Quote: (05-29-2016 05:50 AM)Sciurophobia Wrote:
So there's still the problem of "women are stupid, shallow, and essentially children". That's not exactly knowledge that's helping me being attracted to something.
Congratulations! You now have no delusional expectations of behaviour from women and no unrealistic sense of entitlement about what you believe you 'deserve' from them.
Work on acceptance of what they are; tolerance of them not living up to male standards; and good-humoured patience with their over-emotional behaviour. To move forward, learn to be a good leader and genuine lover of women, because, they will sense if you hold hatred and contempt for them in your heart.
Sure, they'll still piss you off, but you'll mostly Make Up Bang your way out of 90% of confrontations and both get over it - until the next time, because the tempest is always churning overhead, threatening to break. It's just the nature of women, but you just learn resilience as a man to be able to walk through the storm without needing an umbrella, knowing the rain doesn't really bother you that much.
Being utterly-blunt, a large majority of the bullshit can be negated by keeping them sexually-satisfied. Sex is an artform, easily studied, practised and refined. Fuck them well, fuck them hard, fuck them until they beg you to stop from the pleasure. Learn to make them reliably-orgasm. Women risk spending too much time in their own heads - an internal world of heightened emotion - and it makes them miserable. Our sexual skills allow us to give women the blissful gift of being swept out of their bodies by intense sensation, which offers them a sense of freedom and release from the prison of their own making, which seems to calms the storm, at least for a little while.
You'll be fine, brother. You might even find yourself dancing in the rain.