[pitt]

I always had this scenario in mind, i am wondering how would the members on here react.

Let's say you work in the oil field, 28 days on, 28 days off. You live with your girlfriend (or favourite fuckbuddy) and she knows that you are fucking other girls on the side. Anyway, after 17 days on your rotation, your boss tells you that there is not much work on this rotation and that you should go home. You decide not to tell your girl that you are coming home, you give her a little surprise. You arrive home, open the doors, walk into your bedroom and you see a guy on his boxers laying down with your girlfriend. The guy is taller than you, looks bigger than you and looks like a good fighter. He is also very brave to walk into your house and to sleep on your bed. Your girlfriend has lost respect for you, she invites a stranger into your house to fuck her (damn).

What would you do in this scenario?

a) You decide to fight the guy. You don't give fuck about the outcome, you will physically fight him and you don't really care if you are going to lose or win the fight.

b) You pull out your gun from the place where you have it stashed and use it to shoot this guy. This saves you from being physically beaten and you avoid any major issues that could arise at any time (he could be carrying a gun too, he could beat you so hard that you would need medical treatment, etc). You shoot to hurt or to kill, your choice.

c) You go for the beta option. You tell him to leave your house (he leaves) and then you break up with your girlfriend.

d) Tell me what would you do if you dont like none of the options above

p.s. If you know that you could easily beat up the guy, would you have chosen a different option?

[Jaydublin]

Why fight the guy for doing what most people on here would do? How can you be all that upset if your fucking other girls and gone for a month at a time? Especially if its just some fuck buddy you live with? Does a fuckbuddy matter enough to go fighting guys over? Hell no.

Totally different scenerio if its my wife. Possibly put a bullet in her head and walk away.

[iknowexactly]

Say "Oops, sorry", as if you had accidentally walked in on someone dressing, and leave.

That's what a total slick guy-- let's call him R-- a college-town minor celebrity, in his late 50's, did when R caught my friend fucking R's 20 year-old girlfriend.

R was funny, way out there, with old style beatnik speech style: "Yeah, man.." he had this art event where he had a faux funeral in a landromat. I went, it was great. He was Alpha in his own way, confident, unapologetic about what he wanted, but the Beats and Hippies viewed street fighting as gauche, ignorant, and reflecting lack of self-control and consciousness conforming to the square Gubmint Money War Machine.

The Beats of the 50's were much cooler (literally) than all the hip-hop influenced people today.

A total unsuccessful artist without any real money as far as I know.

He was having threesomes and orgies with 20 year old cute college girls I hung out with, he was real Bohemian-level liberated.
But it doesn't count because you guys think he was........

BETA

[Menace]

The answer depends on whether you can ever find another girlfriend.

[JimNortonFan]

I've been on the other end. The girl made sure that we switched venues before her ex bf and then current FWB returned from vacation. She was getting too much emotional and financial from Betaman to rub it in his face to the degree of catching us. The guy was an herb and I could have whupped him easily.

A guy who will go into enemy territory to complete the mission is either tough or DGAF or knows the guy he's replacing is a wimp. It's pretty much a given that the cuckold is a wimp (compared to the cuckolder) seeing as what's being done to him (in most cases).

The situation can be reversed if the woman is crazy or is getting back at her guy. Think about this. The Hamster needs to have the guy she is with assert dominance so she invites weaker guy over to get discovered and get his butt kicked.

I did what I did 15 years ago. Would not go into enemy territory to score again given the growth of the Hamster collective and the proliferation of weightlifting. Also a lot of guys are borderline DGAF and the guy may just kill you because guys today have weaker upbringing and less to lose in life now.

If I were on the other end I'd tell the guy to leave and get the girl to clean up any mess, then kick her out of my life. Anybody who wants to be heroic should watch the "Salad Toss Man" clip from that show that they do in jail. If you do damage to the guy cuckolding you, you might get to meet Salad Toss man in the joint.

[MikeCF]

I would psychologically demoralize my girlfriend for the rest of her life. I would truly ruin her forever. How?

I'd walk in, see them, and smirk.

She'd have a look of fear on her face. The guy would be thinking, "Oh, shit."

(I can beat up most men but I would still be thinking, "Oh, shit." You don't know if the guy is going to go crazy and pull out a gun or if the girl is suddenly going to cry rape.)

I'd pull my iPhone out and put it on the dresser and then start pulling my pants down. "Whoa, guys, don't stop. I am going to join in. Let's Eiffel Tower this bitch."

I'd look over at the guy, "She's just a whore to me, bro, don't worry about anything."

Once the girl got up and started freaking out, I'd start taking picture.

"These are great shots. I'm going to display this as art and call the exhibit: THIS IS WHAT A WHORE LOOKS LIKE."

Do you think that girl would ever have a normal relationship ever again? I sure don't.

Men, don't ruin yourselves and make rash decisions that will affect your future when people wrong you. Ruin the other person.

You can do far more damage to a person's mind than to a person's body. Even an ass kicking heals. Deep psychological trauma lingers for decades.

[Vicious]

This is so American. You always see this in movies. Why be mad at him? It's your girlfriend that is the one deserving some kind of punishment. Fighting with the guy in some kind of pointless way to regain your dignity can bring you nothing but temporary ego relief and a jail sentence at worst.

Plan.
Have you been noticed?
If not get out, drive to her parents. Act happy to see them and ask to bring them over. Even better with kid siblings or grand parents. Drive over to her house and say that you will all surprise her.
Surprise honey! But Ohhh... What are you doin!?
You can now call her a whore and slut in front of her family and they can't rightly object.

[DjembaDjemba]

pitt Wrote:

Let's say you work in the oil field, 28 days on, 28 days off. You live with your girlfriend (or favourite fuckbuddy) and she knows that you are fucking other girls on the side. Anyway, after 17 days on your rotation, your boss tells you that there is not much work on this rotation and that you should go home.

[Marco 93]

Dont Get Mad Get Even

If I caught my girlfriend cheating, I would make a fun video clip just like this one catching her in the act red handed.

Then post it on youtube, facebook, twitter, and make sure everyone she knows gets a good look at it. Her work, Family and friends. The fun part is videos like these tend to go viral.

[Excelsior]

(06-20-2013 01:43 PM)pitt Wrote:  

a) You decide to fight the guy. You don't give fuck about the outcome, you will physically fight him and you don't really care if you are going to lose or win the fight.

b) You pull out your gun from the place where you have it stashed and use it to shoot this guy. This saves you from being physically beaten and you avoid any major issues that could arise at any time (he could be carrying a gun too, he could beat you so hard that you would need medical treatment, etc). You shoot to hurt or to kill, your choice.

c) You go for the beta option. You tell him to leave your house (he leaves) and then you break up with your girlfriend.

Those options all sound beta to me. The most "alpha" option presented in this thread came from MikeCF.
As for me, I'd probably just tell them both to get out and let her know I never wanted to see her again. Then I would go get another woman.
I don't see why I would risk my freedom or my health dueling some guy over a replaceable piece of ass.

[MikeCF]

(06-20-2013 02:05 PM)Vicious Wrote:  

This is so American. You always see this in movies. Why be mad at him? It's your girlfriend that is the one deserving some kind of punishment. Fighting with the guy in some kind of pointless way to regain your dignity can bring you nothing but temporary ego relief and a jail sentence at worst.

It's not American. It's natural.

What happens when a lion tries fucking another lion's bitch?

There's a reason the U.S. had to save Europe from the Germans, and it's not because Europeans have the "hearts of lions."

[Pacesetter20]

My response:



then

[soup]

Ask him for $50 fee

[Vicious]

(06-20-2013 02:34 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  

(06-20-2013 02:05 PM)Vicious Wrote:  

This is so American. You always see this in movies. Why be mad at him? It's your girlfriend that is the one deserving some kind of punishment. Fighting with the guy in some kind of pointless way to regain your dignity can bring you nothing but temporary ego relief and a jail sentence at worst.

It's not American. It's natural.

What happens when a lion tries fucking another lion's bitch?

There's a reason the U.S. had to save Europe from the Germans, and it's not because Europeans have the "hearts of lions."

No need to drag out that tired old fallacy again. Debunked, before.

I'm saying that it's a scenario frequently depicted in literature and media, not making a judgemental call just reflecting that it's foolish to get emotional (albeit understandable) at that point. Heck you even said so yourself.

[Prosal]

Pizdets

[vinman]

Me? I would say get dressed, get out, and take the whore with you. Break out the air freshener and tell them to get those funky ass sheets off my bed.

[Tex Pro]

This video seems relevant to this thread:

[Jaylow]

Quote:

You live with your girlfriend (or favourite fuckbuddy) and she knows that you are fucking other girls on the side.

I mean come on. If this is the case would you not expect her to fuck other dudes?

Even if she didn't officially know, you are gone for a month and you can expect a lot of girls to be fucking someone else within that time frame regardless if she knew you were with other women or not.

[RASER]

Dump her ass, on-to-the-next!

Would NOT be interested in her if another guys has shooting his load in her, not into sharing pussy :-)

In any case, why is it alright for him to call the other guy a NIGGER, yet if a whitee does it all hell brakes loose?

I dont understand you yankee/red-necks!

"Lifes about, shooting your load"

[The Beast1]

No need to hurt the dude. We're all equal brothers.

I'd kick the girl out that night. Tell her she can't stay here and she has tomorrow to get her shit out. Anything left will be donated to good will by 5pm next day.

[Merenguero]

(06-20-2013 04:27 PM)frenchie Wrote:  

I'd kick the girl out that night. Tell her she can't stay here and she has tomorrow to get her shit out. Anything left will be donated to good will by 5pm next day.

The problem with that idea is that's about when the girl files a Petition for a Protective Order and/or criminal charges. Whether the allegations are false or not doesn't really matter. What matters is whether the girl can convince a judge that whatever garbage she says is actually true. In my jurisdiction, under certain circumstances, a person who lives with another person can get the other person ordered to stay from the residence for up to a year and it doesn't matter whose name is on the lease or mortgage.

The closest thing to a solution (I'm not sure that there is a solution) is that if you do decide to allow a girl to live with you, make absolutely sure that there were be no drama, other guys, or any other types of headaches. Even then, think twice about it.

[iknowexactly]

(06-20-2013 02:33 PM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:  

I don't see why I would risk my freedom or my health dueling some guy over a replaceable piece of ass.

Rational = BETA

Real men risk death or manslaughter raps.

For, essentially, nothing.

[The Pirate]

I have always found it strange that guys go mental on the guy fucking the girl... After all, he`s got no commitment to you (unless its a friend/family ofcourse) It`s the bitch who breaks the deal, and you never know what she has been telling him. But quite honestly it doesn`t matter anymore.

I`d tell them to get the fuck out, if they resist it could get ugly... Then I´d start packing my things, and "move on" on every level. When being through breakups I have sometimes wished they were clean-cut like in this scenario. Would make it far much easier. Back when I was 21, I once found out my gf was cheating on me. I went from "turned-on" to "turned-off" in a heartbeat.

[MikeCF]

(06-20-2013 02:59 PM)Vicious Wrote:  

No need to drag out that tired old fallacy again. Debunked, before.

You didn't debunk anything. You said, "Well, if the U.S. saved Europe it was because it was in the U.S.'s best interest." If I run into a burning building to save my child, I did it out of my self-interest: I didn't want my kid to die. My motives don't change the fact that I saved the child.

Anyhow, my point stands. Beating up someone who is banging your woman is as natural as it gets. Animals kill each other over the desire to reproduce. Ultimately our desire to have sex or be with a woman is due to our desire to replicate our DNA.

It requires a man to deny his essential nature to not take immediate violence against another man who is mounting his woman, and therefore asserting a superior right to reproduce with her.

Only a feminized culture would teach it's men to just do nothing while another man bangs his girl. Indeed, "cuckold" porn is truly the most debased form out there.

I simply choose to use violence in a psychological (and legal) way.

But any man who wouldn't feel extreme anger and fury at the described scenario isn't a man at all.

[painter]

Tough to say. I like MikeCF's answer. If I caught them without them seeing me I'd probably stealth blow up both of their cars (puncture gas tanks, ignite) for a laugh then "arrive" back home when the firemen and cops are there. Then you have witnesses when you calmly ask your sweetie "Who's this guy? What's he doing in our house? Isn't he a drug dealer? Is this a gang war? What the heck is going on, honey?"