced all the aforementioned but it has been on the table for them and for the taking for a LONG time.
So, what can you offer that she hasn't been able to get easily for the last 5-10 years?
The experience of a man that is NOT impressed by her existence and treats her accordingly.
Throughout a privilege woman's life, the vast majority of men have kissed their ass and no woman deep down, consciously or unconsciously, wants to feel like they are superior to a man. And women have a sixth sense about them. They usually know when you view them as something extra special; even if you are being subtle about it. They can see it in your body language, in your eyes, in your tone, and so forth. That's when you're dead in their eyes. They've seen the fake "I don't really care" (be it in actions or words) types too.
I get the sense that people like the OP and some others feel they should tiptoe around a 9 and go the extra mile when in reality, the best thing to do is to consciously do the opposite if anything. You're don't have to act a dick or anything; you just treat the 9 like
every other woman you want to bang.
With all women but especially the upper scale chicks:
To truly win, you have to truly not care. If you don't care, she can't hurt you. And if she can't hurt you, she will feel more attracted you. See, other men can try to buy their way in but they can't give her what she craves deep down in her core: a emotionally/mentally strong man that doesn't tolerate her bullshit nor kiss her ass. Of all the things in the world, that is something these upper scale women cannot get easily.