Quote: (12-27-2018 11:15 PM)Delta Wrote:
Quote: (12-24-2018 10:42 PM)Crash_Bandicoot Wrote:
NYC peep here.
I do decently well on Bumble (15-20 matches a day - - - half are 6's and below, the other half are 7's and 7.5's).
The changed that I made to my profile to get more matches was exaggerating my height (I'm 5'10'' but put 6 feet), putting pictures of me where I looked tall and jacked and where my skin looked lighter than it really is (I'm Indian-American and am light-brown skin tone), and made my profile really full of bullet points of interesting shit I've done in the past (traveled to south america, can dance salsa, risk taker, etc)
I will admit though that none of my matches are the really hot NYC women. None of my friends match with them either. I wonder who is matching and banging the 8's and above on these online dating sites
EDIT
So you're saying you get ~7-10 matches a day with 7's and above?? Dude that is absurd. I need to pick your brain.
1. How good-looking are you? Have you ever tested out your pics on Photofeeler?
2. Do you count girls who match but never start a convo as matches?
3. Have you tried anywhere other than NYC? If so how did your results compare?
Haha yeah online dating sucks. I much more prefer meeting women in-person. It has drained me hard because it just takes a lot of time. Keep in mind that I live in NYC though - which is WAY different than any other American city.
1. In reality I'm just an average looking dude. I also have brown skin (I'm Indian American) and being a minority on online dating sucks. My pics, though, are the photos where I look way better than I actually am (posing and shit). I have some really old photos of myself from a few years ago that I keep on there just because it makes me look badass and really attractive.
I realize that women don't care about a guy's career, abilities, or any of that shit - I stack my profile with lots of interesting, and fun details that will allow her to start a conversation. Realize that online game is all about PERCEPTION of who you are - not who you actually are. It's crazy, I know, but that's just how it works.
2. I would say 50% start a convo with me.
3. My results outside of NYC are drastically worse. NYC is the best dating market for me.
I've been with lots of 5's, 6's, and 7's on Bumble but that's about it. The reality is that I do way better in terms of quality for night game. It's ridiculously hard to get the 7's, 8's, and 9's from online and that's why I'm wondering who the hell gets with them.