Quote: (06-21-2013 02:32 AM)Fisto Wrote:
I'll never understand you guys that think a girl cheating is equivalent to a man sleeping with a lot of women.
It keeps coming up too. It falls in line with gender equality which we all know is bullshit.
I'd like to think this forum isn't about equality. It's not about being an AFC.
It's about rising to the top, whatever that means to you. If your standard is that your girl should be able to fuck other guys if you're fucking other girls, well, if anything I feel sorry for you. In a patriarchal society, it's understood that men of power or position have a wife with several mistresses. I don't know about you, but this is what I strive for. This is my model of happiness. I like having a woman that knows me and cares for me, sexually pleases me, etc. But nothing can substitute for variety. Whether my girl knows about it and turns a blind eye, or she's the jealous type and I have to be secretive, it doesn't really matter to me. The need to fuck other women is what makes me a desirable mate in the first place and is what keeps my girl attracted to me. If she strays or finds something else, it means I didn't keep her occupied enough and I've got an empty slot to fill at some point.
I think any guy that says, "Well, she should be able to fuck other guys if I'm fucking other girls", you guys gave up the fight. As MikeCF mentioned, being controlling or enforcing punishment as a cultural value is a GOOD thing for us. It might seem contradictory to what I said earlier about "signs of anger being a byproduct of oneitis" but once he clarified it in a cultural context I absolutely agree. In personal interactions, I believe in detachment. But on a cultural level, I'm 100% about outwardly shaming and dictating the place of a woman. This is why patriarchal societies of the past knew what the fuck was up. They knew the nature of women and realized women are like horses in that they requires saddles, bridles, and blinders. Pull the restraints off and they run fucking wild with nothing to guide them but their own whims and so-called "instincts".
It's been said many times before. Men are capable of keeping a serious partner with flings on the side. I could be a great husband, dad, family man etc, and once in a while I gotta plow some strange. Women cannot do this. Getting foreign cock flips her world upside-down and changes her feelings. Once she crosses that line, she's lost, and you gotta let her go.
There's no point in getting angry at any guy involved because if it wasn't him it would be someone else. If women are running wild, then it means the ultimate fault is men as collective in not keeping our horses in the corral and tending the ranch properly.