Quote: (07-01-2014 11:02 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:
Quote: (07-01-2014 06:59 AM)BadWolf Wrote:
No matter what anyone is saying in these forums, right now is not a good time to be a foreigner in China. There are HUGE swaths of Chinese men not getting pussy and when something goes wrong in China, the first ones to be blamed are the foreigners. I am getting TONS of dirty looks all day. Usually its not so bad, usually its about 1 or 2 an hour, now its EVERY other guy and then all his friends too. They are hurting for pussy from the massive imbalance.
Last week we went to a nightclub, my wife tagged along and sat down as usual. Some guys invited us to a table and gave us drinks but stopped after they found out we were teachers, not business people. My wife also told them that she was married to me which resulted in them telling her how garbage foreigners were and how evil we were and then them trying to secretly get her phone number. She said she refused a few times and they started getting quite pushy so that's when she grabbed me and we left (I had no idea what was going on, I'm usually off dancing and I don't speak enough Chinese).
As for me, I'm getting the fvck out of China at the earliest opportunity... the only people that really like it here are people that have it WAY worse back home (usually Americans).
Yeah there is a alot of hate there in those big cities. Guangzhou is full of hating ass young people. Jealous all the time. If you could understand them, you would get angry more often. Or laugh, like I did. One skinny ass loser and his mop headed girlfriend were talking shit about us in the subway, while sitting across from us. They were speaking regular Mandarin too. My wife and I looked at each other and l laughed out loud while looking at them. Then he started hugging his gf closer and started kissing on her. I just shook my head at them and made fun of his gf's clothes and mop hair style. They got up and left.
Much of the haters in Guangzhou are not even locals. Just some shitty fucking brats from some countryside far away or something. Never seen a foreigner with a pretty Chinese girl before. These are the types that would get a Mao tattoo if they could afford it.
Have you ever been hated on by military punks before? Those fuckers are rude and mean times 100. I won't mess with them. My wife yells at them though, which makes me nervous because I do not know what they are capable or willing to do to save face unlike others.
A smug stare back at them goes a long ways too. Sometimes I wink at them to let them know I can understand what they are saying, depends upon the situation.
When you get here, the hate will not stop. Black women hate on us hard after they get over the initial shock of seeing us! Younger White women and single mother ones roll their eyes and raise their noses. They stare at me as if I am covered in blood.
They ask if my wife is 18 or if she is in high school. I got blocked from buying beer from a jealous bitch in a grocery store because they thought my wife was underage and demanded her drivers license and wouldn't look at a passport!
Older black women 40-80 grimmace. So you might catch older white ladies doing the same too.
Other Chinese women here are mixed. Some love us and some think we are strange, and some hate either me or her, etc. etc.
Overall I love it. These are all the same fat and unfeminine bitches that more or less caused me to run outta this country like my hair was on fire.
BTW - For all the other reading this, don't do anything I did in China like that. I don't recommend it. Always stay quiet and mind your own business. Just ignore haters as if they do not exist. Shit talking is not a good thing to do. I never did it again after that. I just had a the wrong mood that day I guess.
This is why I always carry a big bag of "I don't give a fuck what you think" around with me - and Kai, I know from reading what you've written, you carry your own as well. Why would I care at all what a stranger thinks - that said (BadWolf's consistently negative experiences aside), once Chinese men find out that its your laopo (wife) and not just a girl you're slamming, the hostile ones tend to lighten up. A lot. Many of them do get kind of agitated seeing interracial couples walking around, though they definitely care less when the girl is unattractive.
Quote: (07-01-2014 07:15 PM)TravelerKai Wrote:
Quote: (07-01-2014 06:39 PM)InternationalPlayboy Wrote:Actually a lot of Chinese women will tell you that actually, they don't want a very handsome guy. They feel like men (their example being Chinese men) cheat once married, and a handsome man will be that much more tempted by the availability of women to him due to his looks. I've heard this directly from Chinese women many times - and its not something ugly women say, as they tend not to get the handsome guys in the first place.
Quote: (07-01-2014 01:19 PM)TravelerKai Wrote:
If you look at those men, they are bottom of the barrel in looks as well. Also they are only African. furthermore, with the exception of the fatties, those guys did well considering what they look like. A wife should always be at least one point higher than you. If you look anything like them, I could understand your sentiment. If you look anything like a decent average looking black american man, you would not pull that low unless your mindset corralled you into that. We invited a 70 year old black guy who is retired, to my house for a visit, that married a 40 year old Chinese woman that is waayyyyyyy hotter than these women above. He is tall, good looking for a 70 year old man, he grew up in Trinidad, worked for IBM for years, and is very intelligent and well spoken. His wife adores him too.
If you are black American, 70, and can get a pretty 40 year old, what do you make of that?
You have to understand that this is somewhat new territory, you are not going to see 100 samples on Google and quite frankly, why would you want to wait for hundreds of other black men with more money than you to take all the good ones anyway? Guys like me are going to be the new trend very, very soon. I saw a kinda-fat rich-looking black guy at a Mike Epps stand up show with a legit 10 Chinese wife (she had on a huge ring). He sat right up in the front. Epps didn't even mess with him. This was like 4 or 5 years ago. I was with my black exwife at the time, but I never forgot that day. Maybe he is former NFL or something, because he had an icy watch. I dunno. Regardless he left a serious impression on me that I never forgot.
Moral of the story. Money is race blind. Especially in Asia. If you are an ugly guy in the states with boatloads of money, you will be raped by the gold diggers in the US, while in Asia probably find a nice loyal wife who appreciates you taking care of her.
I don't see this being relevant for casual hooking up. Ukraine has tons of 8's but they are definitely not down for the ONS. It takes effort and lots of bullshit. I don't have time nor stamina for that shit.
It is VERY relevant for casual hookups. How we are perceived to Chinese women as black men absolutely matters for all things! Not all Chinese girls are "highly disciplined virgins", but they still might be good girls, just horny. I turned down an 7.5-8ish lizard in Wuhan who begged me for two hours to come visit her to fuck. She promised me the entire world. A nigga lover in Beijing with Huge DDD tits sent me naked photos, that was arguably an 8, I passed on her too. It doesn't take a ton of effort and bullshit, but it can be difficult if your game sucks. I will address these strategies in full depth in my dating guide when I finish updating it.
Yes, relevant, especially because outside sex workers, girls in China want to believe there is something more to a casual hookup. To be sure there are girls who ride the cock wagon, but the girls I pursue are not jumping on white dick (or yellow or black or brown or whatever0 all over the place. You close them, among other reasons, because they want to believe that maybe there is a future with you, that there can be something between you (not necessarily very long term, but they want to believe (like many women everywhere) the Prince Charming fantasy). You've gotta let them know you have the glass slipper (did I mix up the metaphor? not sure, but Im sure people can get my drift).
Quote: (07-01-2014 10:59 PM)WalterBlack Wrote:
Quote: (07-01-2014 06:39 PM)InternationalPlayboy Wrote:
Moral of the story. Money is race blind. Especially in Asia. If you are an ugly guy in the states with boatloads of money, you will be raped by the gold diggers in the US, while in Asia probably find a nice loyal wife who appreciates you taking care of her.
I don't see this being relevant for casual hooking up. Ukraine has tons of 8's but they are definitely not down for the ONS. It takes effort and lots of bullshit. I don't have time nor stamina for that shit.
There’s Asian gold diggers as well – ask Rupert Murdoch! I know loser Indian guys (fat or ugly) from UK/USA who’ve gone and married an 7-8 village girl from India. The fact that they live a western country will make any village woman want to marry them.
TravelerKai – A question, which you do not have to answer, but did you meet your wife online?
BadWolf – I was thinking of heading over to China in a few years for the experience and to work for a year or two. Would you say it’s a bad idea? I “get” Chinese people if you know what I mean, I’ve been around them for most of the last 15 years and I have close female friends that are originally from Guangzhou and Shanghai. I’m not black or white BTW- I'm brown!
Walter, come over and make your own assessment, no matter what anyone (including me) says here. At minimum it will be an experience. Don't let me or BadWolf or Kai or anyone else dissuade you. Do it for yourself.
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Strip away judeo-christian ethics ingraining sex is dirty/bad & the idea we're taking advantage of these girls disintegrates. Once you've lost that ethical quandary (which it isn't outside religion) then they've no reason to play the victim, you've no reason to feel the rogue. The interaction is to their benefit.
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