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09-21-2016, 04:51 PM
Hello,
Do you think the daygame is effective to attract older women? 30-45 years old women.
All daygame blogs focus on young women, below 30 years old.
I wonder the age is important or not.
I am 24 by the way, but thanks to baldness I look 28-30 at least.
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09-21-2016, 05:02 PM
Sure does work, but the trick is working out if they are married/boyfriended.
Most chicks that age have a bloke.
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09-21-2016, 05:13 PM
Bloke = man
"Most chicks that age have a man."
Day game works just as well on older women, but I'm not so sure "come to my dorm and smoke some weed sometime" is your best angle. I imagine it may be easier with older women because they are more desperate (assuming they are single). As RITW said, most older girls tend to be spoken for.
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09-21-2016, 05:29 PM
Yes, day game works on old chicks. I can't honestly say that day game is my strong suit. But it's the same basic plan as night game, with lower shields to talking but higher when it comes to inhibitions.
Paradoxically, older chicks demand more and offer less. The payoff can be a chick that is really into sex and very experienced..whereas a cute tight young chick doesn't know her body. But the college girl can be a pro, and the old broad can be a dead fish. Random.
Older chicks like to flirt, and are usually better at it, but time and discretion are more important to her than a younger chick. Harder to instadate. (In general. The soccer mom/housewife has lots of time)
Context matters more as well. Like you could pull a phone number if both of you are in a line to morning conference, but if you weren't wearing a name tag - you haven't been "vetted". And she'll dismiss you without giving you much of a shot. ( ie a lot more upfront game needed)
When you pull the number, CALL if she's old school.
Also, she's just as busy, maybe even more than her younger counterpart. But the old chick is at work or dealing with kids.
Then do your normal funnel - meet at place, go to bar, stop at home for a "quick" sec.
You might have to slow roll an old chick as well, so a good multi date strategy might be necessary. Number, coffee, texts, real date/drinks, bang.
The key to dating one chick in particular is to have more chicks in the pipeline, so that you're balls are drained and your attention isn't focused on one lead. Only one prospect is the death of a player.
The other thing is that old chicks are "adamant"' about not wanting to just hookup. They want something serious. Lol.
Steal the frame here, "We don't even know if we like each other, if there is chemistry between us"
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09-23-2016, 08:55 AM
Dude, a woman that age still completely uncommitted will cause you nightmares.
'Antique' is a quality to be prized in art, not in women.
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09-24-2016, 01:24 PM
Problem with gaming chicks at that age is, that the ones you want are almost exclusively in relationships already, because they got their shit together. It is like arriving late at a game of musical chairs. All the skinny ones that aged well aren't single mom's and aren't crazy are already taken.
All thats left at that age is the leftovers.
Kind of like being the last kid to get picked for a team on the playground.
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09-24-2016, 05:20 PM
Unattached women at this age, if attractive, are good for sex. You are really looking for a GF in this age range?? Right. A women in this range, 40+, can become a hell of a plate, if you manage it right. She will expect a little more down the road, always be polite and she will be coming back for your dick for years. At my age I approach this from time to time. Today I approached an obvious one, dressed very well for a Saturday afternoon. Skirt with nice legs, large breasts, wedge sandals. I sent my kid away and got the number. She just came from church. She was nice, probably early 40's. Russian. Sexually attracted instantly. We will see where it goes, but I know where it will. These women want sex too.
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09-24-2016, 11:53 PM
They don't yell
They don't tell
they don't swell
and they are as grateful as hell.
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09-25-2016, 12:22 AM
Why do you want to bang 30-45 year old women at age 24? That sounds like the worst idea ever.
I'm 25, the oldest girl I've ever banged was 24. I was 21 at the time. Young girls have tight pussies, aren't fat yet, haven't had 30 feet of dick inside of them, and aren't jaded from being alpha widowed 17 times.
Go to your nearest university and bang out a nice 19 year old who has yet to lose her soul from 3 previous abortions. That should slap some sense into you.
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09-25-2016, 09:14 AM
A woman who still looks good at an advanced age is in a very small group, thus they are at a premium, unfortunately. Plenty of decent to average MILF's, but when you see a truly elegant, gorgeous and still bangable 40+ woman, they are nearly always in a long term relationship and nearly always with a high-percentile earner. Trust me I used to day game at Whole Foods all the time. The ones you want are out of your price range and already taken. 40 is a difficult age to date at, when I was 38 I had an 18 year old GF. Now I have to set my sights on graduate students or older and that is the age where many women start growing bitter, jaded and suspicious. There are always outliers, however. Game is a numbers game. More approaches=more dates=more lays.
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09-25-2016, 10:26 AM
As others have said, the quality older women will be largely spoken for. What's left is largely trash.
That said: There are some good MILFs around the 40-43 range who are recently divorced after being married for a substantial period of time. The kids are old enough to function alone or are gone already and these women are ready to live up their now found freedom on their ex-husbands money. With these women, it's all about fun and they can be very pleasant and easy to deal with. Potential sugar mommas if you show them a good time.
Personally, I wouldn't be day gaming older chicks as a young guy. It's negative social-proof to be doing such a thing and day game (as oppose to online) is WAY more lucrative with the under 30 female crowd. I don't even like being seen outside with an older chick so I sure as shit ain't gaming one in public.
If you want older women, online game is about as much effort as I would put into it and probably the best deal from a cost/benefit perspective. They are way more responsive than younger chicks, you can filter for train wrecks real quick, and the anonymity of being online allows both parties to connect more easily in my opinion given the social taboos involved. Just don't waste too much time and effort on older women. Due to the age difference social norms in the US, there will come a time when you cannot easily game really young chicks and you will kick yourself in the face a billion times over when you end up looking back in retrospect and think: "Goddamn, I wasted my 20s chasing OLDER women?! WHAT WAS I THINKING?!"
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09-25-2016, 10:29 AM
The problem with dating them online is many look much better in posed and probably old pics than they do in person. Daygame gives you the ability to see what a woman really looks like.
