Quote: (07-27-2016 09:35 AM)Phoenix Wrote:
I think the real question is: will western women stop being fat, unpleasant, unfeminine scatter-brains who get pumped at 20 and buy cats at 30? Answer's the same.
Belated +1 for concise criticism. My only critique is you missed the step where they become devoted to their cats at 40 when their SMV plummets. I don't gloat over that, I don't like to kick anybody while they're down.
My life is not like that of the top 1% natural alphas, my childhood natural best friend is rich and happy with kids and a wife that is smart enough to kiss ass.
For me in my late 50s, America became a
grim sexual desert. I should add I keep my hard-won ( 20 years) professional credentials current so I can come temporarily leech off the huge, powerful economy. Which is driven by the fact that the
men work themselves to death accepting a grim sexual desert.
I had always been "the interesting guy" and got what I would call "curiousity fucks" from 6s,but they preferred to fuck players; that just became intolerable when I became the "old interesting guy" about 45 and I didn't even get the curiosity fucks I did when younger.
Also in late 50s my sexual abilities declined and I became even less willing to bed the White Whale.
I first went to Europe at 1983, Russia in 1993. I was near Moscow, commuting with my young hostess from an icy suburb with huge apartment blocks but only one car parked nearby. We visited the polling place the day they elected Yeltsin in the first actual election in something like .....ever in their history. I try not to think about alternate realities in life that are not possible now (regret), but objectively I believe she was willing, and I should have married her.
Their economy was a mess, but I immediately saw it was a different world where men were treated with some respect.
Fast forward 15 years for a financial fool to build a solid small passive income, just about 1500 per month.
Now at 60, the Philippines is a humorous and gentle godsend. It did take months to appreciate the culture but I learned a huge amount about my own vanity and about appreciating human life, children, and being thankful for what you have in life. But don't delay when grasping the moment, like the oligarchs changed Russia, Philippines now has a very unusual political situation I don't want to discuss in detail, but you never know how climates will change.
I perceived the the mindset in the USA (which I foolishly blindly subscribed to) as more like:
1) Whatever you have materially you are a failure if you do not continually strive to get more .
2) Everything else in life is secondary to achieving an upper middle class lifestyle. Children, free time and adventure are only reasonable to pursue if you have middle-class money.
In the Philippines 7+ girls willingly and eagerly take it raw with the open agreement that they would be lucky to have a child from a talented , decent looking educated guy like myself.
The basic, billenia old truth of biology--
If attractive, fertile women are not openly willing to have your children you are an outcast in your own culture.
But there is a follow-on corollary to this for those who want to marry and have kids. I intend to marry a girl in the 3rd world country, then live with her in the 2nd.
In a poorer Euro country-- Portugal, Poland-- there is less abrasive pollution, poverty, disease and stress for growing our future kids.
If you weren't smart enough young enough to get set up in Rich Asia, Japan, where the girls are hotter than here, then:
"Born in the first world, fish in the third, farm in the second."