[mulatto.613]

I appreciate the input gentlemen.

Was getting eye fucked repeatedly by an 8 at a Stockholm night club, I open her up and turns out we have a lot in common, good connection. She tells me she is moving to Poland for school, and I live in Prague which is nearby. We exchange long texts for 3 weeks, getting to know each other.

By the 4th week, texts aren't going through. I call her and her phone is disconnected, so I type in her number on FB and her profile pops up. After looking at her pictures, I see she is actually a 6 instead of an 8. I see that she clearly has self esteem and trust issues from her posts. I send her a message saying "Hey, tried texting but your phone was disconnected, I hope everything is okay in Poland." Her answer: "Wow you really tried hard to find me ;p, sorry I was just too busy to text!" ...wtf? I'm talking deep conversations, as well as her telling me I should come visit her, that she would cook for me, etc...

I pull much cuter girls than her, and girls know about all the attention a tall good looking guy can get. Is it possible that she stopped texting me because the way things were escalating? Add in self esteem and trust issues. I love the chase, and playing hard to get makes me want that flag even more. I believe persistence is key in this situation, any thoughts?

[Nineteen84]

It's sad to say, but is treating an LSE girl really well the solution here? Can she relate to it?

[Prof. Ligate]

(10-17-2016 05:16 AM)mulatto.613 Wrote:  

We exchange long texts for 3 weeks, getting to know each other.

Found your problem bro

[mulatto.613]

(10-17-2016 05:28 AM)Nineteen84 Wrote:  

It's sad to say, but is treating an LSE girl really well the solution here? Can she relate to it?

Well that's the thing, she sold herself as being this adventurous, well travelled brave girl and I fell for it. I know never to put a girl on a pedestal but damn - she pretty much built one and handed it to me, on some sociopath shit. I was going to leave things as they are, and send a "restart" text in a week or two. I would hardly call it a restart text since all that was left was for me to go up and see her, but obviously I have to play it differently now.

I guess asshole game, backhanded comments, and persistence are next. I left her too much space to control the situation, I'll switch the script after a week or two.

[Nineteen84]

Quote:

Hey, tried texting but your phone was disconnected, I hope everything is okay in Poland.

Too needy/niceguy vibe & too wordy.

[brick tamland]

OP, was it possible to go for the same night lay , pulling her from the club? Her interest level then was at its highest, thereafter not so, especially after all the texts.

Be goal-oriented (the bang). Seems you wanted to date her. Why? Girls that age have short attention spans. No good could ever have come from 3 weeks of aimless texting.

Also remember, her self esteem level is not of concern to you. You don't know her personally, and could have misinterpreted her FB posts.

Agree with nineteen84 - you are on a slippery slope, in nice guy, beta orbiter terrain now.

Move on and try a same night lay next time.

[XPQ22]

Quote:

sorry I was just too busy to text!

[kirdiesel]

(10-17-2016 07:12 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

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sorry I was just too busy to text!

LOL

Slap in the face number 1: She said "you really tried hard to find me huh" - Now you are coming from a place of lower value. You think she didn't know you wouldnt be able to find her? She didn't give a fuck!

Slap in the face number 2: Texting for 3 weeks without any kind of plans to meet up or what not..

Are you new to this?

[mulatto.613]

(10-17-2016 08:04 AM)kirdiesel Wrote:  

(10-17-2016 07:12 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

Quote:

sorry I was just too busy to text!

LOL

Slap in the face number 1: She said "you really tried hard to find me huh" - Now you are coming from a place of lower value. You think she didn't know you wouldnt be able to find her? She didn't give a fuck!

Slap in the face number 2: Texting for 3 weeks without any kind of plans to meet up or what not..

Are you new to this?

She actually told me twice to come up and see her when I was back in CZ

[mulatto.613]

(10-17-2016 07:02 AM)brick tamland Wrote:  

OP, was it possible to go for the same night lay , pulling her from the club? Her interest level then was at its highest, thereafter not so, especially after all the texts.

Be goal-oriented (the bang). Seems you wanted to date her. Why? Girls that age have short attention spans. No good could ever have come from 3 weeks of aimless texting.

Also remember, her self esteem level is not of concern to you. You don't know her personally, and could have misinterpreted her FB posts.

Agree with nineteen84 - you are on a slippery slope, in nice guy, beta orbiter terrain now.

Move on and try a same night lay next time.

She was with her friend, told me we should hang out the next day... But I told her I would be going back to Canada

Gunning for a FWB situation, I just moved to Prague last month. Dating or settling down is the last thing on my mind. I've heard Swedish girls have a high flake rate, but why would she continue telling me to come see her (in Poland). I'll hit her up on some "meet me tonight, i'm around your ways"... If that fails I might have to charge it to the game