[XPQ22]

(04-18-2016 02:20 PM)HankMoody Wrote:  

"Hun, all real men support Donald Trump

I ain't know about that one.

Quote:

I can't even make this shit up.

I'm certainly no expert, but you definitely seem to have a "lawyer style" of game going on.

If blue-hair had asked me the same question I probably just would've said "yep, Colonel Sanders or whoever you're talking about he's the one for me. Anyway, blah blah blah something else I want to talk about game game game DTF?"

Less stress and probably about the same chances of having blue hair on your dick at the end of the night either way. But i'm an engineer, not a lawyer...

[HankMoody]

(04-18-2016 02:35 PM)GlobalMan Wrote:  

(04-17-2016 10:57 PM)HankMoody Wrote:  

\nI'm not really sure what I'm up to tomorrow. Being self employed affords me a lot of freedom. I will probably sleep in, go to the gym, and take a jijitsu class. Beyond that, I do not know.

Don't you have your own law practice?

I would have thought Monday would be quite busy.

Yes.

I worked Sunday during the day doing site inspections, so I decided to take today off ("work from home").

Thanks to electronic filing, most of what I do can be done remotely and at any time. (Which is both a blessing and a curse). I did all my meetings today via Facetime - clients generally prefer not to have to come to the office if they don't have to.

[Dantes]

(04-18-2016 02:36 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

(04-18-2016 02:20 PM)HankMoody Wrote:  

"Hun, all real men support Donald Trump

I ain't know about that one.

Quote:

I can't even make this shit up.

I'm certainly no expert, but you definitely seem to have a "lawyer style" of game going on.

If blue-hair had asked me the same question I probably just would've said "yep, Colonel Sanders or whoever you're talking about he's the one for me. Anyway, blah blah blah something else I want to talk about game game game DTF?"

Less stress and probably about the same chances of having blue hair on your dick at the end of the night either way. But i'm an engineer, not a lawyer...

Nothing dries up pussy more like politics. It is a topic best avoided if you are looking to get laid.

[Comte De St. Germain]

In the words of TravelerKai "So much blue hair on so many sloppy bitches.". What I've noticed about girls like this is that they date or marry "beta" guys to find a sense of stability and paycheck that will take care of them.

I've had many girls in many of my circles openly disrespect their boyfriends or latch onto other dudes to openly spite them while the boyfriend is present. I swear to god I always wait for these guys to snap, but it never happens.

Call it the plague of society, but its rampant. What keeps it going more than anything are these guys whom are willing to let their women(their women being a very loose term) walk all over them.

[HankMoody]

(04-18-2016 02:36 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

(04-18-2016 02:20 PM)HankMoody Wrote:  

"Hun, all real men support Donald Trump

I ain't know about that one.

Quote:

I can't even make this shit up.

I'm certainly no expert, but you definitely seem to have a "lawyer style" of game going on.

If blue-hair had asked me the same question I probably just would've said "yep, Colonel Sanders or whoever you're talking about he's the one for me. Anyway, blah blah blah something else I want to talk about game game game DTF?"

Less stress and probably about the same chances of having blue hair on your dick at the end of the night either way...

My lawyer game is interesting and has been honed over the years.

A lot of what I do is construction stuff, so on most given days you'll find me in work pants, a sweatshirt with paint on it, and boots. You can't really run around a construction site in wingtips, plus a lot of developers like dealing with "a real person" or "a bricks and sticks" guy. I have a thick local accent, and I'm a local sports fanatic, so most people just assume I'm a contractor on any given day, especially when I'm out.

When it comes out later in the conversation that I'm a lawyer, people tend to find the paradox intriguing. I've also taken a lot of courses in public speaking, trial advocacy, etc., so it's interesting when the guy who was just screaming "fuck you!!" at the TV suddenly starts coming off as intelligent and articulate. Plus, I don't back down from arguments, and I will say "I'm sorry" under zero circumstances. At the very least, they usually want to know more, and I'm a lot more fun to interact than boring beta males.

I go back and forth between being a white collar professional with fine table manners to a blue collared construction worker who swears like a sailor. This works especially well for LTRs, because they never know if we're going to a fancy restaurant or country dive bar.

I used to go out to bars suited up, wingtips, cufflinks, pocket square, etc. and run straight lawyer game. You would be surprised but it didn't work all that well. Frankly, lawyers are relatively common, and most of them rely on their profession and perceived to try and get women. They try and send a message that they're very important so they have to wear a suit. Most lawyers are also boring as fuck and have very little to talk about except their jobs and how important they are.

This is way less common - a lawyer who doesn't care about getting labeled blue collar.

[XPQ22]

(04-18-2016 02:46 PM)Dantes Wrote:  

Nothing dries up pussy more like politics. It is a topic best avoided if you are looking to get laid.

Or engineering. A lot of "geek" guys think they're going to game "geek" women with their nerd cred. But they don't seem to get that for many women in the sciences (at least many that I've encountered), even the really clever ones, their field usually isn't a "lifestyle" choice like it is for men. It's just their fucking job - even if they're good at it. After work they go home and do yoga and Pilates, watch Netflix and feed their cat like an ordinary girl.

And girls don't like guys who ramble at them about work when they're trying to kick back and have fun. Be prepared to just get accused of "mansplaining."

If you want to talk to a girl about science, tell it to a hairdresser. They're often pretty interested and impressed. Nerd girl will usually be off chasing the hipster butcher shop owner.

[Rhyme or Reason]

Quote:

Or engineering. Blush A lot of "geek" guys think they're going to game "geek" women with their nerd cred.

The recent phenomenon of the "geek gurl" is simply women adjusting to a changing sexual market. Naturally this is exploited by the more cunning "geek gurls" who use this as bait to attract nerdy orbiters. They thrive off the implication that the guys who are "nerds" are what they're into, but most of the time it's a front...a slightly more advanced beta screening tool. They are still women and they respond to behavior and traits they find attractive. So when Beta McProgrammerstein finds out this girl is "into coding" or whatever, he lays on the nerd cred thick and is promptly whisked into the friendzone.

The nerd girl is one of the most blatant examples of female herd mentality. It's also worth noting that this strategy is not employed by top shelf women.

[HankMoody]

(04-18-2016 02:46 PM)Dantes Wrote:  

(04-18-2016 02:36 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

(04-18-2016 02:20 PM)HankMoody Wrote:  

"Hun, all real men support Donald Trump

I ain't know about that one.

Quote:

I can't even make this shit up.

I'm certainly no expert, but you definitely seem to have a "lawyer style" of game going on.

If blue-hair had asked me the same question I probably just would've said "yep, Colonel Sanders or whoever you're talking about he's the one for me. Anyway, blah blah blah something else I want to talk about game game game DTF?"

Less stress and probably about the same chances of having blue hair on your dick at the end of the night either way. But i'm an engineer, not a lawyer...

Nothing dries up pussy more like politics. It is a topic best avoided if you are looking to get laid.

I sort of disagree. I am extremely open about my right wing beliefs.

If you own it, and are completely unapologetic about it, I've found it actually gets ginas tingling sometimes.

The key is you can't back down for any reason, or show any placating whatsoever (if you're talking to women - with men you can actually be reasonable). At first they get incensed, they try and argue with you using emotion, they call you racist, sexist, whatever, and then you end up inundating them with a position they've never heard before and they become a bit intrigued.

"You really want Trump elected?"
"Absolutely."
"He'll start World War 3!"
"Good. It's time someone stop ISIS instead of trying to be nice to them."
"You really want him to build that wall?"
"Damn right I do. Those jobs should go to legal immigrants."
"He hates Muslims!"
"No he doesn't. And the only "hate" is coming from radical Muslims like you're now seeing all over Europe. Did you know homosexuality is against the law in almost every Islamic country? And that men have ownership of their wives? Is that the culture you want in this country?"
"Errr... um...."
"Trump is the only person running for office making any sense. And do you really want Bernie Sanders trying to negotiate with Kim Jong Un and Vladimir Putin? I know you think Bernie will give you free stuff, but the other world leaders are going to eat his lunch and make him pay for it."

It actually demonstrates higher value to let her know that you don't care about what she thinks, and you certainly are not seeking her approval.

I call this "Donald Trump Game." Lately it's some of my favorite because the girls get so worked up that it becomes fun, but they don't have the knowledge or debate skills to keep up with me. It plays right into my skill set. I get to demonstrate my lawyer skills, along with letting them know that I don't seek their approval at the same time.

[kaotic]

Hank it's funny, I have a white collar professional job, which I enjoy dressing up for.

However I manage a retail store on the weekends and dress very casual.

Sometimes I'll show up to the bar in work clothes and regulars ask me if I'm going somewhere or have a special event, I shrug and say I just got off work, and leave it at that.

People get intrigued because you never know what you'll get with me.

On social media alone, I have photos of me suited to the 9's, then I'm dressed up looking like a skater punk with a buttoned up flannel and chucks on my feet.

It's worked pretty well.

[XPQ22]

Lately, when girls ask me about who I'm voting for, I just do like this guy ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ and say "I'm definitely no expert in distinguishing one type of shit from another."

[XPQ22]

(04-18-2016 03:15 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  

So when Beta McProgrammerstein finds out this girl is "into coding" or whatever, he lays on the nerd cred thick and is promptly whisked into the friendzone.

It's actually a great anti-PUA technique that comes in handy sometimes! There's a dumpy girl who's a coder that's a regular at one night game spot I hit up sometimes. Looked like the cockblocking type, so all I had to do was chase after her a few times and say "Hey! Hey 'Alice'! Lemme tell you about the new software project I'm working on..."

She now actively avoids me and I've never had to deal with her ever again.

[monster]

I read OP's post and I thought it was going to be the start of a film-noir series of posts. Had all the makings of a good noir detective story: loner who works outside "regular" society drinking by himself, flirting with a few lasses, it's rainy outside, then midnight strikes...

Kind of a let down it just ended.

Where's humphrey bogar when you need him?

[Delta]

(04-18-2016 03:03 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

Or engineering. A lot of "geek" guys think they're going to game "geek" women with their nerd cred. But they don't seem to get that for many women in the sciences (at least many that I've encountered), even the really clever ones, their field usually isn't a "lifestyle" choice like it is for men. It's just their fucking job - even if they're good at it. After work they go home and do yoga and Pilates, watch Netflix and feed their cat like an ordinary girl.

And girls don't like guys who ramble at them about work when they're trying to kick back and have fun. Be prepared to just get accused of "mansplaining."

If you want to talk to a girl about science, tell it to a hairdresser. They're often pretty interested and impressed. Nerd girl will usually be off chasing the hipster butcher shop owner.

You just described my niche girl in that first paragraph. Every girl I've dated has been quite brilliant and working in some high status field, but none of them embraced the "geek girl" image in the least. As much as they didn't want some dumbass meathead who couldn't string together a thought, they were at just as (if not more) repulsed by the thought of a pasty, flabby, mincing self-proclaimed "nerd" guy.

The only girls who don't go for strong, masculine men are shrieking SJWs from my observation. They're the ones writing "talk nerdy to me!" in their dating profiles, because fitting the nerd persona is so critical to their identity.

I have to disagree with you though about talking science to your hairdresser. Girls are repulsed beyond belief by guys smarter than them. I still haven't had any success gaming girls that aren't STEM majors with straight A's, because I can't dumb myself down enough for regular girls to not be weirded out by everything I say.

[robreke]

(04-18-2016 02:20 PM)HankMoody Wrote:  

The ending of this story is almost too good to be true. After I hit the submit button, I'm sitting there sort of wondering if the thread was worth submitting at all. I'd written it from my phone, which is not normally my preferred modicum of writing.

As I'm sitting there reading the comments, the girl with the blue hair ends up coming back and getting trashed. I've been hanging out at this bar for 10 years, so I know the bartender quite well, and I'm a good tipper. At this point I'm talking to an older lady next to me about estate planning, and shooting the shit with the bartender about politics and hockey. This is a bar where everyone generally knows each other. The couple were new.

The blue haired gal, now wasted, suddenly butts into my conversation:

"So who are YOU voting for? Sanders or Clinton?"
"There's no question. Donald Trump" I respond.
"Hahaha you're funny... who are you voting for?"
"Trump. I'm being dead serious."

She gets visibly upset about this, and starts saying the usual SJW bullshit "he's a racist, you're a racist, why do we need a wall blah blah blah." I then proceed to decimate her positions verbally, because that's what I do for a living, even though it comes out that she "has a masters degree." Keep in mind that I'm a pretty good public speaker, I have a thick local accent, and now the entire bar is listening and laughing. Most of the patrons are blue collar working class.

She starts pouting and is becoming visibly upset. She then belts out "I would never hire you as my lawyer!", to which I calmly respond "Well that's good, because I would never let you be my client." Now she's really upset and throwing a tantrum. "You are so fucked up! I can't even believe this conversation is happening!"

I finally turn to her husband and say "Bro, you need to get your woman in check. I'm here to drink and loosen up, not be bombarded with this quasi-academic feminist bullshit. This is a corner bar, not a college safe space." I go back to my drink and reading this thread.

Then it gets weird...

She pulls up a chair next to me and grabs my arm, not like she's mad at me, but like she's hitting on me.

"Hey, I didn't mean to make you mad, I don't want you to hate me, it's just that I feel very strongly about my beliefs and I've never met someone who openly supports Donald Trump."
"Hun, all real men support Donald Trump but they won't tell you because you'll throw a hissy fit like you did 10 minutes ago. I'm self employed and don't really give a shit, so I can say whatever the fuck I want. Anyway, tell the bartender to send you and your husband a round of shots on me and enjoy the rest of your night. Oh, and make America great again." I'm clearly uninterested the conversation, and trying to go back to my other conversation about estate planning.
"I don't want you to be mad at me. I don't know if anyone's told you this... but your accent is really cute." She starts rubbing my arm, and looking at me.
"If I didn't know better, I would say you're trying to take me home... I doubt your husband over there would like that."
"We're not exclusive..."

I can't even make this shit up.

^ This is what put it over the top.

Now it deserves its own thread.

[Rocha]

Hank, is this one your Bar? Say hi to Sam Malone and Woody ))

[Mentavious]

Guys were saying it's not worth a thread but behold...

Nearly 2 full pages deep.

[Comte De St. Germain]

(04-18-2016 09:56 PM)Mentavious Wrote:  

Guys were saying it's not worth a thread but behold...

Nearly 2 full pages deep.

The OP wasn't. The follow up warranted some discussion.

[Travesty]

A 24yo that takes a shot from an older guy she banged and kiss on the cheek while having a BF is a hoe.

That stripper is hoe.

Most waitresses past college age are hoes.

Player lifestyle often attracts that.

You chose your environment and who you associate with.

Make friends with guys that aren't under the anvil of a bad marriage.

These types of looks at these hoes and beta stories are funny and fun, ultimately hollow hence the depressing part because it isn't lasting, it's entertainment.

Hank, do you have a favorite BF line comeback? As a lawyer I am guessing quips are right in the roundhouse.

[Walker]

(04-18-2016 03:01 PM)HankMoody Wrote:  

(04-18-2016 02:36 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

(04-18-2016 02:20 PM)HankMoody Wrote:  

"Hun, all real men support Donald Trump

I ain't know about that one.

Quote:

I can't even make this shit up.

I'm certainly no expert, but you definitely seem to have a "lawyer style" of game going on.

If blue-hair had asked me the same question I probably just would've said "yep, Colonel Sanders or whoever you're talking about he's the one for me. Anyway, blah blah blah something else I want to talk about game game game DTF?"

Less stress and probably about the same chances of having blue hair on your dick at the end of the night either way...

My lawyer game is interesting and has been honed over the years.

A lot of what I do is construction stuff, so on most given days you'll find me in work pants, a sweatshirt with paint on it, and boots. You can't really run around a construction site in wingtips, plus a lot of developers like dealing with "a real person" or "a bricks and sticks" guy. I have a thick local accent, and I'm a local sports fanatic, so most people just assume I'm a contractor on any given day, especially when I'm out.

When it comes out later in the conversation that I'm a lawyer, people tend to find the paradox intriguing. I've also taken a lot of courses in public speaking, trial advocacy, etc., so it's interesting when the guy who was just screaming "fuck you!!" at the TV suddenly starts coming off as intelligent and articulate. Plus, I don't back down from arguments, and I will say "I'm sorry" under zero circumstances. At the very least, they usually want to know more, and I'm a lot more fun to interact than boring beta males.

I go back and forth between being a white collar professional with fine table manners to a blue collared construction worker who swears like a sailor. This works especially well for LTRs, because they never know if we're going to a fancy restaurant or country dive bar.

I used to go out to bars suited up, wingtips, cufflinks, pocket square, etc. and run straight lawyer game. You would be surprised but it didn't work all that well. Frankly, lawyers are relatively common, and most of them rely on their profession and perceived to try and get women. They try and send a message that they're very important so they have to wear a suit. Most lawyers are also boring as fuck and have very little to talk about except their jobs and how important they are.

This is way less common - a lawyer who doesn't care about getting labeled blue collar.

Dressing down to game when you're a well paid white collar guy is something I also swear by. When girls ask you what you do, do you lie?

"I stock shelves at walgreens" is a sentence that comes out of my mouth a lot.

[Merenguero]

(04-18-2016 02:35 PM)GlobalMan Wrote:  

(04-17-2016 10:57 PM)HankMoody Wrote:  

I'm not really sure what I'm up to tomorrow. Being self employed affords me a lot of freedom. I will probably sleep in, go to the gym, and take a jijitsu class. Beyond that, I do not know.

Don't you have your own law practice?

I would have thought Monday would be quite busy.

It's all over the place. I'm often swamped on Saturdays and Sundays, yet can often sleep all day during some weekdays. I've been in my office for over twenty four hours straight, settled a case which was scheduled for a two day trial, starting right now, and am therefore planning on sleeping all day today.

[XPQ22]

(04-18-2016 07:33 PM)Delta Wrote:  

I have to disagree with you though about talking science to your hairdresser. Girls are repulsed beyond belief by guys smarter than them. I still haven't had any success gaming girls that aren't STEM majors with straight A's, because I can't dumb myself down enough for regular girls to not be weirded out by everything I say.

Guess they must be repulsed by so many guys then, eh?

I think it depends not exactly on what you say as to whether they see it as a DHV or "weird smart", but how you say it. If you come at them full bore talking about the Schrodinger equation or something, well yeah it's going to be the latter.

I think one problem is many girls, even liberal college educated ones, have spiritual/quasi-mystical beliefs, and scientific minded men make the mistake of arguing with them, rather than just having "discussions." Maybe laywer OP can argue his way into a girl's pants, but as far as I can recall it's never worked for me.

[HankMoody]

(04-19-2016 07:06 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

(04-18-2016 07:33 PM)Delta Wrote:  

I have to disagree with you though about talking science to your hairdresser. Girls are repulsed beyond belief by guys smarter than them. I still haven't had any success gaming girls that aren't STEM majors with straight A's, because I can't dumb myself down enough for regular girls to not be weirded out by everything I say.

Guess they must be repulsed by so many guys then, eh?

I think it depends not exactly on what you say as to whether they see it as a DHV or "weird smart", but how you say it. If you come at them full bore talking about the Schrodinger equation or something, well yeah it's going to be the latter.

I think one problem is many girls, even liberal college educated ones, have spiritual/quasi-mystical beliefs, and scientific minded men make the mistake of arguing with them, rather than just having "discussions." Maybe laywer OP can argue his way into a girl's pants, but as far as I can recall it's never worked for me.

You can absolutely lawyer argue your way into their pants, provided the arguments you're making are "impassioned" rather than logical. You have to act like you have some higher purpose, sort of like cult leaders. That mystifies them and makes them admire you. See, e.g.:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4lnRK8Qp...62csrXdME6

I'm a semi-famous legal blogger on the side, and I've actually "written" my way into pants before, based on some really emotional pieces.

It actually goes into the whole "incongruent personality." I send short incoherent text messages, but I'm also a good writer. I'm white collar but I frequently dress and act blue collar.

[cubanlinx]

@Hank, I definitely agree about being open about your beliefs. Some guys prefer to avoid politics, and it is when you get fucking technical and deep about it.
Short, witty quips like yours are perfect. Keeps up the banter while maintaining a great topic of conversation. I recall Anon. Bosch saying that women want a man that destroys their personality. This is a great screening test too. If she's too much of a bitch, she'll bounce and save you trouble.

[XPQ22]

(04-19-2016 10:34 AM)HankMoody Wrote:  

You can absolutely lawyer argue your way into their pants, provided the arguments you're making are "impassioned" rather than logical. You have to act like you have some higher purpose, sort of like cult leaders. That mystifies them and makes them admire you. See, e.g.:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4lnRK8Qp...62csrXdME6

I'm a semi-famous legal blogger on the side, and I've actually "written" my way into pants before, based on some really emotional pieces.

Meh. I don't have any higher purpose (at least not one that anyone would particularly care about besides me.) Got nothing to prove, really. The world won't listen. Waste of time. Passionately bloviating at women makes me feel tired just thinking about it. I'd rather just tell bad jokes in an outrageous German accent. "Ach! I just flew in from Dusseldorf and boy are zee arms tired."

Sometimes I tell girls I live in my mom's basement.

I guess my game "style" could be thought of as "corny sloth" game, then. If men are nothing more than clowns to the modern western woman, it's a niche I do pretty well in. If shoe fits, wear it.

There are just so many traditionally "high value" men in the Northeast that unfortunately, basing your game on becoming a strong self-assured "neomasculine" man doesn't seem to carry much weight. Pipelines are stuffed to capacity already. Girls just want to be entertained...particularly with online dating which is what I do primarily these days. Around here, unless you're in about the top 5% of men with regard to physical appearance, you better be able to hit the "I want a guy who can make me laugh" bullet point really well to build initial attraction, or it's game over.

Frankly many women don't even have a particularly sophisticated sense of humor, so it's not even that hard. I think it's why so many are proud that they're "snarky and sarcastic." It's the lowest form of wit indeed, and anything higher up the ladder than that felt like too much effort.

[HankMoody]

(04-18-2016 10:16 PM)Travesty Wrote:  

A 24yo that takes a shot from an older guy she banged and kiss on the cheek while having a BF is a hoe.

That stripper is hoe.

Most waitresses past college age are hoes.

Player lifestyle often attracts that.

You chose your environment and who you associate with.

Make friends with guys that aren't under the anvil of a bad marriage.

These types of looks at these hoes and beta stories are funny and fun, ultimately hollow hence the depressing part because it isn't lasting, it's entertainment.

Hank, do you have a favorite BF line comeback? As a lawyer I am guessing quips are right in the roundhouse.

It's sort of a push-pull thing. I start out by being a dick, and then I gradually become more interesting and communicative.

"I have a boyfriend."
"Oh yeah? I bet he's a dick."
"What? What makes you say that?"
"Because you're a dick."
"Why am I a dick?"
"I don't know, why are you a dick? You tell me."

or

"I have a boyfriend."
"No you don't. I don't believe you."
"What? Why don't you believe me?"
"You're telling me that there's a man in this world who would put up with you on a daily basis? If that's the case, Jesus. God bless him. He deserves a medal."

All of this is said with a slight grin, where she can't tell if you're serious or not. She's almost always going to respond with a shit test like "You're such an asshole!" which should warrant a line back like "You're flirting needs work, hun." (On that note, calling women "babe", "sweetie" or "hun" is awesome). The key here is you cannot back down or apologize for your "bad" behavior, no matter how "pissed" she gets. You act like she's a pouting child. If you really want to have fun, say "Sweetie, when Donald Trump is president, this kind of behavior is NOT going to be tolerated in my country. Tell you what, let's do a shot to making America great again."

Then I'll often pivot into this... (actual conversation from this summer)

"Serious question. Admittedly, I've never been good at the whole "relationship" thing. Don't take this the wrong way, but why do you have a boyfriend?"
"Because he's nice and he's passionate about his vegetarian beliefs..."
"He doesn't eat steak. So he's gay?"
"Haha, shut up, he's not gay!"
"I'm not sure I could do the whole monogamy, house in the suburbs, three kids running around type thing. I'm pretty content doing a lot of traveling and having adventures." (women love talking about traveling)
"I have a lot of questions about it myself..."

From there, turn the discussion into one about being with one person, red pill type stuff, etc. When the discussion gets this far, I've found like 90% of the time it results in "I don't know if we're going to be together forever" or "I have my doubts." Especially in the context of him being a "nice guy" and you coming off like this funny, confident, yet deep and interesting person coming from a completely non-traditional perspective. When she starts openly questioning her relationship or boyfriend, you're in like Flynn - but not that right second.

She'll almost always add you on Facebook if the conversation was interesting. From there, don't make any attempts to contact her - let her contact you. You'll get a text or PM like "Hey Hank, I enjoyed our convo last night. Let's do it again sometime."