Quote: (07-29-2015 11:27 AM)Slim Shady Wrote:  

I'm going to start a change.org petition to ban bushes. I want to always feel like a dirty pedophile every time I fuck a shiny waxed pink cunt.

I like my women how I like my coffee. Free of pubic hair.

And thanks to those who sent me nice PMs and telling me to move on and not waste my energy on someone who doesn't return my calls.

I have met some of you guys before, and you all seemed very nice. When i met you guys in DC, i didn't get to talk much and I was intimidated by all the men at the table.

t don't mind talking about PUA stuff... I talk about it with my roommate all the time since his friends tried to get him to do it, but he realized that it was fucked up in some ways. I don't think all of you are terrible of course.

Quote: (07-29-2015 12:46 PM)game_ethic Wrote:  

I'll rep any member in the DC area who can successfully game this chick over PM, meet up with her for drinks, and then get the bang.

Bonus points if you take a pic of her wearing a Roosh t-shirt.

I'll rep you and buy you a beer if you come to my hood, if you agree to not to rep anyone who has sex with her.

And! for a limited time only, if we get her banned from Alpha-dick as a forum, I'll buy you a shot of your choice.

Quote: (07-29-2015 12:46 PM)game_ethic Wrote:  

I'll rep any member in the DC area who can successfully game this chick over PM, meet up with her for drinks, and then get the bang.

Bonus points if you take a pic of her wearing a Roosh t-shirt.

Nah. I won't be banging or dating anyone anytime soon.

Quote: (07-29-2015 04:09 AM)Alau211 Wrote:  

I have no problem meeting other men; I went out to forget about these tumultuous few weeks and was asked out on dates by intelligent, successful men (two engineers, a lawyer, and a cancer researcher at NIH—I love nerdy men), but I am so depressed that I do not even have the energy to leave my house, so I have been flaking.

Most of us were nice guys too before we got flaked on, friend-zoned, cold-shouldered on approach, divorce raped, etc. Most of us still are pretty intelligent and successful. You can either pay forward the negativity (including "outing" him, whatever that would do anyway) or give the nice guys a chance.

What's this with the username Googling, a 50+ yo successfully landed a 24yo on a dating site other than SA? Bad call on his part reusing a name on a portion of life he probably wanted to keep private. Now, if you want to improve your karma, and probably rep points, you can tell us more about this game that led to your agreeing to threesomes...

Quote: (07-29-2015 04:09 AM)Alau211 Wrote:  

Hi guys,



There is nothing wrong with being socially awkward and trying to gain confidence. You are all worthy, and I would rather a guy be himself (perhaps endearingly awkward?) than put on this masquerade of an alpha male, which he is not.

   

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I went out to forget about these tumultuous few weeks and was asked out on dates by intelligent, successful men (two engineers, a lawyer, and a cancer researcher at NIH—I love nerdy men), but I am so depressed that I do not even have the energy to leave my house, so I have been flaking.

So she wants guys to "just be themselves"-- nice, honest, caring, maybe "endearingly awkward", and yet she keeps going back to and banging a guy she says cheated, lied, insulted her, and generally treated her like shit, and then after she finally breaks it off with him, she rejects 4 successful, intelligent, dependable men who were very likely the nice,honest, caring men just being themselves that she claims to prefer. Despite what she says, in the end, whose penis did she allow into her vagina? That tells the truth.

Once again, we see confirmation that our view of female sexual psychology is accurate.

Quote: (07-29-2015 12:50 PM)Alau211 Wrote:  

And thanks to those who sent me nice PMs and telling me to move on and not waste my energy on someone who doesn't return my calls.

You should post a list of these guys.

Quote: (07-29-2015 12:55 PM)LINUX Wrote:  

Quote: (07-29-2015 12:50 PM)Alau211 Wrote:  

And thanks to those who sent me nice PMs and telling me to move on and not waste my energy on someone who doesn't return my calls.

You should post a list of these guys.

Yes please do.

Quote: (07-29-2015 12:44 PM)Alau211 Wrote:  

Also, i don't care what you think of me or my weight. Quit your stupid negs. They don't work on me no more.

You don't see the humor in your comment do you? If it doesn't bother you, then don't post about it. Much like when a woman posts she is confident in her profile, it means she is not.

Quote: (07-29-2015 12:56 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Quote: (07-29-2015 12:55 PM)LINUX Wrote:  

Quote: (07-29-2015 12:50 PM)Alau211 Wrote:  

And thanks to those who sent me nice PMs and telling me to move on and not waste my energy on someone who doesn't return my calls.

You should post a list of these guys.

Yes please do.

Are there any rules against sliding in her DMs sending her dick pics? I'm just asking for a friend.....

So she wants guys to "just be themselves"-- nice, honest, caring, maybe "endearingly awkward", and yet she keeps going back to and banging a guy she says cheated, lied, insulted her, and generally treated her like shit, and then after she finally breaks it off with him, she rejects 4 successful, intelligent, dependable men who were very likely the nice,honest, caring men just being themselves that she claims to prefer. Despite what she says, in the end, whose penis did she allow into her vagina? That tells the truth.

Once again, we see confirmation that our view of female sexual psychology is accurate.
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i really would much rather them be themselves. Doesn't put on a facade get tiring? I stayed because I was comfortable and I liked it when he was kind and affectionate. I wasn't dating anyone else on the side, so we would spend a lot of time together that even through all of the bad times, i just needed comfort from someone I knew. i'm not a very open and affectionate person and it took me a while to open up to him...so I thought I would never be comfortable doing that with other men. He was fun to be around when he was acting okay. His friends actually keep inviting me to their parties, and I really don't want to bump into him. Also, as i stated earlier, I only dated nice guys before. You know.. the honest, caring types? I gave them a chance.. and we are all on good terms.

Quote: (07-29-2015 12:58 PM)samsamsam Wrote:  

Quote: (07-29-2015 12:44 PM)Alau211 Wrote:  

Also, i don't care what you think of me or my weight. Quit your stupid negs. They don't work on me no more.

You don't see the humor in your comment do you? If it doesn't bother you, then don't post about it. Much like when a woman posts she is confident in her profile, it means she is not.

Ummm of course i have my insecurities. Don't we all? i wish i were more social and outgoing. Many of you pretend to be confident when you're not. I can see through the masquerade.

Quote: (07-29-2015 12:54 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

So she wants guys to "just be themselves"-- nice, honest, caring, maybe "endearingly awkward", and yet she keeps going back to and banging a guy she says cheated, lied, insulted her, and generally treated her like shit, and then after she finally breaks it off with him, she rejects 4 successful, intelligent, dependable men who were very likely the nice,honest, caring men just being themselves that she claims to prefer. Despite what she says, in the end, whose penis did she allow into her vagina? That tells the truth.

Once again, we see confirmation that our view of female sexual psychology is accurate.

To me that is the central point of this thread. She also mentioned that he never apologized, she always had to. He seems to be running straight up game on her.

I still think that it's the bizarre culture in the West that teaches girls to "like" the nice-guys and fight their natural instincts of what their bodies say is attractive. Just like it tries to teach guys to be "nice", even if women don't find that attractive.

Quote: (07-29-2015 01:02 PM)Alau211 Wrote:  

Quote: (07-29-2015 12:58 PM)samsamsam Wrote:  

Quote: (07-29-2015 12:44 PM)Alau211 Wrote:  

Also, i don't care what you think of me or my weight. Quit your stupid negs. They don't work on me no more.

You don't see the humor in your comment do you? If it doesn't bother you, then don't post about it. Much like when a woman posts she is confident in her profile, it means she is not.

Ummm of course i have my insecurities. Don't we all? i wish i were more social and outgoing. Many of you pretend to be confident when you're not. I can see through the masquerade.

Another piece of real advice, you need to hit bottom and start accepting. Right now you are really hurt and fighting everything. You are what some people call a "reaction machine." Every time you get teased you want to fire back, but you lack Trump skills.

The sooner you can get to acceptance you can start to heal. Acceptance means no longer thinking you are victim, how you were mistreated, etc. It means you are ready to go forward and build and start again.

Your ego gets an emotional payoff for feeling this way, this pain this victimhood. So your ego doesn't want to let it go. If you can't let it go, you can't make room in your life for something new and better.

Think of you life as a bucket of emotional energy. This energy is used to handle all aspects of your life. When most of your energy is used to handle something bad (or perceived as bad), you have very little energy left over to work on good things in your life. So free up that energy as quickly as you can. In a way, and you will laugh at me for saying this, this is like an intervention.

You can double down on what you believe or you can let the negs and jokes break you and let you hit bottom so you can start to rebuild. In the military, from what I understand, I have never served and much respect to those who have, they break down their recruits to build them up.

There were some solid posts by other guys on this thread, if you read and embrace those, you might get back on the right track.

Also, there is an expression, "What are you pretending not to know." Based on what you wrote, you know what happened to you, you know which guys treated you better, you know what you did wrong (according to you), then who else is to blame for all this?

Best of luck.

Actual picture of the banned member in question reading this thread.

Quote: (07-29-2015 01:01 PM)Alau211 Wrote:  

i really would much rather them be themselves.

So did I... and look where that got me. Cheated on. Divorced. Five years of my life down the toilet. So, nope. Thank you very much.

Okay everyone, I think we all had enough fun with this girl. Thanks for the laughs, you all had me in stitches all morning.

Do we keep her around much longer, or bring down the ban-hammer?

Quote: (07-29-2015 01:09 PM)CleanSlate Wrote:  

Quote: (07-29-2015 01:01 PM)Alau211 Wrote:  

i really would much rather them be themselves.

So did I... and look where that got me. Cheated on. Divorced. Five years of my life down the toilet. So, nope. Thank you very much.

Okay everyone, I think everyone had enough fun with this girl. Thanks for the laughs, you all had me in stitches all morning.

Do we keep her around much longer, or bring down the ban-hammer?

You should be assertive and if the girl is treating you like shit, you obviously should not be passive and put your foot down. That is a good thing. However, all i am saying is that there's no reason to be an asshole/liar/manipulator for no reason.. or just because you've had bad experiences and are bitter about them.

Op, work out, lose weight and try to maximize your potential. I don't know how old you are but I guess you don't have that much time left. Wish you the best.

After being told to do so by like 7 different dudes--over the course of 5 hours--the OP finally sent me a polite personal note requesting the removal of her pictures. Since we're not in the business of "outing" people on this forum--the reason we found her threats so distasteful--I've extended her the courtesy of manually removing them from each post.

Now, OP, you should upload one or two of the topless pictures you allude to above. Alternatively, a bush picture or ass pic. Put a reference to RooshVForum in the image so we know it's real.

You're on the verge of becoming a hall-of-fame thread. This is unprecedented for a woman. Unfortunately, this is a requirement to remain--as a woman--a member this men-only forum.

^^^^ But there is a reason. You're a girl and you bought a silver membership and you started a thread about some PUA. Looks like treating you like shit worked.

Quote: (07-29-2015 01:13 PM)Alau211 Wrote:  

You should be assertive and if the girl is treating you like shit, you obviously should not be passive and put your foot down. That is a good thing. However, all i am saying is that there's no reason to be an asshole/liar/manipulator for no reason.. or just because you've had bad experiences and are bitter about them.

Are you sure it was for no reason, people, in particular woman can really block out the truth.

I did something foolish one time and lent my female lawyer ex friend some money (this was pre RVF).

It has been a bitch trying to collect it all back.

Got on the phone the other day and she was pissing me off with excuses and I just said, "Do you think you have been responsible in paying back this loan?"

She says, "well apparently to you I have not, but blah blah."

It has been five years and I get little payments only when I hound her.

YET she thinks she has been responsible. Yet I get every excuse from copying the mailing address wrong, to being sick, to not seeing a text, to everything else. Yet, she thinks she is responsible.

So take a good long look at yourself. And try to be honest and do that exercise I suggested about writing your original post from a responsible perspective.

Quote: (07-29-2015 01:01 PM)Alau211 Wrote:  

I stayed because I was comfortable and I liked it when he was kind and affectionate. I wasn't dating anyone else on the side, so we would spend a lot of time together that even through all of the bad times, i just needed comfort from someone I knew. i'm not a very open and affectionate person and it took me a while to open up to him...so I thought I would never be comfortable doing that with other men. He was fun to be around when he was acting okay.

None of this is really about him. This is all about you and how he made you feel. One of the ways he made you feel this way was using some of the very techniques discussed on this forum.

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Also, as i stated earlier, I only dated nice guys before. You know.. the honest, caring types? I gave them a chance.. and we are all on good terms.

Ah, yes, so all those "honest, caring types" are right there in the friend-zone, where they belong...

I think my father is a good example of what women say they want. I'm biased but he's stoic, honest to a fault, keeps in shape, has interests, and runs the house like clockwork. I've only heard him swear once in my life. He's gone off to war and had to kill people but never ever talks about it. He's always had women sniffing around him but never showed them any interest. He married my mom after 6 months of going out. They're still together and happy.

But he's from a different generation and my mom is as well. She doesn't understand what feminism is. She love's to take care of her house, and her kids. She married her first love, my dad very young. I'm pretty sure her partner count is 1. How many women fit that mold today?

Alau, if you're looking for a unicorn, it helps if you're one yourself.

Post a bush pic, many of us here happen to be fans.