[DarkTriad]

(09-29-2012 08:01 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  

(09-29-2012 07:36 PM)DarkTriad Wrote:  

My sympathies on the White Knight bullshit, but am I the only one that feels that there was possibly something left out of this story?

Also, your reasons for not being a regular anywhere

Nothing was left out of my story. It was totally bizarre. Fact is stranger than fiction often.

I'm a regular at all the hot clubs in my town. The staffs just don't like me and waits for me to slip.

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if your regular game is enough to commonly get you reported to security, and occasionally assaulted by groups of strangers, perhaps you need to change up something in your game.

I'm of the opinion that unless you're an expert, if you're NOT getting blown out of the occasional set you're doing something wrong and you're not pushing your comfort level far enough. Didn't you say you were a cop in another thread? I think that explains your position.

There is such a thing as balance. If you're getting taken out by security on such a regular basis that you can't be a regular anywhere good, and are occasionally assaulted by strangers, you've probably gone a little too far in one direction or another. These aren't moral judgements I'm making on you, just tactical ones. If being able to be a valued and connected regular at the best places in your area has value, then doing what you're doing has an "opportunity cost". If the cost is higher than the value, it might be time to rethink your strategy.

If that extra push is honestly getting you a spectacular bottomline, by all means, go for it. But if it's not, I would recalibrate.

[Samseau]

(09-29-2012 03:21 PM)hypesession Wrote:  

"Yo dude," YOu have quite an imagination.

Lets see you're going to get a gun for protection and safety, then hide it in your apt. When shit hits the fan you're going to run home to safety, grap your weapon, then run back to the club and what youre going to have a duel?

Whats plan b? ok were gonna grease the bouncer, crawl over to him when some guy smashes a bottle over your face. perfect we got that covered.

Gotcha. sounds like a plan. Lets roll.

My god, where is the reading comprehension? No where did I say to run back home and grab your gun. Complete reading fail.

(09-29-2012 05:40 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

I think Samseau had a few too many bong rips before he wrote out his plan with the gun and whatnot.

You too mech.

The gun is there in case people are trailing you outside of the club, and is used as a last resort. Like in HiFlo's situation. What if it had been a pack of 5 guys following him?

Hiflo runs. They follow.

Hiflo reaches his car. They aren't far behind.

Hiflo pulls out his gun and points it at them. They turn around, or if they are really THAT FUCKING DRUNK, they stop but start to surround him.

At that point, pull out the camera phone and hit record. Show the situation clearly and narrate as best as possible.

If these guys are so fucking stupid they advance on a guy with the gun, they deserve what's coming.

(09-29-2012 10:08 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

(09-29-2012 02:47 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

Another point.

Should I ever get into trouble, and knock a dude out, or, god forbid, kill someone, I would be out of that place faster than The Flash. Don't bother trying to explain yourself, just get the fuck out of there.

yeah , foolproof , mastermind. 10 people will get make, model and probably license plate as you hightail it out of bar. 70 % clearance rate on impulse killings.

https://www.ncjrs.gov/pdffiles1/jr000243b.pdf

great odds. plus think of that great outlaw life waiting for the Man to nail you for murder. what an existence to look forward to.

Obviously if there is evidence against you, you can't do this. But if you're in a strange town and it's just your face in a bar, I'd bounce.

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In my situation, the girl was walking off, when the two white knights came from behind me (and I was about 15 ft behind the girl hollaring at her in my big boy voice). The girl continued walking away and was nowhere to be scene when the rest of the shit happened. The white knights were defending the honor of a girl who was long gone and will probably their male altruism and chauvinism.

Hiflo, I gave my opinion on your situation on the first page of this thread. I think having good video evidence that you were being assaulted, and then acted in self-defense, is the best way to avoid being prosecuted for false charges.

[Aliblahba]

^^^I've got out of many fights back home due to guys knowing I always carry. There is always something in my vehicle. Used to carry a Walther PPK-S in saddlebag or belt.

If 5 guys attack you and you get to your vehicle and defend with the "minimum force necessary", as you "feared for your life", that will be a solid defense, at least in the states I've lived.

FWIW, I have a law enforcement background, and have seen several cases of charges not being filed in these scenarios.

[Duke Castile]

@ Midnite Special - Damn man, sounds like your "be like water" verbal skills have failed you when you needed them most. Your advice doesn't work against someone who wants a confrontation. If I followed your advice he would just sense weakness. Sam's verbal advice is much better. But you don't get it, the guy GRABBED me by the shoulder, I don't think he was taking "I don't want any trouble sir" as an answer

@El Mechanico, I've got a guy on it. Worst case scenario if I don't go to court is I have a suspended sentence and after I pay restitution they drop the charges. Or I could try and fight it but he has a table of bitches as witnesses that will say whatever he wants them to. Once I made it to the door and the bouncers held me up I actually tried to make a break for it but got dog piled. I couldn't get past them.

@MikeCF, This guy working on my case seems legit. I think I'll be ok but it's going to cost money...

Thanks for the support fellas. Personally if the situation was reversed, I'd take my ass whipping like a man and try to forget I was ever such a douche bag after holding my head in shame for 6 months.

[Vicious]

Fights are always a losing bet, no matter what way it goes. I extremely rarely have men bugging me (more often women try to pick a fight amusingly enough) but when that happens I usually just walk away. I suspect many here will say that you've been AMOGed or whatever in that case but the fact remains that I've never had to sling a dime in medical or legal fees.

[Duke Castile]

(09-30-2012 05:18 PM)Vicious Wrote:  

Fights are always a losing bet, no matter what way it goes. I extremely rarely have men bugging me (more often women try to pick a fight amusingly enough) but when that happens I usually just walk away. I suspect many here will say that you've been AMOGed or whatever in that case but the fact remains that I've never had to sling a dime in medical or legal fees.

I've learned my lesson. I hope.

[rudebwoy]

For me it has reached the point where going out is no longer worth it, I am in Toronto so that should tell you everything.

A friend was telling me how he saw a guy knock out another guy on the street, the cops saw the whole thing and just tasered the guy standing, no questions asked.

[Single Dad Swag]

This story might not belong here, but I've been drinking and I feel like telling it. Sort of the antithesis to what's going on with most stories in here. This is how I wish MORE DUDE'S would react to things. Also exemplifies female attitude in the DC area.

I go to lots of sporting events. Mostly college basketball and NFL games... a good friend of mine is a huge Redskins fan (as am I) and he had never been to a game. So last week I got offered some tickets from a client and decided I'd bring him along for his first game. By 11am, we're both wasted. I drink heavily on a regular basis, so I was fine. He, on the other hand, was out of control. Toward the end of the game, Washington is losing and he's in fight mode... talking shit to anyone who will listen. I come back from the bar with a few Makers Mark's in my hand. As I go to sit down, he slaps my arm and a splash of whisky lands all over the head of the girl in the seat in front of me. She's decent looking, probably a 7... 25-30 years old. Her boyfriend is right beside her.

She's understandably pissed and I immediately try to defuse the situation (because it WAS a dickmove), I apologize for my friend and buy them both a beer, since the beer guy was standing right there. My friend is still talking shit, saying I shouldn't buy them shit... "fuck that bitch", blah blah blah. Her boyfriend isn't saying shit, intimidated I assumed. He wouldn't even turn around and make eye contact, focused on the game. I tell my friend to STFU before he and I have a problem, which mostly calms him down. I'm trying to watch the game and don't need this shit going down at the momet. I go down to their row (we're on the aisles), and tell her it wasn't intentional and I understand why she's pissed. Her response floored me...

"I'm not mad at either of you... I'm mad at my boyfriend for being a pussy and not defending me"

...she goes on and on about how he's a punk for not fight me and not saying shit to me. I can tell her boyfriend is pretty drunk too, but his reaction didn't even strike me as "being a punk". He just genuinely seemed to not give a shit what she was talking about. He looks at me, smiles, gives me dap and says "I ain't mad atcha, thanks for the beer, she'll be alright".

I laugh, talk some shit about the game, and that was that. Situation over. That's how it should happen.

[Merenguero]

(09-30-2012 06:18 PM)Single Dad Swag Wrote:  

This story might not belong here, but I've been drinking and I feel like telling it. Sort of the antithesis to what's going on with most stories in here. This is how I wish MORE DUDE'S would react to things. Also exemplifies female attitude in the DC area.

I go to lots of sporting events. Mostly college basketball and NFL games... a good friend of mine is a huge Redskins fan (as am I) and he had never been to a game. So last week I got offered some tickets from a client and decided I'd bring him along for his first game. By 11am, we're both wasted. I drink heavily on a regular basis, so I was fine. He, on the other hand, was out of control. Toward the end of the game, Washington is losing and he's in fight mode... talking shit to anyone who will listen. I come back from the bar with a few Makers Mark's in my hand. As I go to sit down, he slaps my arm and a splash of whisky lands all over the head of the girl in the seat in front of me. She's decent looking, probably a 7... 25-30 years old. Her boyfriend is right beside her.

She's understandably pissed and I immediately try to defuse the situation (because it WAS a dickmove), I apologize for my friend and buy them both a beer, since the beer guy was standing right there. My friend is still talking shit, saying I shouldn't buy them shit... "fuck that bitch", blah blah blah. Her boyfriend isn't saying shit, intimidated I assumed. He wouldn't even turn around and make eye contact, focused on the game. I tell my friend to STFU before he and I have a problem, which mostly calms him down. I'm trying to watch the game and don't need this shit going down at the momet. I go down to their row (we're on the aisles), and tell her it wasn't intentional and I understand why she's pissed. Her response floored me...

"I'm not mad at either of you... I'm mad at my boyfriend for being a pussy and not defending me"

...she goes on and on about how he's a punk for not fight me and not saying shit to me. I can tell her boyfriend is pretty drunk too, but his reaction didn't even strike me as "being a punk". He just genuinely seemed to not give a shit what she was talking about. He looks at me, smiles, gives me dap and says "I ain't mad atcha, thanks for the beer, she'll be alright".

I laugh, talk some shit about the game, and that was that. Situation over. That's how it should happen.

I like her boyfriend's reaction up to a point. I know some guys would want to say that her boyfriend should have beaten up you and your friend or shot you and your friend (I'm fully aware that you can't bring guns into FedEx Field) or turned into Rambo and/or gone postal and shot everyone who was around. I would have left the situation alone up until the point where she started insulting me right there in front of me. At that point, I would have left her there and would have given her number to you and your friend.

I have heard from multiple sources that one of the best places to meet women in the Baltimore and D.C. area is at Orioles' games at Camden Yards. If women go there alone they are generally there to meet guys. I can't say I have heard the same thing about Nationals' games. If you go to a lot of sporting events, you should definitely look into that.

[Tuthmosis]

(09-30-2012 06:18 PM)Single Dad Swag Wrote:  

"I'm not mad at either of you... I'm mad at my boyfriend for being a pussy and not defending me"

All this just goes to prove some shit we're talking about in the forum all the time: whenever there's a beef out (especially at night), between two men, you can be sure some chicks are somewhere near the center of it--having instigated it, escalated it, or started it in the first place.

Bitches love, and seek out, drama.

EDIT: Note the massive white knighting in this scene.

[Pappy]

(09-30-2012 06:18 PM)Single Dad Swag Wrote:  

"I'm not mad at either of you... I'm mad at my boyfriend for being a pussy and not defending me"

I actually agree with this girl. He didn't even turn to take care of the situation. He didn't have to fight, but it was his job to talk to you and resolve the situation. If we want feminists to go away we need to start treating women like women.

[Vicious]

(10-01-2012 06:22 AM)Pappy Wrote:  

(09-30-2012 06:18 PM)Single Dad Swag Wrote:  

"I'm not mad at either of you... I'm mad at my boyfriend for being a pussy and not defending me"

I actually agree with this girl. He didn't even turn to take care of the situation. He didn't have to fight, but it was his job to talk to you and resolve the situation. If we want feminists to go away we need to start treating women like women.

The thing is, he might just not put up with her shit knowing that she is a drama queen.

[Samseau]

(09-30-2012 06:18 PM)Single Dad Swag Wrote:  

This story might not belong here, but I've been drinking and I feel like telling it. Sort of the antithesis to what's going on with most stories in here. This is how I wish MORE DUDE'S would react to things. Also exemplifies female attitude in the DC area.

I go to lots of sporting events. Mostly college basketball and NFL games... a good friend of mine is a huge Redskins fan (as am I) and he had never been to a game. So last week I got offered some tickets from a client and decided I'd bring him along for his first game. By 11am, we're both wasted. I drink heavily on a regular basis, so I was fine. He, on the other hand, was out of control. Toward the end of the game, Washington is losing and he's in fight mode... talking shit to anyone who will listen. I come back from the bar with a few Makers Mark's in my hand. As I go to sit down, he slaps my arm and a splash of whisky lands all over the head of the girl in the seat in front of me. She's decent looking, probably a 7... 25-30 years old. Her boyfriend is right beside her.

She's understandably pissed and I immediately try to defuse the situation (because it WAS a dickmove), I apologize for my friend and buy them both a beer, since the beer guy was standing right there. My friend is still talking shit, saying I shouldn't buy them shit... "fuck that bitch", blah blah blah. Her boyfriend isn't saying shit, intimidated I assumed. He wouldn't even turn around and make eye contact, focused on the game. I tell my friend to STFU before he and I have a problem, which mostly calms him down. I'm trying to watch the game and don't need this shit going down at the momet. I go down to their row (we're on the aisles), and tell her it wasn't intentional and I understand why she's pissed. Her response floored me...

"I'm not mad at either of you... I'm mad at my boyfriend for being a pussy and not defending me"

...she goes on and on about how he's a punk for not fight me and not saying shit to me. I can tell her boyfriend is pretty drunk too, but his reaction didn't even strike me as "being a punk". He just genuinely seemed to not give a shit what she was talking about. He looks at me, smiles, gives me dap and says "I ain't mad atcha, thanks for the beer, she'll be alright".

I laugh, talk some shit about the game, and that was that. Situation over. That's how it should happen.

Damn. I would have given the boyfriend a beer but not the girl after a comment like that.

[The Fantasist]

(10-01-2012 06:22 AM)Pappy Wrote:  

(09-30-2012 06:18 PM)Single Dad Swag Wrote:  

"I'm not mad at either of you... I'm mad at my boyfriend for being a pussy and not defending me"

I actually agree with this girl. He didn't even turn to take care of the situation. He didn't have to fight, but it was his job to talk to you and resolve the situation. If we want feminists to go away we need to start treating women like women.

Agreed.

The spilling of the beer,fair enough,accidents happen. No need to get pissed over that,we've all done it. However if I'm out with my woman and a dude is calling her a fcuking bitch when she has done nothing wrong then I'd have to say something.I certainly would not want it to go physical but I'd definitely turn around and tell him to calm his mouth down. The drunk was disrespecting the girl AND her man. If you start letting people get away with that you'll have every pigeon in the neighborhood taking a shit on your head.

[jammer]

If you have been kicked out of bars multiple times and dragged out by bouncers chances are the common denominator is you. Maybe 5% of those guys are having bad luck and in the wrong place at the wrong time.

There is literally no point in trying to escalate at a bar. All it is is just macho ego BS. I don't get in fights and never have been close because I would rather walk away healthy and jail-free than engage in a pointless fight. At the end of the night, what do you get if you fight someone in a bar? Nothing. You don't get the girl, you don't get to stay at the bar, you don't get out off scot-free from the law.

[el mechanico]

"@El Mechanico, I've got a guy on it. Worst case scenario if I don't go to court is I have a suspended sentence and after I pay restitution they drop the charges. Or I could try and fight it but he has a table of bitches as witnesses that will say whatever he wants them to. Once I made it to the door and the bouncers held me up I actually tried to make a break for it but got dog piled. I couldn't get past them. "

This will boil down to who's more credible. Your Att should know who this dude is and his lifetime criminal history in all states and shove it in the prosecuting Att's face. If you're clean and he's not they wont want the trail. I see this all the time here.

[Duke Castile]

(10-01-2012 11:01 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

"@El Mechanico, I've got a guy on it. Worst case scenario if I don't go to court is I have a suspended sentence and after I pay restitution they drop the charges. Or I could try and fight it but he has a table of bitches as witnesses that will say whatever he wants them to. Once I made it to the door and the bouncers held me up I actually tried to make a break for it but got dog piled. I couldn't get past them. "

This will boil down to who's more credible. Your Att should know who this dude is and his lifetime criminal history in all states and shove it in the prosecuting Att's face. If you're clean and he's not they wont want the trail. I see this all the time here.

Apparently this guy is under investigation for perjury involving a whole different racket. I'm clean, volunteer at a children's outreach center, "disabled" vet, hell I even have the Good Conduct Medal.

[el mechanico]

(10-01-2012 11:11 AM)Fisto Wrote:  

(10-01-2012 11:01 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

"@El Mechanico, I've got a guy on it. Worst case scenario if I don't go to court is I have a suspended sentence and after I pay restitution they drop the charges. Or I could try and fight it but he has a table of bitches as witnesses that will say whatever he wants them to. Once I made it to the door and the bouncers held me up I actually tried to make a break for it but got dog piled. I couldn't get past them. "

This will boil down to who's more credible. Your Att should know who this dude is and his lifetime criminal history in all states and shove it in the prosecuting Att's face. If you're clean and he's not they wont want the trail. I see this all the time here.

Apparently this guy is under investigation for perjury involving a whole different racket. I'm clean, volunteer at a children's outreach center, "disabled" vet, hell I even have the Good Conduct Medal.

Does he have anything else? He must! Just on that I would think they wont want a trail. The state hates wasting time especially when they know your lawyer is capable of making them go the distance. Is your guy pushing for dismissal? I'm not sure how it work in Nevada but here you can make that shit go away real fast..

[Aliblahba]

(10-01-2012 11:11 AM)Fisto Wrote:  

Apparently this guy is under investigation for perjury involving a whole different racket. I'm clean, volunteer at a children's outreach center, "disabled" vet, hell I even have the Good Conduct Medal.

"Now, take me to the brig so I can see the real Marines". -Chesty Puller
"You're not a true Marine until you have 2 NJP's". -Chesty Puller

I missed my "Good Cookie" by two weeks. It bothered me until I changed duty stations and all the questions started. The ole skool SNCO's showed respect, as they were missing start on theirs. The young punk ass Marines respected it cause it showed proof of my attitude.

[Hannibal]

This is why you learn boxing, lift weights, and use a fake name.

[IainMuirs]

I like the guy in the bars response. He probably realised it was an accident than you spilt drink on his girlfriend, that your friend was just stupidly drunk and was talking shit and you had apologised to him so there was no need for him to take it further. No doubt she was a drama queen that pulled shit like this all the time and he'd had enough of it and would rather watch the game. No need for him to get into confrontation about it. Sometimes you have to be the bigger man and just let things lie.

[HiFlo]

If I got a gun, nothing good would happen from it, I can guarantee that.

[Strictly Professional]

It does seem to be problematic in Texas. Especially among military guys. I've gotten in a few dust ups over the years with guys fresh back from Iraq and Afghanistan because some fat girl got pissed I was ignoring her or some princess got pissed off I wouldn't buy her a shot. A solid boxing background has kept me in one piece, but I try to take it easy on these guys. Beating them into a coma isn't going to change their ways and it's not their fault that they've been brainwashed by pussified western media.

[Merenguero]

(10-01-2012 11:15 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(10-01-2012 11:11 AM)Fisto Wrote:  

(10-01-2012 11:01 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

"@El Mechanico, I've got a guy on it. Worst case scenario if I don't go to court is I have a suspended sentence and after I pay restitution they drop the charges. Or I could try and fight it but he has a table of bitches as witnesses that will say whatever he wants them to. Once I made it to the door and the bouncers held me up I actually tried to make a break for it but got dog piled. I couldn't get past them. "

This will boil down to who's more credible. Your Att should know who this dude is and his lifetime criminal history in all states and shove it in the prosecuting Att's face. If you're clean and he's not they wont want the trail. I see this all the time here.

Apparently this guy is under investigation for perjury involving a whole different racket. I'm clean, volunteer at a children's outreach center, "disabled" vet, hell I even have the Good Conduct Medal.

Does he have anything else? He must! Just on that I would think they wont want a trail. The state hates wasting time especially when they know your lawyer is capable of making them go the distance. Is your guy pushing for dismissal? I'm not sure how it work in Nevada but here you can make that shit go away real fast..

One of the most important things used to evaluate a person's (including a state's witness) credibility is whether that person has any prior impeachable convictions. Impeachable offenses are theft, forgery, perjury (which are often misdemeanors) and many assorted felonies. If a person has been convicted of one or more impeachable offenses and a certain amount of time has not passed (often ten years, but it can vary), the opposing attorney can have a field day with that person if he decides to testify. Prosecutors are well aware of this and if a state's witness has one or more of these impeachable convictions, they very often decide not to proceed with the case. Other offenses such as disorderly conduct and assault do not directly affect credibility in some jurisdictions, but it is always good to point out convictions for those types of offenses to the state.

I can recall about two years ago I had a client charged with a sex offense (a misdemeanor sex offense, but nobody wants to go down for a charge like that, especially someone who is not a United States Citizen). The state had two civilian witnesses and no police officer witnesses. These two civilian witnesses had two of the most extensive criminal histories I have ever seen. Some of their convictions were impeachable, while others were not. I showed up to court with two two heavy stacks in my hands. The prosecutor took one look at me and said, "I'm one step ahead of you" and dropped the case with no further discussion.

Interestingly, I had a client not too long ago who was faced with charges in Las Vegas which I believe were similiar to the charges Fisto is facing. I obviously did not represent this guy in the Las Vegas matter. Some guy in a casino attacked this guy with a Freddy Kruger glove and this guy supposedly only acted in self defense. There was supposedly a video from the casino which was exculpatory, but nevertheless this guy was charged with assault as a result of this incident. I'm pretty sure that guy got off in that case. I am bringing this up because it may be at least fairly common for people to be charged in cases of this nature in Las Vegas where there is little or no chance that the state could meet its burden.

[iknowexactly]

(10-01-2012 08:28 PM)Merenguero Wrote:  

There was supposedly a video from the casino which was exculpatory, but nevertheless this guy was charged with assault as a result of this incident. I'm pretty sure that guy got off in that case. I am bringing this up because it may be at least fairly common for people to be charged in cases of this nature in Las Vegas where there is little or no chance that the state could meet its burden.

The point is who needs the hassle? To show some moron you won't back down? Why do you take a moron's opinion into account? Or the morons looking on?

I mentioned before that when you get to the good gigs, big gubmint contracts, high paid professional licenses, they ask what you've been ARRESTED for, besides what you're convicted for. When you tap dance and say it was all a mistake or unfair you just sound like MORE of a barroom brawler or anti-social fuckup.

And ESPECIALLY if it's violent and you're not going for something like a military contractor job where things like that are common, they'll give the gig to ANYONE BUT YOU.

Things at work are stressful enough without having a vain hothead around who likes getting in fights.

And again the question no one's asked.. how much were you drinking.. this time and the other times you had problems... not everyone can drink