I can't fathom what it is like to grow up in Cuba, especially in the 'período especial' which started when I was 3 years old, or in the US with Cuban-born parents. I can only speak from the perspective of a Puerto Rican sharing the same flag with inverted colors.
Puerto Rico and Cuba took about as differing paths as possible for two nations so close to each other, with relation to the US. At a critical point in history in around the same time period, Fidel took over Cuba and set it on course to be staunchly and fiercely independent, even to the detriment of its people. Puerto Rico had the same choice, with Luís Muñoz Marín, but he sold out and essentially was bribed by the US, which set us on the wayward path to colonial status, and all that means for us, good and bad. The embargo that followed I think is summarized neatly in this little image, the amount of undersea internet cables that literally connects the world to each other.
Note how Cuba has one cable connection from Venezuela, in spite of at the narrowest distance being only 90 miles away from Florida. Conversely, Florida supplies PR with free, no lag, high quality streamed porn. Full global map:
http://submarine-cable-map-2016.telegeography.com/
Cubans have suffered a lot for this. Fidel's original intentions were probably good - he merely refused to be abused. Unfortunately, he became a brutal dictator that abused his own people as well.
But now, PR and Cuba are headed in, possibly, very different directions. The door is opening up for Cuba, and there are sure to be some more cables coming their way. While PR drowns in its own corruption, Cuba will be flooded with tourists interested in a bigger, objectively more beautiful, and 'authentic' experience. They can only go up from here. All because Cuba decided to not be a bitch. Cubans actually have a lot to be
incredibly proud of, surviving as a staunchly self-sufficient nation against all odds. That counts for something, and as a Puerto Rican who struggles to name anything of prominence coming out of this island outside of Marc Anthony (ja), I envy that sense of
legitimate pride. It's the reason I look up to Cubans, but many Cubans hate Puerto Ricans like me.
For that reason, even though I know I am completely ignorant of most of Fidel's atrocities and what Cubans have really had to go through, I'll always have a healthy admiration, and fear, for what he did. We'll never see one person control a country's destiny quite like he did again.