[Alau211]

I was trying to explain why I stayed for so long. it is not that i found this bad, undeserved behavior attractive. It was simply about comfort and how he treated me well other times. I was always in a good mood when things were fine, but then I'd catch him in a lie and he would never apologize and it would go downhill from there. I am grateful for some things that he has done, but other times, it was all lies and acting like an awful friend. It's a problem when his own friend tells me that he doesn't understand how to relate to others and how he never thinks he's wrong.

[renotime]

(07-29-2015 12:55 PM)LINUX Wrote:  

(07-29-2015 12:50 PM)Alau211 Wrote:  

And thanks to those who sent me nice PMs and telling me to move on and not waste my energy on someone who doesn't return my calls.

You should post a list of these guys.

Ok I'll cop to it I said it. I don't want anyone to be depressed.

Would you like a transcript?

[Gmac]

(07-29-2015 01:30 PM)Ziltoid Wrote:  

Post a bush pic, many of us here happen to be fans.

Hacked the banned member's phone and found these:





Cropped to preserve OP's identity.

[Chowder Head]

(07-29-2015 01:13 PM)Alau211 Wrote:  

(07-29-2015 01:09 PM)CleanSlate Wrote:  

(07-29-2015 01:01 PM)Alau211 Wrote:  

i really would much rather them be themselves.

So did I... and look where that got me. Cheated on. Divorced. Five years of my life down the toilet. So, nope. Thank you very much.

Okay everyone, I think everyone had enough fun with this girl. Thanks for the laughs, you all had me in stitches all morning.

Do we keep her around much longer, or bring down the ban-hammer?

You should be assertive and if the girl is treating you like shit, you obviously should not be passive and put your foot down. That is a good thing. However, all i am saying is that there's no reason to be an asshole/liar/manipulator for no reason.. or just because you've had bad experiences and are bitter about them.

Christ, now she's giving advice. She is loving all this attention/drama, even if its negative. Clean Slate is right... time for the hammer.

[Hades]

OP it doesn't bother you that getting treated like shit isn't necessarily a turn-off? Confident people don't put up with that sort of treatment.

[samsamsam]

(07-29-2015 01:35 PM)Chowder Head Wrote:  

Christ, now she's giving advice. She is loving all this attention/drama, even if its negative. Clean Slate is right... time for the hammer.

Like I said the balls on this girl.

(07-29-2015 01:36 PM)Hades Wrote:  

OP it doesn't bother you that getting treated like shit isn't necessarily a turn-off? Confident people don't put up with that sort of treatment.

OP, Hades is right. You should check out this thread. http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-45437.html

[Gringuito]

(07-29-2015 01:30 PM)Alau211 Wrote:  

I was trying to explain why I stayed for so long. it is not that i found this bad, undeserved behavior attractive. It was simply about comfort and how he treated me well other times. I was always in a good mood when things were fine, but then I'd catch him in a lie and he would never apologize and it would go downhill from there. I am grateful for some things that he has done, but other times, it was all lies and acting like an awful friend. It's a problem when his own friend tells me that he doesn't understand how to relate to others and how he never thinks he's wrong.

Why you stayed with him so long was that you were/are attracted to him. You also enjoyed him more than he pissed you off. You're felt this way because he was running what seems like very good game on you. He built attraction, gave you plenty of drama, ran dread game, and never apologized. He became the prize. You are hurting because you enjoyed being with him and a part of you still wants to be with him, even with the pain he causes you.

[STriple-R]

(07-29-2015 01:01 PM)Alau211 Wrote:  

So she wants guys to "just be themselves"-- nice, honest, caring, maybe "endearingly awkward", and yet she keeps going back to and banging a guy she says cheated, lied, insulted her, and generally treated her like shit, and then after she finally breaks it off with him, she rejects 4 successful, intelligent, dependable men who were very likely the nice,honest, caring men just being themselves that she claims to prefer. Despite what she says, in the end, whose penis did she allow into her vagina? That tells the truth.

Once again, we see confirmation that our view of female sexual psychology is accurate.

Quote:

i really would much rather them be themselves. Doesn't put on a facade get tiring? I stayed because I was comfortable and I liked it when he was kind and affectionate. I wasn't dating anyone else on the side, so we would spend a lot of time together that even through all of the bad times, i just needed comfort from someone I knew. i'm not a very open and affectionate person and it took me a while to open up to him...so I thought I would never be comfortable doing that with other men. He was fun to be around when he was acting okay. His friends actually keep inviting me to their parties, and I really don't want to bump into him. Also, as i stated earlier, I only dated nice guys before. You know.. the honest, caring types? I gave them a chance.. and we are all on good terms.

^^
There it is, you gave them a chance. Fuck that shit, what makes you that special?

You got a chance, blew it (not good enough maybe?) and got ditched. Not being used to guys saying "no" you start crying about it.

Now I'm gonna go brush my teeth, you made me vomit in my mouth a bit.

[Alau211]

(07-29-2015 01:18 PM)PrimeTime32 Wrote:  

^^^^ But there is a reason. You're a girl and you bought a silver membership and you started a thread about some PUA. Looks like treating you like shit worked.

It was like 3$ and I won't be posting any more threads. Too much negativity. My friend is reading the posts though.She's met him and unsurprisingly, didn't like him and could tell that underneath the arrogance, he was insecure.

[Tuthmosis]

(07-29-2015 01:30 PM)Alau211 Wrote:  

I was trying to explain why I stayed for so long. it is not that i found this bad, undeserved behavior attractive. It was simply about comfort and how he treated me well other times. I was always in a good mood when things were fine, but then I'd catch him in a lie and he would never apologize and it would go downhill from there. I am grateful for some things that he has done, but other times, it was all lies and acting like an awful friend. It's a problem when his own friend tells me that he doesn't understand how to relate to others and how he never thinks he's wrong.

You've now become repetitive. You milked this little stunt for 12 pages of attention (much of it from men you, by your admission, find attractive). This should hold you over for at least a week. We fed your trolling and gave you something to talk about, so long as you provided some degree of entertainment.

Since you were unable, or unwilling, to meet the requirements for female membership, and appear to have finished saying everything you needed to say:

Alau211

[heavy]

Well it was fun while it lasted

[LINUX]

(07-29-2015 01:32 PM)renotime Wrote:  

Ok I'll cop to it I said it. I don't want anyone to be depressed.

Would you like a transcript?

This girl isn't depressed. She is been seeking attention for six hours and you jumped the boat as soon as you smelled pussy in the air.

[Chowder Head]

I miss her already.

[Gringuito]

(07-29-2015 01:41 PM)Alau211 Wrote:  

She's met him and unsurprisingly, didn't like him and could tell that underneath the arrogance, he was insecure.

This is the girl version of when we wake up in the morning and find out our solid 8 is a 4 without makeup. If course you want to find a guy that's naturally cocky, without being insecure underneath. We like attractive women that don't need to wear makeup.

You should teach game. I think it would be a good career choice for you.

Edit: Darn, in after the ban hammer. Her ex boyfriend must be having the best morning ever.

[Tuthmosis]

(07-29-2015 01:32 PM)renotime Wrote:  

Ok I'll cop to it I said it. I don't want anyone to be depressed.

Would you like a transcript?

[samsamsam]

You'll be missed

I'm sure someone got her contact info. Let us know how it goes.

[Travesty]

(07-29-2015 01:32 PM)renotime Wrote:  

Ok I'll cop to it I said it. I don't want anyone to be depressed.

Would you like a transcript?

Is there a red "WK" we could put over his screen name for a few months so he can think about what he's done?

I have a hard time believing over a handful of guys are PM'ing this broad with good huggy feel support. Damn.

Could you fucking imagine if just two women that were 6's under the age of 25 were allowed a free pass to post on this forum? Just two.

If it were ten girls this place wouldn't exist in a few months.

Shameful! The thirst is too damn high!

[Aenigmarius]

Alau, if you really want some good advice: read this forum. Read Roosh and his contemporaries. Try to read it for the information and try to leave your emotions out of it (as hard as that may be). You will see why men come to this forum. You will learn why men take the "red pill" and look for ways to change themselves. You'll see that most men are only able to really accept the red pill truths after they have suffered the emotional, social and financial misery that comes from "just being themselves," being "open and honest" and "listening to their feelings."

You'll also see that, for most of us, its a lot less about "pretending to be someone else" than it is trying to improve who we are. Yes, sometimes we have to try to "fake it until we make it" but the most honest advice you'll find on this forum is for guys to get better -- to make themselves better, to focus on themselves and improve. Are there guys on here that are all about getting a higher notch count? Yes, and if you read the forum, you'll see what threads those guys congregate in. But you'll also find a lot more threads about guys trying to overcome their own inner demons, weaknesses, insecurities, etc., and become better men. Each guy here is at a different place on that journey, and some of the steps down that road aren't always pretty.

To me, that's what neomasculinity is all about: becoming a better man. Because, as we become better men, we know we will attract better women. We will be able to cast off the women of lesser quality, and focus our time only on the higher quality women who are worth the time and effort.

And, if you want to attract a better man, you should try becoming a better woman. Not a better feminist, not a "woman that can compete with a man," not a "woman succeeding in a man's world"... but a better woman.

[Chowder Head]

(07-29-2015 01:49 PM)Travesty Wrote:  

(07-29-2015 01:32 PM)renotime Wrote:  

Ok I'll cop to it I said it. I don't want anyone to be depressed.

Would you like a transcript?

Is there a red "WK" we could put over his screen name for a few months so he can think about what he's done?

I have a hard time believing over a handful of guys are PM'ing this broad with good huggy feel support. Damn.

I gotta admit, I thought about contacting her as well. But I quenched my thirst last night. The scarlet "WK" is a good idea.

[STriple-R]

(07-29-2015 01:49 PM)Travesty Wrote:  

(07-29-2015 01:32 PM)renotime Wrote:  

Ok I'll cop to it I said it. I don't want anyone to be depressed.

Would you like a transcript?

Is there a red "WK" we could put over his screen name for a few months so he can think about what he's done?

I have a hard time believing over a handful of guys are PM'ing this broad with good huggy feel support. Damn.

Propably guys near her location preparing to run 'good guy' game and bang the shit out of her and make her lose some weight in the process.

[MidWest]

I have a feeling that the boyfriend she's talking about is L M McCoy. Didn't he have his account hijacked by a chick just a while ago? The writing style seems familiar. Especially the begging part.

L M McCoy: Can you please just ban me?

Alau211: Can you please take my pics down?

[Chowder Head]

(07-29-2015 02:02 PM)MidWest Wrote:  

I have a feeling that the boyfriend she's talking about is L M McCoy. Didn't he have his account hijacked by a chick just a while ago? The writing style seems familiar. Especially the begging part.

L M McCoy: Can you please just ban me?

Alau211: Can you please take my pics down?

Are L M McCoy and Divorco the same person?

[WanderingSoul]

Why would a guy bring a girl to Roosh's talk?

Why would some of you guys PM her?

[renotime]

(07-29-2015 01:44 PM)LINUX Wrote:  

(07-29-2015 01:32 PM)renotime Wrote:  

Ok I'll cop to it I said it. I don't want anyone to be depressed.

Would you like a transcript?

This girl isn't depressed. She is been seeking attention for six hours and you jumped the boat as soon as you smelled pussy in the air.

I sent her a message saying if she was depressed she could go see someone. I'm not gonna hop on a plane to DC to try and fuck some girl.

I've got nothing but respect for you and you seem pretty apt when it comes to psychology, so maybe you are hitting on something about me I am overlooking.

I will say that she isn't the first person on this forum I've reached out to in regards to something like this.

But if you want to label me a white knight than that is your right.

[Aquiles_Baesta_Parada]

(07-29-2015 02:15 PM)RioNomad Wrote:  

Why would some of you guys PM her?