Taking a nod from Kaotic, I’m assessing my year.
Almost every major goal I set for myself, I achieved.
I remember that in January of this year, I wrote down two goals — become more adept at my self-taught profession and bang five (5) women. I knew I could achieve the first. I also knew I could achieve the second, and was excited by the prospect of banging five women, but totally unsure how and when these bangs would happen.
It was a REACH goal. At age 26, I’d only slept with three women. One was my only girlfriend at age 22, and the others were girls I met in 2014. I remember thinking in 2014 how crazy it was for only eight days to span between meeting the girl, going on two dates, and having sex. Up until 2015, I’d never had a one night stand in my life.
In July of this year, I set three more goals—Establish a rotation of three women, teach a class on storytelling, earn $5,000 in my consulting business.
In November, I taught the class. By December, I’d made $4,500, just under the goal I set for myself. I don’t have a rotation, so I didn’t accomplish that goal.
My 2015 in Review
The Bright Spots:
-Went on an annual camping trip with my buddies
-Traveled abroad twice this year
-Banged 13 women
-I can bench press 4 reps at my weight, 140 lbs (when I started in April, I only could lift the bar)
-I taught a class to 10 people
-Amazing and fun 5-year college reunion
-I vowed to go on my first Capture the Flag Mission to fight depression – it worked, but I put weeks of preparation into the trip.
-Two stand-out weekends in my city, one in June one in October
-I banged Burning Man
The Tough Spots:
-Badly depressed in early January and again in early June. Felt like nothing was working.
-Meeting girls who were clearly into me, and I’d become excited because I’d start to think “hey she could be my gf” – then after we’d gone out once or twice, watching them disappear from my life, almost without a trace.
-Date after date after date ending in frustration
-Did not Bang Sweden, but I did write this Stockholm data sheet
-Struggling to convert my dates into bangs (more on this in a second)
The Data from This Year:
-In 2015, I collected approximately 170 phone numbers, excluding trips outside my city.
-Roughly 60% came from day game, the rest from night game, and two numbers from online game.
- 6 bangs from these numbers—4 after a date, 2 same night lay
- 3 bangs we never exchanged numbers
- 4 bangs from trips outside of my city
-In total, 9 one night stands and 4 bangs from dates.
Converting a number to a date
-Looking at only the last six months of the year, I went on 26 first dates.
- 22 dates from 53 day game numbers (40%)
- 4 dates from 45 night game numbers (9%)
-Overall, I’m converting a number to a date 25% of the time. Night game numbers can and will improve, but 25% overall strikes me as acceptable.
Converting a date to a bang
-In 2015, I went on 40 first dates.
- 4 eventual bangs from 40 first dates (10%).
-I only banged 1 out of every 10 women with whom I had a first date. I feel this percentage should be at least three times higher.
-I’m actively adjusting my approach to de-emphasize pushing for sex on the first date in most cases, because of poor results.
-Unsurprisingly, almost every first date did not result in a second.
Game Highlights:
-First time having a one-night stand (in January)
-By sheer luck and a little game, banged the hottest girl from a group of seven women at a bar the day of the Super Bowl
-Four insta-dates in Mexico in six days (in March)
-First time ever banging a girl on the first date (in May)
-The best blowjob I’ve ever had
-Banged Denmark on my first night there, on my last approach of the night at 3:30 am
-Improved overcoming last-minute resistance with help from OTSC, Blackdragon, others.
-Street approached women, going in direct during the day with compliments
-First time having a right-to-my-house first date (though we did not bang)
Game Goals for Next Year:
-Meet a woman and sleep with her at least three times (someone I enjoy spending time with inside and outside the bedroom)
-Bang an 18-year old girl
-Bang a woman with a kid
-Bat near .300 for my dates ultimately leading to bangs
-Dress better all the time
At about every juncture this year, there was someone here willing to respond to my struggles with advice, suggestions and responses. I would be remiss myself if I didn’t take time to recognize some of the many guys who helped me indirectly or directly this year on the forum.
WIA, OTSC, Redbeard, LINUX, Hwuzhere, fvitterbi, Teddykgb, WestCoast, Kaotic, Huey, Tuthmosis, BlurredSevens
I hope everyone reading this works hard to achieve their personal and professional goals in 2016. Thanks all.
Almost every major goal I set for myself, I achieved.
I remember that in January of this year, I wrote down two goals — become more adept at my self-taught profession and bang five (5) women. I knew I could achieve the first. I also knew I could achieve the second, and was excited by the prospect of banging five women, but totally unsure how and when these bangs would happen.
It was a REACH goal. At age 26, I’d only slept with three women. One was my only girlfriend at age 22, and the others were girls I met in 2014. I remember thinking in 2014 how crazy it was for only eight days to span between meeting the girl, going on two dates, and having sex. Up until 2015, I’d never had a one night stand in my life.
In July of this year, I set three more goals—Establish a rotation of three women, teach a class on storytelling, earn $5,000 in my consulting business.
In November, I taught the class. By December, I’d made $4,500, just under the goal I set for myself. I don’t have a rotation, so I didn’t accomplish that goal.
My 2015 in Review
The Bright Spots:
-Went on an annual camping trip with my buddies
-Traveled abroad twice this year
-Banged 13 women
-I can bench press 4 reps at my weight, 140 lbs (when I started in April, I only could lift the bar)
-I taught a class to 10 people
-Amazing and fun 5-year college reunion
-I vowed to go on my first Capture the Flag Mission to fight depression – it worked, but I put weeks of preparation into the trip.
-Two stand-out weekends in my city, one in June one in October
-I banged Burning Man
The Tough Spots:
-Badly depressed in early January and again in early June. Felt like nothing was working.
-Meeting girls who were clearly into me, and I’d become excited because I’d start to think “hey she could be my gf” – then after we’d gone out once or twice, watching them disappear from my life, almost without a trace.
-Date after date after date ending in frustration
-Did not Bang Sweden, but I did write this Stockholm data sheet
-Struggling to convert my dates into bangs (more on this in a second)
The Data from This Year:
-In 2015, I collected approximately 170 phone numbers, excluding trips outside my city.
-Roughly 60% came from day game, the rest from night game, and two numbers from online game.
- 6 bangs from these numbers—4 after a date, 2 same night lay
- 3 bangs we never exchanged numbers
- 4 bangs from trips outside of my city
-In total, 9 one night stands and 4 bangs from dates.
Converting a number to a date
-Looking at only the last six months of the year, I went on 26 first dates.
- 22 dates from 53 day game numbers (40%)
- 4 dates from 45 night game numbers (9%)
-Overall, I’m converting a number to a date 25% of the time. Night game numbers can and will improve, but 25% overall strikes me as acceptable.
Converting a date to a bang
-In 2015, I went on 40 first dates.
- 4 eventual bangs from 40 first dates (10%).
-I only banged 1 out of every 10 women with whom I had a first date. I feel this percentage should be at least three times higher.
-I’m actively adjusting my approach to de-emphasize pushing for sex on the first date in most cases, because of poor results.
-Unsurprisingly, almost every first date did not result in a second.
Game Highlights:
-First time having a one-night stand (in January)
-By sheer luck and a little game, banged the hottest girl from a group of seven women at a bar the day of the Super Bowl
-Four insta-dates in Mexico in six days (in March)
-First time ever banging a girl on the first date (in May)
-The best blowjob I’ve ever had
-Banged Denmark on my first night there, on my last approach of the night at 3:30 am
-Improved overcoming last-minute resistance with help from OTSC, Blackdragon, others.
-Street approached women, going in direct during the day with compliments
-First time having a right-to-my-house first date (though we did not bang)
Game Goals for Next Year:
-Meet a woman and sleep with her at least three times (someone I enjoy spending time with inside and outside the bedroom)
-Bang an 18-year old girl
-Bang a woman with a kid
-Bat near .300 for my dates ultimately leading to bangs
-Dress better all the time
At about every juncture this year, there was someone here willing to respond to my struggles with advice, suggestions and responses. I would be remiss myself if I didn’t take time to recognize some of the many guys who helped me indirectly or directly this year on the forum.
WIA, OTSC, Redbeard, LINUX, Hwuzhere, fvitterbi, Teddykgb, WestCoast, Kaotic, Huey, Tuthmosis, BlurredSevens
I hope everyone reading this works hard to achieve their personal and professional goals in 2016. Thanks all.
