Quote: (02-15-2016 12:03 AM)Laner Wrote:
Quote: (02-14-2016 11:42 PM)Onto Wrote:
Quote: (02-14-2016 11:34 PM)DarkTriad Wrote:
Quote: (02-14-2016 11:22 PM)Onto Wrote:
No one can say what the motivation for having an out-of-wedlock child is without knowing more about her and her childhood.
She could be doing it for good reasons or bad ones. There's not enough info given from the OP yet to know.
How many "good reasons" are there for a young girl to have a child out of wed lock?
She could be religious, or doesn't believe in abortion. I imagine being pregnant kicks in a women's maternal instincts in some way also.
People don't have sex with the expectation they are going to have a child. When people attack a man with the argument, "You should've thought of that before you had sex with her", they are ignoring this fact. It's like blaming a person who gets into a car accident that they should've thought of that before they decided to drive. Sex, like driving is just something you need to do even if there are risks that go with it. Nobody goes into either expecting an unwanted outcome.
It's a big decision for a woman to have an abortion or a child. Lots of inner-turmoil I imagine. For us we don't have to deal with that, though we are often asked to pay the price for whatever decision they make.
Absolutely. But rawdogging young girls is like driving drunk on Tequila. Fun and the risk is always for other people, never me. I am also insane in this regard, as I have rawdogged far more women than I should have, but never without knowing the possibility of what could happen.
Why does everyone assume the OP was rawdogging? He could have been using condoms religiously and she poked a hole in one for all we know.