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06-04-2015, 01:38 PM
I didn't know your face could blow up like a balloon because of a punctured lung. Strange how the body works.
It can be awfully difficult to keep your cool when women get nasty and play on your emotions, especially if they're throwing their adultery in your face.
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06-04-2015, 02:02 PM
I wasn't planning to get married at all.
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06-04-2015, 02:03 PM
I wonder how many guys discovered that they had a temper after getting married.
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06-04-2015, 02:20 PM
Has any here been 'taunted' by a harlot of a wife over her returning to the carousel as a richer married woman?
What's the choices in the era of no fault divorce?
Accept the cuckoldry to keep the divorce lawyer away and try not to think of your wife telling her friends of her extramarital life?
Divorce on principle and take the financial hit that will render you relatively unattractive to women for the rest of your life?
I hope no one here will ever be so overwhelmed with rage that he takes the man in the OP's option.
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06-04-2015, 02:31 PM
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Divorce on principle and take the financial hit that will render you relatively unattractive to women for the rest of your life?
I think you have to choose divorce. Living as a cuckold to a never-ending series of random cocks will kill your soul.
Plus, you're only still in the marriage at her mercy -- she can walk away with half+ anytime she wants. And all she has to do is
pretend that you have a temper to make your life a living hell.
Take the financial hit and get out of there was some shred of self-respect. Restart and rebuild, but live to fuck another day.
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06-04-2015, 02:35 PM
Recording the conversation to make her guilty during the divorce settlement, and a simple backhand would have sufficed.
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06-04-2015, 02:36 PM
Yeah I'd walk away in a heartbeat and never look back. What's the point of living out my life with an aging hamster if I can't even expect some loyalty in return? Not taking cock on the side is literally the least she could do for me. I don't care what the financial hit would be. I'd rather live in a shoebox than stay tied to someone who doesn't have any respect for me.
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06-04-2015, 03:09 PM
If that were the case, I think even less men will marry to keep his fuck options legally open. Whether this will be detremental to women, I actually have no idea. On the one hand, they'll just continue ridin' dirty, but on the other, there would be even less options once they reach the wall.
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06-04-2015, 03:54 PM
Quote: (06-04-2015 02:36 PM)Socrates Wrote:
Yeah I'd walk away in a heartbeat and never look back. What's the point of living out my life with an aging hamster if I can't even expect some loyalty in return? Not taking cock on the side is literally the least she could do for me. I don't care what the financial hit would be. I'd rather live in a shoebox than stay tied to someone who doesn't have any respect for me.
This is a great point, especially if someone has a temper. If someone is prone to explosive, hulk like anger, the longer they are in a conflict that doesn't resolve the more likely they are to fuck up or get fucked over with a mistake. Most chicks can fight dirty and calmly for the long haul...like a marital siege. If a dude is married and has the personality where he has to punch things when a ref makes a bad call his best bet is to get out of a bad marriage as quickly as possible.
Its similar to sparring or actual fighting, if an explosive rage fighter can't crush his opponent in the first few seconds of a fight its likely his opponent can stay calm and collected enough to exploit his opponents anger over the subsequent rounds when he starts to flame out.
Why do the heathen rage and the people imagine a vain thing? Psalm 2:1 KJV
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06-04-2015, 03:57 PM
Quote: (06-04-2015 03:51 PM)samsamsam Wrote:
Quote: (06-04-2015 02:35 PM)Nightwing Wrote:
Recording the conversation to make her guilty during the divorce settlement, and a simple backhand would have sufficed.
Can't imagine a woman who cheats regularly, or even once, will feel very guilty.
It won't matter when she's left penniless for her slutiness with the help of evidence, and a private investigator.
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06-04-2015, 04:22 PM
Nightwing, I thought the no fault divorces no judge gives a shit about infidelity. Maybe I misheard.
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06-04-2015, 04:26 PM
PI or no, her slutlording is all his fault dont'cha know. He was emotionaly unavilable and pushed her to it.
Poor thing.
Reminds me of a line from an old song:
We split it half and half.
She got the gold mine.
I got the shaft.
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06-04-2015, 05:57 PM
Samsamsam, of course I'm just basing this off of my experience with Murder Mystery, but according to this lawyer
here, we should aim for a 'For fault divorce' when dealing with a cheating wench, it's more expensive, but at least she gets no alimony.
This woman practically faulted herself.
Some judges go with the womyn's point of view however.
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06-04-2015, 07:30 PM
Quote: (06-04-2015 06:10 PM)Caractacus Potts Wrote:
Quote: (06-04-2015 05:57 PM)Nightwing Wrote:
Samsamsam, of course I'm just basing this off of my experience with Murder Mystery, but according to this lawyer here, we should aim for a 'For fault divorce' when dealing with a cheating wench, it's more expensive, but at least she gets no alimony.
This woman practically faulted herself.
Some judges go with the womyn's point of view however.
Nightwing,
I had a female judge. Their was no doubt about my exes adultery. She admitted it. Do you know what the judge said?
"Counselor, I'm not going to punish her for her bad behavior."
Welcome to no fault divorce.
Wow, I feel bad, you have tried and tested this 'system', only to have reaped suffering from it. I can only imagine what you went through.`
I will post something equally as graphic to quell your prior traumas, and portray how I feel after receiving this information.
http://img.gawkerassets.com/img/18n1zleo...iginal.gif
Now I realize that only 'no fault' divorce exists in the West.
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06-04-2015, 07:42 PM
Almost all divorces happen because of adultery, domestic violence, or both. The mere fact that a divorce is pending means that at least one of those two things most likely happened. Where I am, judges couldn't care less about adultery and domestic violence is often viewed with skepticism. Hiring a private investigator is usually a complete waste of time and money and being bitter and angry is completely stupid and unhelpful. The smartest move is to stay positive, focus on self improvement and take any and all steps to avoid having the same thing ever happen again. What percentage of guys going through a divorce are smart enough to understand that? No more than 5%. Maybe even far less than 5%
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06-04-2015, 08:23 PM
This is the primary reason why I will never, ever give in to a woman's demand to be her 'live-in' boyfriend in MY house.
Once in, they are like vampires. Impossible to get rid of.
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06-04-2015, 09:19 PM
I hate to say this but, cheat first. Get it out of the way. Then if and when she cheats it doesnt hurt that bad. Use if as blackmail that you will tell her mother, sisters whoever that she cheated with a broke ass dumb shit while you were succeeding and being a good provider.