Thats very true. I go through long periods where i dont game/go out much and noticed that when i do go out after, i open girls and everything goes well but it always ends up fizzling out. Then i think back and it seems i talked a bit too much, leaned in, was too eager, etc... even if in my mind i did not care about the outcome.
So when i do pay attention to that its like i mentally slap myself and act extra aloof or lay back.
Theres a lot of stuff that goes on beneath the surface subconsciously that translates into your vibe, and i think practice is the only way to get rid of that.
So when i do pay attention to that its like i mentally slap myself and act extra aloof or lay back.
Theres a lot of stuff that goes on beneath the surface subconsciously that translates into your vibe, and i think practice is the only way to get rid of that.