Hi everyone,
I lost my old account, but since I am not into Reddit, I wanted to see what the guys on here have to say.
Like many guys here I am in my late 30s and ready to settle down now. I've had some great experiences over the years trying different girls around the world, but at some point enough is enough. It's my dream to leave city life in London and go back to the countryside now, but I can't do it alone.
So, I was curious what you all think about the importance of choosing someone who is your own nationality for settling down with?
Bit of background here: I'm ethnically British, but I've seen my country change so much over the past 30 years that it feels like a dead country now and doesn't feel like a home that I recognise as being my own. Despite what the whole woke nonsense says, there *is* such a thing as looking British (in the same way every other nationality in the world looks unique - Japan, Nigeria, Poland, Spain etc.), and contrary to misconceptions, the UK and Ireland has plenty to choose from in terms of decent looking women, who have a NW European appearance.
The problem though is, 1) education and culture has gone down a lot, and 2) what is the fate of the UK in the future? Probably not great.
In other words, do you "go home" with a fellow Brit while your country sinks, or do you just accept this country is dead and find someone from a different part of Europe to settle with?
I think the idea of finding someone just like yourself is a lovely idea, but in practice really hard to achieve. And especially in London - it's so international now. I don't know where all the "wife material" types go, to be honest, because when I go out, all I see is trash, like around 95%.
Anyway, let me know your thoughts? Maybe this topic of tribalism and settling down resonated with people. And maybe some people find it uncomfortable because Western people are made by the media to feel ashamed over having an identity, while indigenous people in other parts of the world are encouraged to continue their legacy.
Thanks for your thoughts!
I lost my old account, but since I am not into Reddit, I wanted to see what the guys on here have to say.
Like many guys here I am in my late 30s and ready to settle down now. I've had some great experiences over the years trying different girls around the world, but at some point enough is enough. It's my dream to leave city life in London and go back to the countryside now, but I can't do it alone.
So, I was curious what you all think about the importance of choosing someone who is your own nationality for settling down with?
Bit of background here: I'm ethnically British, but I've seen my country change so much over the past 30 years that it feels like a dead country now and doesn't feel like a home that I recognise as being my own. Despite what the whole woke nonsense says, there *is* such a thing as looking British (in the same way every other nationality in the world looks unique - Japan, Nigeria, Poland, Spain etc.), and contrary to misconceptions, the UK and Ireland has plenty to choose from in terms of decent looking women, who have a NW European appearance.
The problem though is, 1) education and culture has gone down a lot, and 2) what is the fate of the UK in the future? Probably not great.
In other words, do you "go home" with a fellow Brit while your country sinks, or do you just accept this country is dead and find someone from a different part of Europe to settle with?
I think the idea of finding someone just like yourself is a lovely idea, but in practice really hard to achieve. And especially in London - it's so international now. I don't know where all the "wife material" types go, to be honest, because when I go out, all I see is trash, like around 95%.
Anyway, let me know your thoughts? Maybe this topic of tribalism and settling down resonated with people. And maybe some people find it uncomfortable because Western people are made by the media to feel ashamed over having an identity, while indigenous people in other parts of the world are encouraged to continue their legacy.
Thanks for your thoughts!