Quote: (07-17-2017 05:13 AM)Gas Wrote:
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Choke them semi-tight during missionary. MikeCF had a great post about how to choke a girl during sex, Google that.
If they're responsive to being choked, I turn them over onto their belly and tie their hands behind their back. I just use a scarf, one of my ties or pull a pillowcase off one of my pillows. Just put their wrists together and tie them together like a pair of dynamite. I always try to dramatically tighten the knot suddenly too, and they always let out a little whimper. Now you've got them lying face down tied up just waiting to be pummeled. I give their ass a few dramatic slaps, put my dick in, pull their hair back hard, and fuck them as hard as I possibly can until I literally collapse on top of them from exhaustion.
Do this to a BDSM girl and it will probably just be foreplay, but try it on some vanilla chicks and they won't even let you go to sleep until they've drained every single kilojoule from your body. As my frame control has gotten better I've started incorporating more intense stuff, but these two litmus tests are something I always do first and it's always been positive. It was common for me to have "one and dones" but now every girl comes back for more. Few easy things for guys to try who aren't ready to go all in yet.
All the bold is gold.
I used to be the vanilla guy when I was married, three or four regular positions. After the first few notches following my divorce, I've been getting more dominant. Ass smacks, hair pulling, squeezing, and so on.
One of my regulars a couple of months ago, as we were headed to my place, was telling me about the new panties she wanted to show me. I sort of nodded my approval, and I think she was expecting to get down to her bra and underwear and parade around the room for a bit before climbing into bed.
Pre-RVF Sam would have sat in bed under the covers, waiting for the show to start.
Post-RVF Sam said fuck all that.
We got back to my place, started making out in the kitchen. I pulled her to the bedroom, threw her on the bed face down, pulled down her pants and panties hard (like Arr Ehh Pee Eee hard), smacked her ass, and proceeded to drill her from behind while my hand was pushing her sideways facing head into the bed. Backed off and blasted on her back, and when I looked down it looked like someone dumped a gallon of water underneath her.
Afterwards, we're getting dressed, and she says, "Aww... I didn't get to show you my panties... I'm not complaining, though".
One thing that I've gleaned over the last year or so, is not to "ask" for anything. Used to be that when I got tired of a certain position, I'd complain (?) and/or suggest we switch up. Now if I'm drilling her missionary and want to move, I just pull out, grab her, and either flip her around, pull her to the edge of the bed, or pull her on top if I want cowgirl, and go back to hammering.
Again, I don't ask for anything. I just do it. And these chicks love it.
Before RVF, I wouldn't have dreamed of doing anything outside the norm/soft porn type of stuff.
This shit's become part of my regular routine now.