Quote: (03-29-2013 05:04 AM)The Pirate Wrote:
@punchboy
Amen! This what I tell everyone...don`t EVER give a girl an option. Lead, lead and lead. I`ve even grabbed a few girls in a bar after exchanging looks only, then take her hand and say "let`s go" Sometimes we have walked the street after closingtime and I suddenly get a taxi to stop and open the door and say "let`s go" open the door and give her a slight leading touch on her shoulder. It all takes maximum 10 secs and she does not even have the time to object. When you get in the taxi, tell the driver your address and quickly start telling a story, or ask a question of some kind (make her feel that the most obvious and natural thing to do is going home with you)
I can't emphasize enough how important this is. Do not take no for an answer at first. Assuming you have been making out with the chick or groping with each other, you should not accept no until she has given a very clear No, usually with a valid excuse. "I can't" usually means, "I shouldn't, but I will if persuaded."
In the bar - say, let's get out of here, grab her hand and start walking to the exit. If she asks where, just say my apartment. If she says "I can't" or "I should go home," stop for a brief second, give her a sort of quizzical look, say, "Come on, it's not that far" and resume walking towards the exit with her in tow.
Do not argue using logic. The girl of course has a valid logical point if she doesn't want to go home with a guy she barely knows, or has a boyfriend, or has to wake up in the morning. If she says, "but I hardly know you," use the "it's not that far, let's go." I have a boyfriend? Come on, it's not that far.
Jump in a cab, take her to the subway and insist she get on your train, etc.
Of course I always respect a girl who can firmly say no, but "I can't, I shouldn't, I have work" belies a desire to go home with you. Turn those types of answers into Yes or No.