Quote: (07-01-2014 01:48 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:
Just wanted to weigh in with instant dates. I think Gio goes for more connections and
numbers.
I have a weird opinion of "Insta-Dates"..
I don't care about them. I think they are slightly overrated.
For me, the approach itself is an "Insta-date". If I approach a girl and we have a nice chat, that is essentially the same thing as an "insta-date".
If the approach goes well, I will start touching her, flirting with her, making plans to hang out with her, kiss her, etc.
I don't really feel a strong need to move her to another location.
I can usually tell if a girl likes me or not in the first few minutes of conversation.
If she doesn't like me after talking to me for a few minutes, I don't think moving her to another location will make her like me..
My approaches are my "insta-dates".. I try to build comfort, connection and attraction in the first few minutes of conversation.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not opposed to doing "insta-dates", I just don't think that they are really necessary for my style of game.
Instead of doing an "insta-date' with one girl. I would rather approach 5 more girls.
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"Insta-dates" can be good or bad, depending on your overall game and "date game".
"Insta-dates" are the same thing as 1st dates, you have to have some game and some "date game".
The date can go well or the date can go bad.
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That said,
I do "insta-dates" occasionally..
Here are a few examples:
I was walking through a major university campus about 2 days before graduation.. I see
a cute light skinned black girl in a tennis skirt with beautiful toned legs and a great butt walking right towards me.. She is holding a tennis racket..
I go into a building to hide from her and as she is walking past the building.. I walk out and position myself right in front of her..
me: hey is that tennis or badminton?
her: oh hey its tennis
me: you're going to play now?
her: yup
me: where are the courts around here?
her: just about a block away, but im going to hit against the wall by myself
me: oh damn, i wish i had my racket i would play with you.
her: i have 2 rackets
me: haha really, ok, ill play you, let me go to my car and change clothes
her: ok
10 minutes later we were playing tennis. We played for an hour and then I took her number.
She is 18 years old.
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Here is another one from the dorms at a local university. I see a cute girl walking right towards me with her headphones on.
Mixed looking, maybe asian/white, young, petite body..
Just as she gets to me, I touch her arm..
me: hey, what are you listening too?
her: sorry, my headphones were on
me: i was just asking what you were listening too, it looks like you are listening to the chili peppers.
her: oh no, but i love the chili peppers.
me: people say i look like the lead singer
her: omg, you do look like him
me: whats his name?
her" oh i forget
me: so what are you listening to today?
her: the deltones
me: oh i've never heard of them, can i listen?
her: sure
I put one of her headphones in my ear. The music is okay.
me: oh that is cool, i gotta check them out.
her: my favorite right now
me: what are you doing right now?
her: just going for a walk
me: oh thats nice, to where?
her: i don't know, just around campus
me: thats cool, you ever go to the beach?
her: not really, i don't have a car
Blah, Blah, Blah...We chat for a few minutes. Finally, she says this..
her: i'm kind of an alcoholic
me: haha really?
her: ya
me: well, i kind of feel like having a drink, wanna get some wine and hang out?
her: well, im only 18
me: no prob, i can buy it trader joes and we can put it in gatorade bottles
her: oh good idea
me: lets go to joes
We go to Trader Joes and get the wine. Then we walk to the top of this tower with a cool view. We hang out and drink. Other students are up there smoking weed. They let us hit some of their weed. After an hour or so, we are pretty tipsy. I start rubbing her hand and rubbing her back, I lean in and caress her ear and neck with my lips, she gives no resistance and seems into it. We start walking back to campus.
her: i have to go by my dorm room real quick.
me: okay
As soon as we get into the elevator I make my move, the elevator door closes and we start making out. We get to her room and its on, heavy make out, clothes start coming off, my cock is in her hand.
Beautiful, tight, young body. Half Filipino, half white.
I start to take her pants off. There is a knock at the door. Her fat roommate. Fuck!!!
I invite her to my house for dinner. We eat a little, I try to bang, she won't let me. The alcohol is wearing off. She ask me to take her home. I take her number, I text her a few days later, she never gets back to me.
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Don't get me wrong, if you can do "insta-dates", do them!
Just the experience and practice alone will be beneficial to most guys.