Quote: (06-09-2016 11:52 AM)WannaBang Wrote:
Ok so it looks like I need to clarify a few things.
I don't want a serious monogomous girlfriend relationship just now. Not till I am 30+ which will be 2-3 years from now. I want to bang a lot of girls and if possibly retain them as 'plates' with ultimately a deeper goal of 'knowing I can get laid.'
We have slightly similar vital stats. I'm around your age, or younger, and have the same relationship/dating goals. Depending on how old you look for your age, I'd hedge that Poland would've been decent for your circumstances, as you can fuck to a +/- 5 year age range, more towards the younger.
I really don't think you're cutting down your options if you aim a bit higher. After living in Europe, I really couldn't bring myself to fuck anyone lower than a 6. :/
Quote: (06-09-2016 11:52 AM)WannaBang Wrote:
ChickenLover9T9
Now for me it is about efficiency. For example approaching 10 girls a day (treating it like a gym session which funnily enough I also do everyday) and in total 300 in a month leading to one bang (ideally a 7 which is 1-2 points above what is available to me online dating) is what I am aiming for.
Have you thought about approaching at the gym?
Quote: (06-09-2016 11:52 AM)WannaBang Wrote:
Right now I am at 600 which translates to 20 approaches a day which is far too emotionally draining and unsustainable. Truth be told the 1 girl I did bang from cold approach was number 470 something. But anyway. I would be HAPPY to have this sort of odds because that will mean 1 new girl a month and if I improved me game even further then maybe in the future it would be more like 5 approaches a day (150 a month) to get that 1 bang or indeed 300 approaches and 2 bangs.
Given the rate at which you're approaching, it sounds like even a slight dip into social circle would be equally draining on you, yet netting considerable more in gains.
Quote: (06-09-2016 11:52 AM)WannaBang Wrote:
I would MUCH rather do this than rely on night-game/social which I utterly despise. I don't drink generally (1- 2 units a week max) and coming home at 3am basically removes an entire day of productivity. Plus I have a very volatile temper and cannot endure the harsh environment in night settings as well as all the unwelcome obstacles such as cockblocks, sausage fest, cunt bouncers etc. During the day it is not a problem however.
Are you sure you haven't got Asperger's? I don't mean this in an offensive way, and I know it's been over-diagnosed for the benefits of shrinks' wallets (no pun intended). It wouldn't surprise me if more RVFers than have admitted are somewhere on the spectrum yet have managed to turn their lives around.
Your impressions of nightlife and social circle echo that of many Aspies, who find it absolute torture and meaningless to hang out and talk shop with a bunch of people.
They also find the conditions of nightlife and clubs to be an absolute sensory overload.
I know I spent a good portion of my late teens and early twenties preferring to browse Facebook rather than chill with other guys at the beach, and I lived to regret that. It's something I had to force myself to get out of my comfort zone.
How well do you socialise with your colleagues? Be honest.
Quote: (06-09-2016 11:52 AM)WannaBang Wrote:
I am not into Asian girls and have no interest in the Philippines or Thailand for this reason. I am somewhat partial to Japanese girls for some reason however.
I definitely see where you're coming from. I'm not into Orientals myself (ironically, I'm of the that background), and resented being given that advice by game guys.
I might dip into Korean or Japanese girls down the track, but I've found that panacea to be really unproductive to some guys.
Quote: (06-09-2016 11:52 AM)WannaBang Wrote:
MasculineProfiles
South America doesn't sound worth it at all. The physical danger aspect as well as the apparent immaturity and flakiness of the women there would drive me to suicide probably. I have been learning Spanish and was considering a 3 stop trip i.e. 1 month Medellin then IF I like it, 1 month Cali then 1 month Bogota. But I am really not sure.
Mate, getting off-topic, but I didn't find South America that dangerous at all. Granted, I was in another part of the continent to what the others posters are suggesting, but you'd probably find it safer than home there too.
Quote: (06-09-2016 11:52 AM)WannaBang Wrote:
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1) Cold approach game.
Always direct. The first 160 were indirect Roosh style but every single one of the resulting dates resulted in the girl being bewildered when I showed sexual intent and being friendzoned. The rest were Krauser style more or less though I cannot say I followed his model especially well.
I can count on one hand the number of times I've gone direct in both night- and day-game. You're probably ahead of me in some way.
Quote: (06-09-2016 11:52 AM)WannaBang Wrote:
2) Internet game
I usually get the girl's whatsapp within 4-5 messages. As I (guess) I am a 6-7, I get girls who are 5-6s as matches. I went through hell omn earth to get good pictures, using photofeeler to ascertain their value. Typically here in Warsaw/Krakow I get 1-2 new matches a day
I'm probably a 7.5, of a race that's said to do badly online in the West, and I still matched with 7's and 8's there. Can you afford to pay for a photographer?
I would posit that most guys over a 6 can bring himself ~2 points on the looks scale online with the right pix.
Quote: (06-09-2016 05:45 PM)WannaBang Wrote:
Unfortunately I am paid salary which means I am on call all the time so even if I worked 4 weeks I could be called back offshore a week later. Also, I pay my own flights anywhere I want to go. So if I went to Colombia and I got called to work I'd need to pay the flights. The only possible way would be to book holidays.
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I just realised something. In order to avoid becoming a tax resident in Poland and screwing all the paperwork up, I need to switch countries anyway
Those are pretty shit conditions. Over here FIFO (fly-in, fly-out) workers get there flights covered to and from work, within reason; basically as long as you're within the country. If I'm not wrong, they get a fixed number of RDO's, meaning they're not working more than they're paid for.
Quote: (06-09-2016 05:47 AM)WannaBang Wrote:
What country is that?
Australia.