[Rollo Tomassi]

Alpha is not looks. Alpha is not status, nor is it affluence, humor or integrity.

Betas can have all of these things, and get laid, and be husbands. But sooner or later, as circumstance demands, that Beta nature manifests itself in his daily life, in his marriage, in his raising of his children, and women key on this nature and make the natural comparisons of him to men they know or have known in the past.

All the romantic gestures, all the playing it even, all the "respecting her needs" and being supportive, all the prince charming in the world, wont change the Beta perception her Hypergamy subconsciously understands.

Alpha is a state of mind, not a demographic.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(01-04-2015 01:50 PM)Rollo Tomassi Wrote:  

Alpha is not looks. Alpha is not status, nor is it affluence, humor or integrity.

Betas can have all of these things, and get laid, and be husbands. But sooner or later, as circumstance demands, that Beta nature manifests itself in his daily life, in his marriage, in his raising of his children, and women key on this nature and make the natural comparisons of him to men they know or have known in the past.
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Exactly - we have a friend in our little group of friends who meet regularly from time to time as we are scattered all around Europe in the corporate world.

The guy has model-looks (got offered a contract), has an excellent job in the corporate world and might reach VP level and a 7-digit income before 45, he even seduces girls quite easily. Also he is the boss of an EU country at the company he works for and is very decisive and "Alpha" there.
But the very same guy becomes the Beta around his ball-busting wife. We tease him a bit about it, because he married a "strong" woman who reminded him of his mother and grandmother as he grew up without a father.

This guy has as the example by OP everything going from him and can get laid super-easily - he even has a mistress. But still his wife is unhappy with him.

His sexual market value is now 4 points above hers, so she likely won't leave him, but he is already calculating how much the divorce will cost him.

The problem is, that we know that unless he ups the Alpha, he will encounter similar problems with wife Nr. 2 in the future. Fortunately he is close to the state and can make that happen as a Greater Beta, but how many guys are like that? Most don't accept the Red Pill & others are too far gone. The real-estate guy here - too far gone if he did all that for an uber-romantic marriage proposal - he is way too invested in the Romeo-Rom-Com-feminized fiction.

[KofiKingston]

Can't believe there's guys on this thread rating that ole' hoe-turned-psuedo-housewife an 8(or higher).

29yrs old, a good decade or longer of the cock carousel, girls nights out at the bar/club every weekend, endless hookups etc...

...and a lawyer to boot.

I'm terrified at the thought of what she looks like 1st thing in the morning with no makeup or other bullshit to hide behind.

[infowarrior1]

(01-04-2015 02:13 PM)Zelcorpion Wrote:  

(01-04-2015 01:50 PM)Rollo Tomassi Wrote:  

Alpha is not looks. Alpha is not status, nor is it affluence, humor or integrity.

Betas can have all of these things, and get laid, and be husbands. But sooner or later, as circumstance demands, that Beta nature manifests itself in his daily life, in his marriage, in his raising of his children, and women key on this nature and make the natural comparisons of him to men they know or have known in the past.
...

Exactly - we have a friend in our little group of friends who meet regularly from time to time as we are scattered all around Europe in the corporate world.

The guy has model-looks (got offered a contract), has an excellent job in the corporate world and might reach VP level and a 7-digit income before 45, he even seduces girls quite easily. Also he is the boss of an EU country at the company he works for and is very decisive and "Alpha" there.
But the very same guy becomes the Beta around his ball-busting wife. We tease him a bit about it, because he married a "strong" woman who reminded him of his mother and grandmother as he grew up without a father.

This guy has as the example by OP everything going from him and can get laid super-easily - he even has a mistress. But still his wife is unhappy with him.

His sexual market value is now 4 points above hers, so she likely won't leave him, but he is already calculating how much the divorce will cost him.

The problem is, that we know that unless he ups the Alpha, he will encounter similar problems with wife Nr. 2 in the future. Fortunately he is close to the state and can make that happen as a Greater Beta, but how many guys are like that? Most don't accept the Red Pill & others are too far gone. The real-estate guy here - too far gone if he did all that for an uber-romantic marriage proposal - he is way too invested in the Romeo-Rom-Com-feminized fiction.

I had made a thread on those kinds of men. Strong and Alpha in general yet weak around his girlfriend or wife or even women in general. Like some kind of block prevents them from being completely congruent. Do you have an explanation for those kinds of men?

[Aliblahba]

(01-03-2015 01:45 PM)Quintus Curtius Wrote:  

This is a good example of one of the most insidious things about modern American feminism, and its disease vector, the modern American woman: the cold, utterly ruthless exploitation of the male protector impulse for her own one-way cynical material gain.

Why do you guys keep acting like it's only American women? Females have always been this way since the Garden of Eden. In every culture I've lived, they have a way of getting what they want, which is always through weak males. Welcome to the battle of the sexes, gents. May the odds be ever in your favor.

[Samseau]

(01-04-2015 10:12 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

(01-03-2015 01:45 PM)Quintus Curtius Wrote:  

This is a good example of one of the most insidious things about modern American feminism, and its disease vector, the modern American woman: the cold, utterly ruthless exploitation of the male protector impulse for her own one-way cynical material gain.

Why do you guys keep acting like it's only American women? Females have always been this way since the Garden of Eden. In every culture I've lived, they have a way of getting what they want, which is always through weak males. Welcome to the battle of the sexes, gents. May the odds be ever in your favor.

It's funny Ali even needs to say this when Roman lit is being quoted last page

[KorbenDallas]

Infowarrior, I have an explanation.

My dad sorta fits the bill, he's not too bad, but he fits it enough.

In my dads case, he just never really had any bad experiences with em. Still married to the same woman and screwed a lot of girls in high school and college so no wondering on if he missed out.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(01-04-2015 09:58 PM)infowarrior1 Wrote:  

I had made a thread on those kinds of men. Strong and Alpha in general yet weak around his girlfriend or wife or even women in general. Like some kind of block prevents them from being completely congruent. Do you have an explanation for those kinds of men?

I think it's a combination of forces:

For him it was his strict overpoweringly strong mother and grandmother. His dad died when he was a toddler, so his mother was a real widow. Also the general indoctrination by society contributed to it.

That constant feminine propaganda and my own more Beta-provider father also created the Blue Pill mindset in me for a long time - though with plenty of flashes. I think - I really do - that a dominant masculine state is our natural one around women.

We just have to be taught to treat women a bit differently than our male friends and most men would be doing alright in a LTR - of course if the legal system (no-fault divorce, alimony etc.) would be forthcoming and women were not encouraged to be cock-hopping up until end 20s or 30s. But there is no chance for that in the near future.

[bojangles]

Meh I watched this show once and that proposal episode was on, it made me cringe but like most handsome guys, he has no idea how high his SMV actually is and how low hers is. That's what western social conditioning does.

[machine]

If anyone thinks that guy is straight you might need to get your eyes checked.

Also the Bravo channel is a gay oriented TV channel (like many other TV channels in the USA).

[blackwolfwins]

Dammit Ryan! Physically and Socio-Economically this guy has all the makings to be a playboy, but he fucks himself in the ass - on National TV. SMH.

[kirdiesel]

Hate to bump this thread but I was watching his marriage show recently and I was wondering why he was even settling down "so early". If I were him I would have stayed single at least until I was 40 and then evaluate again. I do say she is a 8.0 but not much more than that. I still think he can do better and she is just super demanding and bitchy.. The pandering and spending 1,000,000 on the wedding is just a loss of all reality.

It just pains me to see him go out like this. NYC and the world could have been his fucking playground.... Such promise, such potential........ all wasted!

[Easy_C]

Two possibilities.

Either A: It's bullshit that he's selling, because he wants to have a "personal brand" that is appealing to the white knight mentality most people have.

B: He's dealing with a freak, when a guy like him should be chasing either a good girl (wants the white picket fence) or a ho( black slang for gold digger) type. He has a lot to offer those kinds but very little for what a freak wants.

[Oilrig]

I watch this show pretty regularly. She comes across as a nice, sweet, caring, genuine girl on the show especially towards him. Despite the fact that she's a careerist lawyer type, she seems like wifey material and I'm not surprised he locked her down.

[Sidney Crosby]

I watched this show a few times and they are basically all faggots. The Swedish or whatever he is did gay porn (it mentioned it in one episode) and the rest of them are slightly less gay.

[Captainstabbin]

This chick's a beard - riding the fame of the show for cash and to benefit her career. That dude is half a fag at the least.

[Kona]

Wow. You guys really tore Ryan Serhant apart.

Aloha!

[Rush87]

My plate watches this shit. She's making him pay $1 million for the wedding. This is in Europe so maybe they're already married, but I caught a glimpse of this show just a few days ago. He's cucked to the max when he should be plowing through life like a G.

[Tayo]

wake me up when they get divorced...

[Nineteen84]

   

[Ivanis]

Such a waste of potential.

RIP

[Slim Shady]

Damn, I didn't know this thread existed.

Ryan Serhant is actually a close relative of one of my boys, who actually knows about the forum / is very red pilled.

He was at this wedding, which also aired on TV. I'm debating showing him this thread.

God damn...you guys went after him.

[Mushroom]

I watched a few episodes of this show with my ex, the dude is totally gay and she is definitely his beard. Everything about him just gives off faggy vibes.

[fugly1000]

Idk about this guy. The show is fake and he looks real good at faking shit. Are they even married in real life? I don't care to look it up.

[GetRichOrdie]

Just goes to show you can seem to have it all, looks, money, friends, fame, but if you are a blue pill conformist, it can all go to s$#t very rapidly, and I see this all the time with divorces, 'incurable' diseases and getting reamed by the medical mafia and other related things

Just one of the various reasons I am a die-hard non-conformist red piller