Quote: (04-23-2016 12:28 PM)Cortés Wrote:
Quote: (04-23-2016 11:50 AM)Phoenix Wrote:
Quote: (04-23-2016 04:16 AM)NewMeta Wrote:
I dont get this forum sometimes, on the one hand people want a quality woman and on the other they want to relocate somewhere where the girls are easy....but they also have to be of good quality?
That's just an expression of men's feelings though. These two things are always in conflict in the mind of a man, and there can never be a set 'answer' to it.
Yes but as a forum, we need to realize that we cannot have both. Which do we prefer: more feminine, non slutty women or women who fuck around, drink and swear like sailors? We all agree that the whole reason western women are sluts is because we as a society began to allow hypergamy, so why is it that trying to pump and dump chaste traditional women abroad won't result in the same thing. We cannot have the best of both worlds, and I think that unless we want women and society in general to be like here in the west, we have to accept that we shouldn't go to countries just to get as many notches as possible. You need to try and immerse yourself in the culture, form a solid relationship with quality girls (even if its multiple girls, it doesn't have to be dating. Just dont fuck and chuck!)
I was under the impression that the definition of pussy paradise is having both.
Pussy paradise would be a place where women don't sleep around a lot, make good marriage material, and yet are easy to bang
for us. Feminine women who won't abandon a family for some bullshit pseudo-career, won't sleep with lots of guys, yet give
you easy access to pussy.
It's not hypergamy if the girls in a place are surrounded by guys who struggle to bang, but then you come around and get the pussy easy. Especially if she refuses to bang a guy like you once she
has you. That means having moral values.
How does that kind of thing come about? There's a couple of possibilities. For instance, going to a traditional country where the people are poor yet hold onto traditional values and arrive as an exotic, high-value, educated, game aware man. That suggests that pussy paradise can be different for different groups of people.
Now, I don't subscribe to the idea that we as a forum contribute to some kind of destruction of female values because we fuck women from all walks of life. If we're talking about specific countries, the only way for us to have any part in ruining a pussy paradise is to concentrate our numbers into one single (very small) country and actively try to smash all the women and then treat them like shit.
We would have to consciously damage women. All of us. So that means literally everyone who ever made an account on the forum would have to fly to, say, Liechtenstein, and have a poosy-smashing crusade.
Then what? Move to Poland? How long would it take to corrupt millions and millions of girls, with just 20,000 of us? Even if we all tore into it and each of us got 20 new notches a year, that's only 400,000. At that rate it would take twenty years to ruin just eight million girls. In a country of almost 40 million people.
But let's say we get help from the entire "red pill" community and after 20 years, Liechtenstein and Poland are ruined. That rate is not congruent with what we're seeing. And that's because the cultural values are being displaced by interconnectivity and deliberate efforts at Americanization by the US government.
Polish language has even become more Americanized since the 2000's.
That's not because a couple of expats show up. That's because the full force of millions and millions of Americans is exported to other countries in a deliberate way,
especially in regards to industry, which trickles down to the culture at large.
You can't change a culture with your dick. But you can with the Internet and economic power.
Now more Germans visit my hometown than ever. That doesn't mean the place is more "German," and that really doesn't mean that sluts here look at the exotic Germans as less "sexy" or "different."
In terms of whether or not we're making a positive change, we are. We have casual sex. Girls want that. But the main thing they want, even more than sex, is attention. And here there is a generally held belief that once you get the bang, it's all about the girl keeping your attention. What kind of girls keep our attention? The chubby tatted slut who swears like a sailor with his dick in a blender, or a feminine girl in a dress who cooks for you and has interests other than ass-clapping?
We put our attention into the girls who best match our belief structure.
That is the real positive reinforcement.