[Gmac]

You'd be doing yourself a big favor by not posting anymore A... but as long as you're continuing to take the bait we might as well all enjoy the entertainment.

[Gringuito]

Alau, you complain about your ex lying, manipulating, etc. What you're missing is that your post here shows exactly how well that strategy works. Are you posting on the "No More Mr Nice Guy" forum about (as you call it) an ex beta boyfriend? Some of the guys here started out with the honest, upstanding, emotionally open guy strategy. It didn't work for them. Men adapt very well to our environment. Just take a look at the civilization that we as a group have built pretty must just to get laid. If women truly rewarded beta behavior this forum would be filled with topics like: how to open up more, how to be more honest, how to treat her like she deserves. If tomorrow women change what they are attracted to, I bet you men will adapt to that quickly.

I don't blame you and women for being attracted to men like your ex. You're just as trapped by biology as we are. But I think it's disingenuous to blame your ex for being someone that you are at the same time attracted to but also someone that is not good for you. If you are self-aware, you can start searching for the male-unicorn that is cocky, somewhat arrogant, but still a good guy deep down.

[FlyBoy]

(07-29-2015 09:37 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

Said banned member is a 50+ y.o. dating a cute 24 yo. in D.C.

Can OP please tell us what specific negs the great man used on her!

Thank you.

[AntiTrace]

wait, this story is actually true? and its an old forum member? Who is 50 and banging 24yo cuties?

[Alau211]

(07-29-2015 09:44 AM)Gmac Wrote:  

You'd be doing yourself a big favor by not posting anymore A... but as long as you're continuing to take the bait we might as well all enjoy the entertainment.

Thanks, D. Nice meeting you too.

[Tokyo Joe]

(07-29-2015 09:46 AM)AntiTrace Wrote:  

wait, this story is actually true? and its an old forum member? Who is 50 and banging 24yo cuties?

She was certainly no killer girlfriend but you might call him a killer boyfriend...

[heavy]

Gentlemen, finally she drops some real game advice. Enough to make me wonder if OP is a dude.

(07-29-2015 09:20 AM)Alau211 Wrote:  

I was extremely comfortable with him. i knew he negged me and it bothered me at first.. but after I knew what a neg was, I joked about it with him every time he did it to me.
...

Let's break down this little gem:

HB7: I was extremely comfortable with him.

Me: Why is that? What made you so comfortable with the guy after initial attraction?

HB7: We shared laughs. We joked together. We had this vibe.

Me: Ah yes, sharing laughs and joking together does build comfort. It sorta builds a mini group mentality, like an us and them feeling. What did you joke about?

HB7: Actually, I joked about him negging me. He said he loved my shoes and that his mom had the same pair. It caught me off guard and made me wonder why he would give such a back-handed compliment. It was like he was challenging me, but in a funny way.

Me: So the two of you became comfortable by way of attraction. It was him teasing you that created attraction, which naturally led to you feeling comfortable with him?

HB7: Interesting but true. After I knew what a neg was, I joked about it with him every time he did it to me. I was extremely comfortable with him.

[vinman]

(07-29-2015 09:44 AM)Aquiles_Baesta_Parada Wrote:  

(07-29-2015 09:37 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

Said banned member is a 50+ y.o. dating a cute 24 yo. in D.C.

Real life Mr. Bitches

This thread just gets better and better!

[Aquiles_Baesta_Parada]

One of the busiest days of the week for me and:

I survived the "I dated a PUA" thread

[Slim Shady]

This is gold. I remember meeting this girl in DC. I was one of the "pretty attractive" guys she met.

[Deuce Anna Half]

Somebody needs to comb through the Online Girl Hamster thread and see if that name's come up before.

[STriple-R]

So after reading about every post in here but skipping the the OP, I just wans't able to resist reading it. You complain, complain and complain a helluva lot more about the guy yet you still 'want' him. -Succesfull game recognized.

You fell in love but couldn't bare with the idea of him just wanting to bang you and not being exclusive. Every time he acted like a dick (even with his dick), you decided to 'forgive' him and give him some more of your pussy. Every time you did that, you could have just broke contact and move on. Now, you are finally done with it and you are crying and being a bitch about something you could have avoided if you just followed your gut about him and move on. -Oneitis.

This is where you'll see the link between your story and this forum. We are men, we love pussy and want to fuck, a lot. Prefferably the pussy of girls we truly like. Hell she might be LTR material and convert us to being exclusive because she's so damn nice/good/fine/whatever and there's really 'out-of-this-world chemistry'. You girl, you weren't, not for him. And now, you're bitching about it but truly you've got yourself to blame.

Another thing we try to learn eachother here; not being you. Not being the guy persuing a girl that we can't 'have'. Reduce the chance of being played by this girl. Not being her provider if that's all she cares about and doesn't want to eventually settle down with you. You see where I'm going here? Yes, game helps to get in favor with women, but as a side-effect it also protects us from being used and thrown to the trash when some guy 'better' gets into her life.

So, welcome! You've just been introduced into your own playingfield!

[Guitarman]

As the OP is clearly a feminist troll, we can't believe anything she says, especially considering the inconsistencies highlighted by Tuthmosis.

The OKC profile posted is certainly fake, set up as a part of this elaborate troll job by a feminist who didn't date a ( conveniently) banned member.

There is a clue though, the username "i am my own personal canvas " suggests a tatted up feminartist, perhaps something like this meet ill a Gore ; http://en.ozonweb.com/art/i-am-my-own-personal-canvas

The question is though WYB?? http://en.ozonweb.com/wp-content/uploads...a-Gore.jpg

[el mechanico]

(07-29-2015 10:24 AM)Guitarman Wrote:  

As the OP is clearly a feminist troll, we can't believe anything she says, especially considering the inconsistencies highlighted by Tuthmosis.

The OKC profile posted is certainly fake, set up as a part of this elaborate troll job by a feminist who didn't date a ( conveniently) banned member.

There is a clue though, the username "i am my own personal canvas " suggests a tatted up feminartist, perhaps something like this ; http://en.ozonweb.com/art/i-am-my-own-personal-canvas

No all this is real. I know it for a fact.

[Troutslayer]

ugh, tits or gtfo

[Aenigmarius]

I'm PMing this chick a cock pic.

[Remington]

Surprised I haven't seen this chick on OKC.

[renotime]

(07-29-2015 09:17 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Quote:

However, things like negging are kind of manipulative. I don't think you need to try to lower anyone's self-esteem to try to make yourself feel better

He does that naturally he's an offensive person not a pua.

Do you guys posting here know who she's talking about?

Is it Divorco please tell me it is Divorco

[Brahman]

thread of the week...should be permalinked as a 'case study'

[arafat scarf]

Wow, what a thread.

OP, you've wandered into a community of men who are very savvy - especially when it comes to what goes down when dealing with the opposite sex. Most of the guys here are highly intelligent, perceptive and have experienced a level of frustration that you couldn't begin to understand. Many of us, though not all, have had to overcome a socially hostile environment that not only deadens us spiritually but works against our biological needs.

To varying degrees, we are misaligned with the current times and have had to find ways to get around the freak show of modern gender relations. Believe it or not, your story and your posts in this thread are the embodiment of some of the dark truths that have haunted a lot of us, a reminder of what has worked against us for a large portion of our lives.

It's little surprise to me that your presence here and your issues with dating a player have been received like a lamb to the slaughter. But at any rate...at least you got some drama and fireworks out of the whole deal.

For the community --- some miscellaneous observations:


1. A lot of bitterness and aggression in the responses of some of the posters here.

I respect some of the authors of these quotes, but I still want to call some of the instances out.

Quote:

tits, now.

Quote:

You're nothing but a pump and dump. Your brain is spinning out of control. It is asking how could they treat me like that don't they know I am a special snowflake? All snow flakes melt sunshine. Enjoy your few years before you smash into the wall.

Quote:

Keep talking, darling. I think you're forgetting the whole premise of this thread is that some player broke your little hamster heart.

Quote:

why would you post your account if you didn't want it being discovered. Did your narcissism get the best of you?

Not a fan of these responses for the simple fact that their tone indicates a misplaced disposition to take this girl seriously. Jesus, guys...she's just a girl! In many ways resembling an overly intelligent and precocious child (and yet, as a potential giver and nurturer of life, profoundly different).

My take?

A better attitude and approach to cultivate is one of cheeky playfulness and gentle dismissive humor. This is a 'game' forum after all and it's on us to keep the 'game' fun. Keep your mind right and stay elevated: With men- directness, camaraderie, and plain speech. With girls- ease, delight, and a good dose of that closing-instinct when there's noticeable sexual tension.

2. I admire the OP's girl game in a twisted way.

These young girls luv the drama and she's become the center of attention baiting a bunch of dudes (including me!) into responding with everything from vitriol to snark to incredulity to tough-love words of wisdom.

Girl martyr-troll game recognized.

3. For those willing to read between the lines, this thread is a living example of 'the way things are'

Depending on what kind of experiences you've had, this thread should be either a rude awakening or gentle reminder of what makes it wet. Select quotes from the OP:

Quote:

I would ask him if he was seeing other people and having unprotected sex with others. I knew the answer was "yes" already, but he continuously lied. What infuriated me was that he lied about having unprotected sex and then had the audacity to tell me that it is not my business if he has unprotected sex or not, wholly disregarding my health. I truly just wanted some honesty and I never got that. I am not sure why I did not leave sooner…

Quote:

I went to the bar since he had initially invited me to attend a show there, and he walked in with the girl. I was so devastated and was left alone at the bar in tears the rest of the night as HIS OWN childhood friend that I barely knew tried to comfort me. After this incident, I told him that I would either move on and stop seeing him or that we would be completely exclusive. He agreed to be exclusive, and I was both happy but wary.

Quote:

I have no problem meeting other men; I went out to forget about these tumultuous few weeks and was asked out on dates by intelligent, successful men (two engineers, a lawyer, and a cancer researcher at NIH—I love nerdy men), but I am so depressed that I do not even have the energy to leave my house, so I have been flaking.

We all can read the lyrics, but how many can hear the music being played?

[Chowder Head]

(07-29-2015 09:37 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

Said banned member is a 50+ y.o. dating a cute 24 yo. in D.C.

Should this thread be moved to the Older Guys 40+ thread now?

WB OP: 6.745/10. Pluses: Latina, thick, nice hair, not too smart, has some spunk, in my area, easily gamed. Minus: big schnoz.

I love that every once in awhile a woman has to come to this forum, start some shit, then get exposed. Why would you want to poke a sleeping bear?

[Aenigmarius]

Quote:

i will stick to dating betas then. I don't need my heart broken anymore. I can understand if i did something wrong and needed to be put in my place, but that's not the case.

Quote:

I am trying to move on but it is so difficult. I have no problem meeting other men; I went out to forget about these tumultuous few weeks and was asked out on dates by intelligent, successful men (two engineers, a lawyer, and a cancer researcher at NIH—I love nerdy men), but I am so depressed that I do not even have the energy to leave my house, so I have been flaking.

Classic Alpha widow. I feel sorry for the poor beta that this chick eventually settles for, post-wall.

[Aliblahba]

I've seen naked pics of the OP sent via text from said banned member. WB. -1 for the hairy bush though.

[Kaii]

This keeps getting better and better.

[Ziltoid]

(07-29-2015 11:07 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

I've seen naked pics of the OP sent via text from said banned member. WB. -1 for the hairy bush though.

Aren't all bushes hairy?