Quote: (09-18-2014 08:36 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:
Quote: (09-18-2014 08:17 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Quote: (09-18-2014 07:43 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:
I disagree about breaking it off right away. You want to milk her for as much sex as you can. Start escalating more sexually. Doing dirtier and dirtier things until she loses it and flips out. You want her to lose her mind and break up with you. She'll trash you to everyone and you'll get some alpha street cred out of it.
I've tried this, it's easy to forgive and forget when she drains your balls.
Ahh that's the real test of your fortitude isn't it?
I love your posts Archie. Always good stuff.
I agree with Parlay to an extent, but you can't get to the point where you are wanting the bullshit break up to happen.
You're emotionally invested in this girl. That's completely understand for a two year relationship and not something to be ashamed of. Your mind will rationalize her deceit away and you will eventually believe her.
But the fact is: she DITCHED you to hang out with an EX-BOYFRIEND simply because of a FREE concert ticket. What did that ticket cost? That number is your value. If she is going to ditch you for a $100 concert ticket, that is all you are worth to her.
Again, its not something to be ashamed about. Just understand where you stand in her life right now and act accordingly.
If you don't live with her, theres really no reason to break it off with her. Go back to game 101: one text to her three, radio silence for a day or two at times, hardcore sex focusing on your pleasure not hers, and get a sidepiece or two.
This will be hard at first, she has been your emotional and sexual drug. It's hard to wean yourself off that. The first few days of this are crucial, you will want to text and call and snapchat. Maintain your discipline, eventually it will become natural.
She has been your emotional drug. You have also been her emotional drug. Once you start pulling away, she will come back and with a greater desire. Just keep reminding yourself that she downgraded you to a mere $100 value. There is really no reason to give her more than that in return.
Just fuck the hell out her in Christian Grey style. Pick up a sidepiece. And wait for the meltdown, because it will come, but don't push for it or try to manipulate it to happen. Enjoy the pussy, but mentally downgrade her from GF status. When the meltdown happens, cut contact. Dont block her phone number or any of that shit, that just screams "I don't have enough self control" and eliminates the future booty call.
I speak from experience. I had a summer fling that had me borderline beta. It was an absolutely mindblowing experience. But I saw the red flags, and pulled back emotionally but not physically. I was literally in love with this girl, I got needy, she responsed like a female should. Pulling back was hard, but in the end it was exactly what was needed. I still have mindblowing sex with her from time to time, but she has been removed from the pedestal and she knows that.
Your relationship is in essence over. You're not going to marry her. So enjoy the easy sex and pursue other women. She is now your fuck buddy. Tell her what she wants to hear, do what you want to do.
God'll prolly have me on some real strict shit
No sleeping all day, no getting my dick licked
The Original Emotional Alpha