[7i7iG]

or simply stare at you.

I'm talking about social circle game here, chicks you'll see frequently while minding your every day biz.

for example I ask a girl out and she straight up rejects me "NO" ...

but later I catch her taking a peek/staring/eyefucking/whatever ... what the fuck is this ?

I have experience with one particular girl who acted like this, I reapproached but it went nowhere. I dunno whether it was because my game sucked back then or they are just attention whoring and playing games when they act like this.

if the bitch has rejected me before , but is now looking/interested in me , I'd be like wtf bitch you rejected me , you lost your chance , what the fuck do you want now ??? ...

am I doing it right fellas ? I don't want to leave any pussy on the table

It's like Roosh says , I don't want to give her the opportunity to reject me twice ...

[lowside]

(12-12-2014 07:55 AM)7i7iG Wrote:  

am I doing it right fellas ? I don't want to leave any pussy on the table

It's like Roosh says , I don't want to give her the opportunity to reject me twice ...

Very right. Plenty of fish in the sea. Just straight up ignore her.

[Comte De St. Germain]

Ignore bitches play mind games simple as that.

[TravelerKai]

Circle game is different. Sometimes you can break the one strike rule because social circle game may require multiple passes on the same girl in order to get the date or whatever.

Black women do this alot, which creates more sexual tension. When they say no the first time that really doesn't mean shit at all. If these women are black then you may want to approach this different than you would with others.

Often times guys should smash and dash on women that shut them down the first time, but gave them a second try later. The reason why is because she already thinks she can control you and everything else. She probably looks down on you. Not always, but often.

The risk of a circle back is that if she tries to toy with you or friend zone you, you will lose the chance to get her back with a revenge fuck, which is worse than the first rejection.

If you take the risk make sure the eyefucking was a very strong IOI. Make sure the risk is calculated.

[TravelerKai]

One thing you should always take into account when it comes to Social Circle game is to not move too fast on any of the women at first. Never daygame your circles. It's all about set up and inclusiveness. Get all the friends in this circle invited and involved. Or merely participate more, then take the time to chat the marks (your potential targets) up and get to know them well enough, along with another 1 or 2 people from that same circle. If 2-3 share a similar interest (like a certain type of music), try to set something up with these 2-3 people. Then you have isolated them from the larger circle making a sub circle within a circle, because you 4 guys like <insert random interest>.

Now that you have isolated this target, you can become more aggressive in gauging her interest. I call this shit my Boa Constrictor Strategy or Circle Isolation. I'm sure someone else or PUAs call it something else, but the idea is the same. If you isolate them you are far less likely to not get a bland no. You will know if that girl is someone who would say no by the time you have isolated her.

It's a slow burn, so you gotta be patient. Social Circle game is mostly about trust, feeling safe, reputation/recognition in a woman's mind. Look at it from their point of view. The reason they are eye fucking you is because they may have judged you too fast and you might be an okay guy, but you were probably too forward at the beginning.

[DarkTriad]

I don't even think most of it's about you. Women get lots of offers, she may want to bang, but still be temporarily alpha widowed, enthralled by someone else or whatever. Circumstances change.

[7i7iG]

(12-12-2014 10:04 AM)DarkTriad Wrote:  

I don't even think most of it's about you. Women get lots of offers, she may want to bang, but still be temporarily alpha widowed, enthralled by someone else or whatever. Circumstances change.

you mean I should ignore the fact that she's already rejected me once and go for the bang ?

well , I'm asking for you guys experience , has anyone been able to pull such a thing off ?

because from what I understand , it's like a validation-switch in their mind. they just want to see if they can still get you to talk to them.

[BCien]

(12-12-2014 09:26 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

The reason why is because she already thinks she can control you and everything else. She probably looks down on you. Not always, but often

This! Is the core to a lot of things in game

[pros80]

This happens a lot. I think it shows a lot of power if you catch her looking at you but just keep ignoring her. If something is gonna happen she will reinitiate with you because you aren't going back and giving her validation.

I've had this happen where I ignored looks back at me after initial brush off and then a few days later she starts small talk with me and then I make her chase me a bit.

Keep acting like you are unaffected by her brush off.

[7i7iG]

(12-13-2014 11:33 AM)pros80 Wrote:  

This happens a lot. I think it shows a lot of power if you catch her looking at you but just keep ignoring her. If something is gonna happen she will reinitiate with you because you aren't going back and giving her validation.

I've had this happen where I ignored looks back at me after initial brush off and then a few days later she starts small talk with me and then I make her chase me a bit.

Keep acting like you are unaffected by her brush off.

I know, that'd be the standard play, right ?

but none of them has ever re-initiated ... maybe it's a logistic issue, the two of us have to be alone ... but that obviously won't really happen given the circumstances

[Kingsley Davis]

A woman doing this is a woman pumped and dumped by a high value man resembling yourself Youngster. Take it as a compliment from a child in an adult body.

[7i7iG]

(12-13-2014 01:02 PM)Kingsley Davis Wrote:  

A woman doing this is a woman pumped and dumped by a high value man resembling yourself Youngster. Take it as a compliment from a child in an adult body.

that's a nice point of view

but I'm more interested in actual fucking than a compliment from a child

[TravelerKai]

Don't be so thirsty. She can tell you are hungry as hell. That's why she isn't saying anything much.

Learn how to use prevalidation game. Be seen with prettier women or dating many others rendering her invisible may make her come back surprising you in the process. By then, you can decide whether or not you actually give a fuck or not.

[Dark Knowledge]

Chicks are conditioned to say NO. It's an immediate impulse. Especially for insecure girls who aren't in command of their emotions. If a girl keeps looking you over, it means she likely regrets it. The best thing to do is to throw the ball back to them. My move is to carry a business card. If i'm flirting with a girl and she's engaging but declines to give me her #, i'll give her my card and tell her to call me. This has worked for me in the past. But I felt a girl was a straight up cunt, I won't do the card move. Her loss.

But like OP said, " I don't want to give her the opportunity to reject me twice." They should only get 1 chance

[gamebreaker32]

Two years ago a girl led me on for months and then this guy who is ten years older than both us and drives a nice car comes around and she hops on his dick like that. Several months later I see her and I had been in the weight room and she tells me she wants to hang out sometime and that she was talking to a guy but not anymore, I backed off. Saw her working at Starbucks a week ago when I'm in the drive thru and at first I didn't think it was her but then I was like holy shit it is, she got huge, knew she had a baby but dammn. She saw me and then I see her goto the bathroom like she wanted to avoid the situation(embarassed?), anyways it was shocking.