Quote: (02-17-2013 02:55 PM)basilransom Wrote:
What do you drive?
Doesn't matter IMO, girls don't see it until they've agreed to let me take them home. Plus a $50k or even $80k car won't really impress any girls here. Cars or clothes, you'll get a lot more points for something original than something expensive. I recall El Mech posting a photo of some weird little Euro car and saying girls love it - I see a lot more of that sort of thing than "OMG you drive an S Class? Hottt"
You ever hear the phrase, "sometimes you don't know what you don't know?"
This applies here. A guy could spend $35k on a loaded 2013 Camry, or he could spend $35k on a CPO Porsche. The car DOES matter. I realized the change first hand going from a beater to a BMW Z4. Don't underestimate it :]
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What venues do you attend?
Bars, mostly. I know rich guys do bottle service in clubs, but it's not clear they get laid that well. I was in one of the top clubs locally, and it was insanely loud, not an environment amenable to me getting laid.
This is why I shy away from these places. I don't find them to be places I can show off my assets, brains, or lifestyle. I like day game a million times better, along with iPhone app game.
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Are you a REGULAR at any breakfast/lunch sitdown restaurants that young women frequent?( no chains, it should be a local eatery)
No, though I just went to one and got a girl's number, near my house, always has babes. May start frequenting it more often, and it's not expensive.
Awesome. Being a regular gives me a sense f community and it's supremely awesome to be known by the female staff. About once a week I roll by a place with the top down and the same 7/10 girl waves at me
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Are you in shape? ( can you see abs?)
Yes, no.
Get em. Other guys are intimidated by a guy with money and abs. Women know the score when a guy has both.
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Are you in a warm or cold climate? Warm is best.
Warm.
Do you live in a tourist city?
Yes.
Miami? I love being in a beach city and I live in one.
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How do you spend your money? Do you penny pinch your entire life?
Some would call it penny pinching, I just figure out what to spend money on - food + nice neighborhood + gym + gas yes, drinks at bars, no.
Make more money. As soon as I didn't have to worry about whether I'm paying $4.15 or $4.25 for gas, everything changed. I focused more on what I wanted to do versus how I'll pay for it.
Edit: and let me guess, TORONTO?
Nope.
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Quote: (02-17-2013 02:33 PM)Luxe Wrote:
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Money has no impact on whether I can bring home the girl I'm talking to - I wouldn't be doing much different if I was making 10-50% more. I've experimented with implying I'm rich or of family money, and it doesn't have much impact.
If anything it probably comes across as a turnoff, because it's hard to do without seeming like you're trying to impress them. OP I agree with all your points. But there is a huge gap between ~$100k salary and a net worth of several million where it helps you very little in terms of improving quality and quantity.
When they ask me where I'm from, I say I grew up in a certain rich neighborhood. I know what you're saying, sounding like a tool will erode any gains you might get from making her think you're rich, but I don't think that's the case. I've experimented with other things well, doesn't make much difference. I'm gaming white girls.
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Traveling gives me the benefit of trying new methods without consequence. Money is never a bad thing. Never. Money doesn't make anyone a tool. A person does that. Be friendly with people. Be in charge. Make shit happen. Make decisions.