Quote: (06-19-2016 07:07 PM)PK1098 Wrote:
Quote: (06-04-2016 07:19 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
" I bought her a drink."
Game over.
WIA
Hi WIA, I am a raw hand here, I was wondering how it is game
over if a guy bought a gal a drink.
" I met a young Colombiana at a strip club "
" I bought her a drink."
^Anyone who's been doing this for a while knows that strippers try to make you feel good so that you
- buy drinks for them
- get dances
It's her job.
So she uses her externals to catch your eye, and her game to hook you into spending money and getting nothing but a hard on and some wisps of perfume. She's going to try to get him into VIP or to buy a membership. She might even give him "her phone #".
And the "fish"/john/mark/trick/sucker becomes one of her customers. Little by little he comes to see her, develops a regular, and he keeps shelling out more and more. She'll see him outside of the club...to get more money out of him.
Though it is possible to stick out from all the beta providers by providing a lot more than the average - it's a lottery ticket.
Standard stripper/hired gun game (bartenders, waitresses, shot girls - women who use their sexuality to make money) - is to
- get her attention
- show that you're a boss
- don't validate her at all, until she starts chasing you.
With a regular girl of the same looks, but without the mercenary/battle hardened personality - you need to get her to invest a little bit.
With a stripper, you need her to invest a lot. That's why they have sugar daddies to pay their rent, but fuck losers and their boyfriends are criminals and drug dealers and dj's.
The losers get her to INVEST.
Monetarily, emotionally, et cetera. It's like when you stand in the line that moves slowly but surely...and then pauses...for what seems like an eternity. So you wait, and wait, and wait....because based on your past experience the line moves forward. The more you INVEST, the more likely you are to stay...wasting your time.
So when you pull a stripper, that's how you hook for more than a night. She's steadily investing in you, not you investing in her.
So if you buy a girl a drink in the club, that's already weak-sauce game for the most part.
If you buy a stripper a drink at a strip club, she's WORKING. She's not in "regular girl" mode, she's in "I'm at the office, this is a typical transaction".
Straight guys don't have anything remotely close to this, trading the "promise of sexuality" for favors.
This is the premise of woman.
A "good" woman doesn't do this. She plays things "straight".
So if a girl has no other skills than to entice men with sexuality...
Even among sex workers there's a hiearchy
- Fashion/super model at the top
- runway model
- lingerie model - victoria's secret
- pageant queen
- swimsuit model
- lingerie model - Fredrick's of Hollywood
- model mayhem/instagram/promo model
- shot girl/bartender/hostess
- cam chick
- stripper
- porn star
- escort
- street walker
- crack whore.
It's seemingly okay to live off your looks, but if you live off of your sexuality.....
Anyway, there are lots of stripper forums. You should read up on how the veterans school the newbies on how to make money off the fish.
The fact that this one worked out was a lark. She probably thought he was sexy, and his sub-communications to her were over and above the rookie technical mistakes. I wouldn't consider this a great pull, because there isn't enough detail, and I doubt that OP really knows how to tell that kind of story that a young player can learn from.
Lesson
- spending money on girls is a case by case analysis, but spending money on chicks that trade on their sexuality is a mistake 99 times out of 100.
WIA