[Sidney Crosby]

(04-21-2019 09:23 AM)semibaron Wrote:  

The problem here is that we all talk about "Colombia", but not about specific cities. The country is diverse. Bogota is very different than Medellin. I do agree that it's possible to bang decent girls in Bogota without Spanish. In Medellin not so much.

In Medellin I've met and seen a lot of guys, who didn't know Spanish and the girls they banged (or tried to). Honestly, I would rather stay home.

The problem is that everyone on here has different standards and ideas of what is "decent", a sweet feminine 6 might be decent to some guys on here and some guys want hot prepago looking girls that are total skanks.

We talk about Spanish levels on here and obviously it helps greatly if you can speak Spanish. The first time I was in Colombia my Spanish level was very low and now I consider myself conversational but not fluent. I can go on dates entirely in Spanish and get by doing most things, this level of Spanish is relatively easy to obtain and opens the door to way more chicks.

[Sidney Crosby]

(04-21-2019 11:24 AM)tomtud Wrote:  

I agree with semibarron. That this thread is too general and not city specific. Bogota is different than Medellin in many aspects.

Anywhere in the world to get top tier chicks who come from the upper middle class and above takes time, money and social connections for the most part. Yes, you have gorgeous girls from the poorer parts and it can be easier in some ways and vice versa difficult. Each type of girl has their own different issues and ones that are common.

I said this before, to date the upper middle class and above girls get ready to fork over money going to fincas or travelling for puentes (long weekends) and holidays. Get ready to go to all of her friends birthday parties and her family weddings, christenings and birthday parties for the kids. Your weekends will be shot. Don't believe me. Ask any dude who is dating a girl from a estrato 5-6 barrio if his gf or wife drags him to her friends or coworkers birthdays etc.
You think simple empanadas and arepas from the street corner are gonna keep her happy for long?
This fascination to date these types for those visiting is simply a pipe dream. Foreigners are still stigmatized as being sex tourists and below them.

Living there, it is possible. Just like others mentioned you will have to get local friends etc. Just get ready to spend spend spend. I will be frank. It will be cheaper for you to go to the most expensive casa or strip club and pay for it twice a week than to have such a girlfriend. Just saying.

Part of the allure for all of Colombia for me is the value I get for my dollar. Yes , there are certain things that are more expensive than my home base of Toronto, but to live a simple life, it's great. I do like to have the luxuries and to eat out etc. But it's much cheaper than Toronto. From taxis, food to booze. Colombia wins hands down. I'm off on a tangent.

For the majority of visitors to Colombia, do your best to get the girl you want. Just be socially aware of what you are seeking As for those who are living there, id say don't stress it and seek out the richer beautiful girls. If it happens great. If not, the chica from the estrato 2-3 and is happy with a few empanadas for lunch and is hot, is also a great choice.

I've seen foreigners with chicks you would think, why is he with her? Vice versa I've seen girls with foreigners and thought the same except I've suspected that there is a financial transaction going on.

Short term- guys just enjoy yourselves. Use your wit and social awareness when dealing with chicas. Utilize all avenues available to you from online to day game etc. Be content that certain girls will be more difficult to game and require more time. Which, you may not have a lot of time to do so. So use your time wisely. Have fun and be safe.

I hate to say it. I just hope we are not poisoning Colombia. I would hate it if we are also responsible for making Colombia like the west. I think somewhat we are partially guilty. If you date them, let them keep their culture. Even if you're not religious. Let them keep their faith. Why? Because the moment we bring in our culture they will start to lose theirs. Don't be pissies. Be more macho like some of their guys. I hope the gist is getting through.

Most the girls I talk to are always busy doing this shit all the time, I see the pictures and I'd be bored to death.

[tomtud]

Indeed Sidney. can get quite boring. Especially if you have to wait in bus terminals.

What else is there to do in a finca. You can only have sex for so long and afterwards???? It's fine with a group of friends and you try to hook up with a girl. Granted, there are romantic dudes out there who like to do that romantic getaway.

For those in Medellin going up las palmas or to sopetran on weekends or puentes you want to shoot yourself due to the traffic
Those leaving bogota to head to tolima to the warmer areas during the same time experience crazy traffic too. Just last weekend there was a 6hr wait on the tolima - bogota route.

If you can manage to date a girl who is used to heading out of town on weekends and you manage to avoid joining her at times. Well done. Just don't be surprised she gets swooped by a juan David while you are back in the city.

[Sidney Crosby]

The traffic is awful, it takes like 5-6 hours to go some place that should take 2 hours and then sit around and do nothing. Might as well just go to the airport and fly somewhere for a couple days.

[BallsDeep]

(04-21-2019 11:33 AM)Sidney Crosby Wrote:  

We talk about Spanish levels on here and obviously it helps greatly if you can speak Spanish. The first time I was in Colombia my Spanish level was very low and now I consider myself conversational but not fluent.

How do you maintain your harem of estrata 5/6 girls if your spanish is merely conversational?

[Prince Charming]

(04-20-2019 08:50 PM)lonewolf1992 Wrote:  

The reputation Scotian talks about is real but it doesn't concern guys like the ones in this forum. It's mainly about the backpacker type and the 60y/o fat losers who hang out in el lleras and take hookers into dinners. The elites are leaving and choosing Sabaneta and Rionegro as a more pleasant area to relocate. Trust me guys Rionegro will be great once el tunel de oriente gets finished.

Now, by knowing the average type of guys who are in this forum, objectively speaking, the difference between settling down on a LTR with the girl on the first picture and banging one like in the second picture every weekend for you guys I think is good game, good spanish, social circle and a bit of luck like everything in life.

Top shelf medellin quality may look like this.


Just plain, boring and average upper middle class girls. They are probably a 6 or 7 in Medellin. Yikes.


Ugly

Damn I would rather bang all the girls in the second pic except second from the right over the girl in the first pic lol. Also why would you care how rich a girl is if she not spending that money on you?

[Sidney Crosby]

(04-21-2019 12:53 PM)BallsDeep Wrote:  

(04-21-2019 11:33 AM)Sidney Crosby Wrote:  

We talk about Spanish levels on here and obviously it helps greatly if you can speak Spanish. The first time I was in Colombia my Spanish level was very low and now I consider myself conversational but not fluent.

How do you maintain your harem of estrata 5/6 girls if your spanish is merely conversational?

I never said I did or if it came across like that in my writing it wasn't intentional.

PC those girls in the second pic are bangable but mediocre, the chick are far left looks ok to me though.

[NoMoreTO]

^^ The 3rd and 4th from the left, in the back are definitely attractive girls. Twinkle in their eyes, not drunk, nice smiles. WB

[travolta]

There's so much circle jerking going on in this thread about "upper tier"/high class girls. I've known so many dudes over the years who claim to bang "only 9's" or whatever, and when I see their girls in real life it's far from what they claim. Also let's be real, how many guys on this forum are *actually* banging "upper tier" girls. Personally I can count on 1 hand how many times I've had legitimate "upper tier" girls without paying. It's definitely rare for it to happen unless you're rich or a celebrity. Doubt you'd be posting on this forum if you had that type of status. All that should matter is that she's hot enough to give you a boner without using dick pills.

[Beirut]

Locals always rate girls different. When i see some girls that foreigners like in Lebanon sometimes im life wtf.

When youre local you associate certain features and style with a certain kind of girl, and foreigners dont have the same associations. Its normal.

As for lonewolf, well he said those were 6s and 7s so thats not a bad thing anyway. Not sure what the ugly after the pic refers to as those girls are definitely not ugly (except the two on the right). The one in red in the middle is hotter than the blonde to me (would ltr). But anyway everyone bang whoever they want.



PS: I saw wellrockthecitys girls in colombia and theyre definitely on a way upper level.

[Shimmy]

Any guy wants girls who are exotic, it's not just local Colombian guys. If you grow up around pale white chicks your whole life they are a dime a dozen. If you grow up around Latinas those white chicks are exotic. Pretty much all the guys I know who grew up in Latin America think like like that and if a Colombiana 7 was back in my hometown where there are no good looking Latinas I'm sure most guys I know there would lose their shit and think she's a supermodel.

[lonewolf1992]

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Damn I would rather bang all the girls in the second pic except second from the right over the girl in the first pic lol. Also why would you care how rich a girl is if she not spending that money on you?

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PC those girls in the second pic are bangable but mediocre, the chick are far left looks ok to me though.

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As for lonewolf, well he said those were 6s and 7s so thats not a bad thing anyway. Not sure what the ugly after the pic refers to as those girls are definitely not ugly (except the two on the right). The one in red in the middle is hotter than the blonde to me (would ltr). But anyway everyone bang whoever they want.

Haha guys I was being sarcastic, Those girls are really hot to me as well. Ask a local paisa and he would tell you he lives among women like that everyday and he'd say as well that they are not very special. I've three cousins in medellin who look like that. And my cousins have other cousins who look better than them. It's ridiculous the amount of pussy everywhere and think medellin is ruined compared to what it was when I grew up in there haha.

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How much time will the tunnel cut down on travel time?

Dude, according to the news the trip from the airport to medellin will be 18 minutes after the tunnel gets finished sometime in june. I know it's peanuts compared to the infrastructure in the west but I love to see my city improve.[/size]

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I hate to say it. I just hope we are not poisoning Colombia. I would hate it if we are also responsible for making Colombia like the west. I think somewhat we are partially guilty. If you date them, let them keep their culture. Even if you're not religious. Let them keep their faith. Why? Because the moment we bring in our culture they will start to lose theirs. Don't be pissies. Be more macho like some of their guys. I hope the gist is getting through.

You guys won't ruin everything. The 'aliens' with their narrative are already doing a good job with that, you may not notice that as a foreigner but I'm in this forum for a reason.

[Fitman2018]

Thank you! I agree with that the fact is most of the guys on here talk about all these bangs and hot girls but for real most are probably 6's and 7's tops which is fine too, but I have a hard time believing many of the stories on here lol and also on social media.

[ManOfTheTimes]

(04-21-2019 01:42 PM)NoMoreTO Wrote:  

^^ The 3rd and 4th from the left, in the back are definitely attractive girls. Twinkle in their eyes, not drunk, nice smiles. WB

Pointy elbows aside (chick on the extreme left appears to have the Latina hairy arm thing going on), I'd crush every one of them. Doesn't appear to be a cunty/resting bitch face/overly tattooed/Miss Piggy/entitled porker in the bunch.

Edit: I would probably go hard (as in actually put in a solid effort to game) after the one on the far right. My "whiteness" would most likely give me leverage so dealing with her on an ongoing basis would serve me better. In addition, she looks slightly more introverted than the rest of the more attention-whorey types in the photo. Girls who trend more shy tend to be less annoying for me to deal with. Plus she has long hair. Having to give women in D.C. shit for having short hair gets old after awhile.

[scotian]

^How would your whiteness give you leverage?

[Sidney Crosby]

^ Because they've never seen white people before except on TV.

[ManOfTheTimes]

(04-22-2019 07:18 PM)scotian Wrote:  

^How would your whiteness give you leverage?

As you know from your travels, light skin is associated with being of higher class in some cultures; Latin American cultures for sure. Dark(er) skinned women, especially in that region of the world, are very cognizant of their skin tone (morena, negra, indigenous and so on) so being associated with a "blanquito" validates them in a way and you will normally get more effort (logistically, sexually and so on) than she might give someone of her own background. I'll often tease a girl I'm with about me being super white as compared to her which playfully but subtly reinforces our cultural and/or class differences. That's my experience anyway.

[wellrockthecity]

@ManOfTheTimes its all in your head bro.
Plenty of morenos with attractive girls in Medellin, I heard some girl say they have the fame of having big dicks.

As long as you are not black you should be fine.

[wellrockthecity]

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[Shimmy]

I always assumed any status boost you get from white skin is because they think you have money being a gringo. It could be because I've been to Jakarta and Manila. Girls there will sport fuck you just for having pasty skin, its easily 10x worse there. In Latin America you definitely have to bring more to the table.

[Hoo]

If I overstay tourist visa and pay, will they put anything about this in my passport? Any other major downsides? I am thinking of doing it for 6-12 months since I don't need to travel elsewhere.

It seems to be very cheap compared to say student visa(1.2mil/month at EAFIT + 40 hours of time / month).

[NoMoreTO]

(04-23-2019 07:07 PM)Hoo Wrote:  

If I overstay tourist visa and pay, will they put anything about this in my passport? Any other major downsides? I am thinking of doing it for 6-12 months since I don't need to travel elsewhere.

It seems to be very cheap compared to say student visa(1.2mil/month at EAFIT + 40 hours of time / month).

You can get your letter with EAFIT for 12 months, do a month then go on a 3 month, then take another month of school, then take a break. They won't blink an eye, as long as you do some school with them and give them a little cash. I saw that when I took a course with EAFIT.

Also, for Spanish, I'd go with private tutors in coffee shops or a small local school. At EAFIT you are paying primo for a group experience surrounded by Gringos who are actually the worst language students. You can pay less and have a one on one prof, and actually help a real person to pay their bills.

[Sidney Crosby]

There are plenty of guys of all races that travel to Colombia, strike out and resort to dumpster diving or P4P.

Being white isn't a skeleton key to Latina pussy.

[travolta]

(04-23-2019 07:58 PM)NoMoreTO Wrote:  

(04-23-2019 07:07 PM)Hoo Wrote:  

If I overstay tourist visa and pay, will they put anything about this in my passport? Any other major downsides? I am thinking of doing it for 6-12 months since I don't need to travel elsewhere.

It seems to be very cheap compared to say student visa(1.2mil/month at EAFIT + 40 hours of time / month).

You can get your letter with EAFIT for 12 months, do a month then go on a 3 month, then take another month of school, then take a break. They won't blink an eye, as long as you do some school with them and give them a little cash. I saw that when I took a course with EAFIT.

Also, for Spanish, I'd go with private tutors in coffee shops or a small local school. At EAFIT you are paying primo for a group experience surrounded by Gringos who are actually the worst language students. You can pay less and have a one on one prof, and actually help a real person to pay their bills.

How would you go about finding a private tutor in Medellin? I'd like to find someone who charges around $10 USD (give or take) per hour. Can anybody recommend one to me? I've been getting many hours of practice and improving a lot simply by going out with girls who don't speak English, but I'm hitting a plateau. I've been pretty lazy to study on my own, so I think spending money for a tutor will give me the extra push I need.

[Prince Charming]

(04-26-2019 10:49 AM)travolta Wrote:  

(04-23-2019 07:58 PM)NoMoreTO Wrote:  

(04-23-2019 07:07 PM)Hoo Wrote:  

If I overstay tourist visa and pay, will they put anything about this in my passport? Any other major downsides? I am thinking of doing it for 6-12 months since I don't need to travel elsewhere.

It seems to be very cheap compared to say student visa(1.2mil/month at EAFIT + 40 hours of time / month).

You can get your letter with EAFIT for 12 months, do a month then go on a 3 month, then take another month of school, then take a break. They won't blink an eye, as long as you do some school with them and give them a little cash. I saw that when I took a course with EAFIT.

Also, for Spanish, I'd go with private tutors in coffee shops or a small local school. At EAFIT you are paying primo for a group experience surrounded by Gringos who are actually the worst language students. You can pay less and have a one on one prof, and actually help a real person to pay their bills.

How would you go about finding a private tutor in Medellin? I'd like to find someone who charges around $10 USD (give or take) per hour. Can anybody recommend one to me? I've been getting many hours of practice and improving a lot simply by going out with girls who don't speak English, but I'm hitting a plateau. I've been pretty lazy to study on my own, so I think spending money for a tutor will give me the extra push I need.

I know some girl that gives private classes for like $3/h. havent had time to try it but whatsapp me ill pass you the contact