Hello all,
I would like to know if any of you have experienced being assaulted while gaming?
What I mean specifically is, if you are at a bar/venue and you are gaming a girl and her boyfriend is at the same venue. Or if you are seeing a girl regularly and had her boyfriend / beta orbiter threaten or attack you.

In my four years of game, this has not occurred until last weekend. I simply assumed 99% of men are too pacified and beta to do anything about it. That changed when I was at the smoke pit and started talking to a girl and we started making out about 5 min. into the interaction. After a few minutes of this I was interrupted by a fairly solid punch to my temple, followed by a barrage of a few lighter punches to the left side of my face. Turns out this girl had a boyfriend, who was also at the same venue with her. I was very stunned and also quite drunk so my reaction time wasn't quite there. Within a few moments of this attack there were a crew of bouncers and other people holding the person off from me.
Afterwards, the girl clung on the the guy, profusely apologizing while he gets ushered out by security. Despite being punched in the face repeatedly, I was quite happy to see all of my red pill beliefs being re-affirmed from what was happening right in front of my own eyes.

That being said, I am worried to continue on like this. A blow to the temple, if done properly, can be fatal. As well, I don't want to run the risk of a slut kissing me while her boyfriend is at the same bar with a knife on him.
Have any of you guys ran into a similar experience? Do you believe night game is a dangerous endeavour due to men like this?

I'd really like to know your opinions / hear your stories.
Cheers.

Wait, he got pulled off by bouncers but you didn't file charges? I would have pressed charges. Fucking a cheap shot? He couldn't just come over and say hello and have you get the hint?

Fucking coward.

Quote: (09-10-2014 09:10 PM)samsamsam Wrote:  

Wait, he got pulled off by bouncers but you didn't file charges? I would have pressed charges. Fucking a cheap shot? He couldn't just come over and say hello and have you get the hint?

Fucking coward.

I certainly am able to press charges as what he did was 100% illegal (battery). That being said, the paper work and stress involved with that wasn't worth it as he was luckily someone that could not throw a proper punch. I am simply glad I am not hurt and don't have any brain damage or anything like that. I did have a small cut on my temple and I took a picture of it just in case.

And yes, I agree with you about him being a coward. But such is the actions of a beta male. His darling girlfriend could not be responsible for having her tongue down my throat, she just isn't that kind of girl!
Betas gon' beta.

+1. I would have done my utmost to get his details, and that of any witnesses.
If conflicts were solved by violence, we'd all still be living in caves, hence we have law.

One thing you have to realize is that in an environment like that getting witnesses and whatnot to cooperate could prove to be difficult. The bouncers themselves initially just suggested that I go inside while he stays in the smoke-pit for a while so we don't bump into each other again (I shit you not). I had to press for them to eject him from the venue.
Your average nightlife patron is of below-average intelligence and responsibility. So essentially, I was already among cavemen.

Ultimately your headache will go away, but his headache will keep cheating on him.

there are plenty of skanks out there that would make out with you on purpose just to get their boyfriend to hit you, they get enjoyment out of that

I bet they had great sex that night at your expense.

Quote: (09-10-2014 09:28 PM)ashraf Wrote:  

there are plenty of skanks out there that would make out with you on purpose just to get their boyfriend to hit you, they get enjoyment out of that

Now that is truly twisted...
And all along I was thinking it was my looks and game that made her want to makeout with me despite having a boyfriend. I'm going to continue to assume that was the case haha, I do see what you mean by that though and I can definitely see that being the case with a lot of whores.

Quote: (09-10-2014 09:32 PM)samsamsam Wrote:  

I bet they had great sex that night at your expense.

Oh, of course. He most likely held her as tight as he could afterwards and made her promise to never do it again because he loves her so much.

I got sucker punched, he had his heart broken.
But at the end of the day, who's really the winner? Probably the whore.

If a guy sucker punches you, I can't understand you not wanting to get back at him by pressing charges. Are you not doing it because you kissed his girl and he missed his punch? It doesn't matter if he couldn't throw a punch, you could've been badly hurt and that was his intent.

Quote: (09-10-2014 10:34 PM)Pantheon Dweller Wrote:  

If a guy sucker punches you, I can't understand you not wanting to get back at him by pressing charges. Are you not doing it because you kissed his girl and he missed his punch? It doesn't matter if he couldn't throw a punch, you could've been badly hurt and that was his intent.

Pantheon, I went a bit more in-depth of why I didn't press charges in a previous post.
The gist of it is that I did not believe the security nor the other patrons around me would be of much help in gathering evidence. Maybe I should have attempted to pressed charges but at the end of the day I didn't.

Surprised to see so many people willing to press charges for such a minor incident. So you got a smack in the head - walk it off, and enjoy the sympathy while it lasts.

Seems to be a north american thing - something that jumped out at me the other day on that "girl dressed as a fairy assualts circumcision protestor" video was someone called out "I'll call the cops on your ass" instead of "I'll smack the shit out of you". Well if North america is that pussified now, I guess it's only a matter of time before it gets that way here too.

Vroom I do agree with what you are saying to an extent.
The only thing that worries me is a punch to the temple, if done so correctly, could quite literally end my life.

I think that is the reason why many members here are pressing so aggressively for the assailant to be charged.
I did not get hurt badly (minor cut on my temple) and I in fact kept gaming for the rest of the night with an interesting "prop" on the side of my head.

yeah, but you could also slip on the soap in the shower and die. No point worrying about what might have been.

Sounds like you just carried on with your night, which is good.

Amen brother.

Quote: (09-10-2014 09:28 PM)ashraf Wrote:  

there are plenty of skanks out there that would make out with you on purpose just to get their boyfriend to hit you, they get enjoyment out of that

Absolutely true - they get the emotional validation, test their boyfriends to see they care, love the display of 'protection'/aggression on their behalf... Ultimately craving alpha I suppose.

That woman is total lowlife. How can she let herself get off with some stranger when she knows her boyfriend is there. The woman and the guy who threw the punch should be locked up.

Argy - throwing a punch because someone has seduced your bitch isn't alpha at all. It is incredibly beta beyond belief. A true alpha would not give a shit or perhaps even buy me a beer for helping him realize a girl he was DATING is nothing but a bitch to use.

If I were you I would punch back, not at the guy but at that slut

Guys charges are not worth it. Paperwork, going to police station, getting a prosecutor and all that stuff. Most minor battery is resolved by conciliation from what my cops buddies told me.

This is why its important for guys to learn a bit of self-defense. Im not advocating fighting back and make a mess, that slut isnt worth it. The thing is, you never know, there are a lot of psychos out there who wont hesitate to plunge a knife in your ribs because he isn't able to think 1 min ahead. With some self-defense you can opt to take the knife in your hand and have a minor surgery instead of taking it in the gut having a fatal wound.

Do be careful with this. Like others said some girls get off at seeing guys fight for them. What better way to get attention and to feel you are important than to have guys fighting for you?

In my martial art dojo this girl is in a relationship with the 50 years old sensei and she flirts with all the other young guys to make him jealous. During training those guys have a lot of "sport accidents" when they are training with him.... Bitch has her eyes all sparkling when that happens. Disgusting.

Quote: (09-11-2014 02:19 AM)The_e_man Wrote:  

Argy - throwing a punch because someone has seduced your bitch isn't alpha at all. It is incredibly beta beyond belief. A true alpha would not give a shit or perhaps even buy me a beer for helping him realize a girl he was DATING is nothing but a bitch to use.

Agreed - not what I meant. The hamster doesn't make that distinction though. She wants to have a man who will fiercely defend his possession (i.e. her), display jealousy, shower her with affection, etc - essentially, shit tests. Paradoxically, such a man wouldn't need to do that (as you point out) - but isn't that what game is all about? Trolling women, giving women what they want, not want they think they want? Sorry if it seems a little contradictory - that'd be because it is.

Not sure if I've explained myself well.

^back up to the OP. When I lived in Canada there were fights at the bars over girls, or silly shit, or 'real deal' biker gangs playing the knockout game for initiations. In America I have only seen 2 or 3, mostly just a lot of talk. If I were to have a theory it is because in Canada people treat it like its nothing, people rarely get charged but I found in america as soon as an incident makes it from the bar to the street there are blue lights flashing in the distance and someone is going to jail.

Sidenote on the biker gangs...well gang, they had a good strategy on how to really beat someone in a bar while keeping security out of it. They would encircle the combatants and then face outwards and make it difficult or impossible for security to break things up. It got so bad that the city's gang unit would assign to cops to just follow them around from bar to bar all night. If you want to talk about poosy paradise....be a uniformed cop posted up at a bar drinking soda because thats your job.

Fucking white knights.

Quote: (09-10-2014 08:55 PM)The_e_man Wrote:  

That being said, I am worried to continue on like this. A blow to the temple, if done properly, can be fatal.

Quote: (09-11-2014 12:09 AM)The_e_man Wrote:  

Vroom I do agree with what you are saying to an extent.
The only thing that worries me is a punch to the temple, if done so correctly, could quite literally end my life.

You're being a little melodramatic. Is that scenario a possibility? Sure, a slight one, I guess, but as Vroom pointed out, you could die in a thousand other ways going about your day too.

In all your years of gaming, this happened once. I wouldn't stress on it too much.

But to answer your question, yes, spending a lot of time in drinking establishments does increase your odds of getting in a violent encounter. It's extremely rare for grown men to engage in physical "combat" without alcohol being involved, and while I'm a bar-hound myself, avoiding those types of situations is a fair reason to stay out of bars and clubs.

Quote: (09-11-2014 12:07 AM)Vroom Wrote:  

Surprised to see so many people willing to press charges for such a minor incident. So you got a smack in the head - walk it off, and enjoy the sympathy while it lasts.

Seems to be a north american thing - something that jumped out at me the other day on that "girl dressed as a fairy assualts circumcision protestor" video was someone called out "I'll call the cops on your ass" instead of "I'll smack the shit out of you". Well if North america is that pussified now, I guess it's only a matter of time before it gets that way here too.

I'm not american, but western europe is pretty much the same, both are "pussified". Punching a guy nowadays is dangerous legally, even in self-defense, pressing charges has now far more impact than punching someone back. In Rome do as the Romans do.