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12-21-2013, 03:37 PM
Fisto,
"her cold lifeless frame."
That's the key. She needs to be provoked out of that, into a different mode, a different world.
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12-21-2013, 03:37 PM
Liz I think mike is talking about the way you described her- it reveals that you are fantasizing about her, like a girl of your dreams.
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12-21-2013, 03:40 PM
soup,
I love a girl like that -- exactly because she seems so dead, so cold. That's the challenge; that's what makes me want to fuck her.
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12-21-2013, 03:51 PM
Fuck I want to put her on a one year wagon!
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12-21-2013, 03:54 PM
Damn, I really feel for you DC residents.
The reality is when you start to pull incredible amounts of ass, the tolerance for stupidity from a girl lessens.
Back in the day I might deal with a shitty attitude etc in order to get the notch, but now I could give two fucks. If she's cunty, I eject and in spectacular fashion.
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12-21-2013, 04:05 PM
Fisto and Lizard, it goes both ways. How many of us have met a girl that, from a distance, induced a raging boner. But then you go talk to her and a few minutes into it you'd rather slam your face on the bar than be with her for another minute? Some women are that cunty and repulsive, and we've all been there.
This chick was prez of a sorority and she's being interviewed about some bullshit charity dance-a-thon or something, I'm not sure I wasn't really paying attention. The point being is all signs point to her cuntiness. If you've got what it takes to push through that and get the bang, more power to you, but these days I don't. Attraction for me isn't 100% physical as much as i wish it was sometimes.
The dude might have sub-par game, or maybe he wasn't inspired to bring his A-game to the table. Are there any players on this forum that can claim to be "on" 100% of the time? Or would you all agree that the girl has to bring something to the table for you to bring it? For me, I'm not really in the "zone" unless there's some chemistry with the girl. If a girl is still cold and distant after a 5-10 minutes of banter, you've got to throw her in the reject pile.
Also Lizard I know which girl in the youtube vid is her. Still not sure what you're all stoked about, but again to each their own.
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12-21-2013, 04:10 PM
Am I the only one who gets a little depressed after reading the Date Lab?
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12-21-2013, 04:11 PM
dude,
I don't know why everybody assumes she's "cunty." She seems sort of shy and self-effacing when she speaks, a little insecure.
She seems very malleable...
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12-21-2013, 04:14 PM
Between her comments on the original datelab article, combined with her background and career, combined with her weird body and vocal tics in the video, okay maybe cunty is not the right word...
...damaged goods?
...unpleasant?
...neurotic?
Nothing good's really jumping out at me here.
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12-21-2013, 04:18 PM
dude,
The whole point of game is to change a girl -- right there and then -- give her a release from her cultural cuntiness and neuroticism -- make her want to drown in your difference.
She'll relax after she comes.
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12-21-2013, 04:26 PM
I'm the only one who is getting a John Rocker look AND vibe from this guy?
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12-21-2013, 04:34 PM
Menace,
Man I don't mean change her for life, I just mean change her that night; I agree the point is to bang her. So if she's acting a way you don't like, or that turns you off, you game her into something else, something better.
Then you both enjoy it.
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12-21-2013, 04:47 PM
Quote: (12-21-2013 03:29 PM)basilransom Wrote:
Quote: (12-21-2013 03:09 PM)MikeCF Wrote:
So you go on a couple of dates, though, and then she sees that it was just jitters and you open up to one another and see if there is anything of substance.
There isn't any of that anymore.
Either she is excited or you're dead.
It's like something I've said before - why players have such a strong advantage on first dates. It's only players who are comfortable showcasing their personality right from the start - normal people take some time. So a player always seems larger than life - "wow, most guys I go on dates with are kind of boring, but I feel like I've known this guy forever, he's so fresh and natural!" Most people feel like they have to keep to some first date script, and players flout that hardcore, and chicks LOVE it.
That's an excellent point, Basil. Players go on so many dates that we forget that most people don't-I bet the average person doesn't go on even one first date a month. They don't have nearly the experience interacting in a potentially sexually charged situation as we do, so they are often nervous, awkward and reserved.
But we feel quite comfortable in that environment; it's like the guy who wears a suit every day and seems like he would be fine playing tennis in it versus the guy who never wears one and looks stiff and like he doesn't know how to handle himself.
For me at least it's almost like all these dates blend into one and as you said I'm totally willing to experiment by taking risks, not giving a fuck and pushing boundaries because I know if I don't succeed this time it's no loss really, another girl is coming up shortly. Most guys don't have these opportunities that often so are much more risk averse and so are a lot less fun and attractive
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12-21-2013, 04:51 PM
Quote: (12-21-2013 04:26 PM)JohnKreese Wrote:
I'm the only one who is getting a John Rocker look AND vibe from this guy?
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12-21-2013, 04:59 PM
First off, I would wreck that trim.
Saying that, after reading the article I'm thinking the guy is uncalibrated. Granted, tone and inflection mean a lot, but from the sounds of it she wasn't buying the frat boy schtick he was selling. That's how he came across to me in written word.
And while talking about work may be a "DC thing", it doesn't mean he should do it. I don't recall anything said about other convo other than where they live and where they went to school. BORING.
She said he was gregarious and apparently she isn't. Opposites do not always attract. If he toned it down and tried connecting with her a bit things may have gone differently.
Personally, I think he's coming across as a bit butthurt that she wasn't enamored with him. Otherwise why slag a broad that doesn't do it for you? Move on without buring bridges.
Especially in a public forum such as date lab where you may likely be recognized around town.
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12-21-2013, 04:59 PM
To settle the hover-hand debate:
The calling card of the hover hand is the over-the-shoulder grab--which is how you embrace your buddies. If you're feeling zero timidity about grabbing a chick, you go around the waist.
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