Quote: (03-30-2018 11:37 AM)This Is Trouble Wrote:
Quote: (03-30-2018 11:23 AM)Dragan Wrote:
20ish, but you know social circle is well better there than cold approaches.
Also, I hate to call you out, and correct me if I'm wrong...
But your Belgrade report says you were there four months.
So you made...5 approaches a month?
So...one a week?
And expect to get laid in a country that is notoriously difficult to get laid in, as vouched for by many members of this forum?
Further, you don't want to try in the US, a place that is notoriously easy to get laid in. Sometimes as simple as ordering a girl off an app straight to your place like a pizza.
I hope I'm wrong man, but I think you're gonna be in for a world of frustration if you don't adjust a bit.
If you were in Beogard for
four months (which is eternity gamewise) and, as you say, built a formidable social circle, yet not succeeded, what makes you think that this time it will be different and you'll get a bang (or bangs)? Serbian girls, from what I've read, are far from easy.
If money is an issue, try daygame. It's the hardest of all the options. If you can muster the courage up, and approach 100 girls (even without getting more than a number), night game will be easier. Social game will be a breeze. Online? You'll be laughing.
Bodi, when he went to Budapest, did
100 approaches (though not his first one hundred), in a foreign city, in
4 days. That's right. A 100. In four days. The time you spent writing and replying in this thread would probably equal to no less than 50 approaches by now. OK, the girls will not be hot 8+ Serbs in your town, the place you are at right now. However, let's get something straight and out of the way - If you're not regularly banging sixes, you have
no business dreaming up banging sevens. Let alone eights! That's the stuff of dreams. And in your situation, any not ugly and not fat a girl will do. And entrust the process, as per Eddie's advice:
Going for the 8+ and difficult women in Serbia of all places is a so-called unconscious meta-weasel to buffer yourself against potential failure. "Ah, it's not my fault I'm still a virgin. Of course, Serbs are tough nut to crack even for seasoned players," you'll mutter under your nose. You need to be realistic. Approach 100 5s-7s in US, process the feedback girls give you, self-diagnose and then you'll know a little bit about yourself if you can TRULY make it happen with Serbian girls.
But hear me out, or, rather, let me quote, for I believe
this guy knows what his talking about:
10. First day abroad
Every one of the above barriers slams down hard when you try a Euro-jaunt. You’ve probably built yourself up over a few weeks while waiting for the flight date. This is it, pussy paradise, you’re gonna hit it hard. Burn the town with a crazy number farm and get some hot foreign birds! And then you arrive in your apartment, put down your suitcase and look out the window. Shit has just gotten real and all those insecurities rise up. If you’re not careful you’ll wig out and spend the whole trip buried in a cafe reading blogs.
Just hit the streets in the US, and get mad. Get mad, and approach these chicks. If you can't approach a six in the US, where girls speak fluent English, these dreamt up 8+ Serbs, attractive, slim, sexy and beautifully dressed, will paralyse you. I've got hundred of approaches under my skin, yet still when I see fast walking, wearing headphones, hard 8+ girls, I can hear my heart pounding, hands sweating, and mouth getting dry. Don't kid yourself that you'll "step up in Serbia big time."
Last year I got mad. It was piss poor Scotland and it's harsh weather for running after skirt before late Spring. It was January, cold and dark but I doggedly walked solo the streets back and forth, entered every supermarket and mall, wore out my shoes and achilles heels but kept going and found a girl here, girl there, got a number here, an idate there and things slowly began roll in. As a consequence I know I
can go to Beogard because I stood up to the test and kept going in this God-forbidden barren land up north and got a bang on a 28th approach of that year. You need a reference experience. You won't get it reading all these posts.
Log out of the forum, turn off your computer and approach. Approach 10 women, embarrass yourself. You'll come out
stronger and notice that, actually, not that much happened. You'll still stand. But what is the key, you'll learn something and with each 10 approaches you'll learn more and more and will see changes in yourself. And who knows, earn yourself a date or two. But for sure, keeping this thread alive won't bring you one step further to your goal. All has been said, all advice given. Now's your turn to take action. Right now. You have a dick in your trousers, thus you have something on offer these girls don't have and won't ever have. Leave the house and give it to them!
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