[hubris]

Puzzled on how to play this one, if there is anything to play.

Background:
Met at a bar, while she was tagging along with a music promoter friend. We talk, she volunteers her number. About two weeks ago. She texts first etc.

Fast forward go for the Monday night set-up via text. During that conversation I get the following: "I am just out of relationship...so I just want to hang out no pressure".

Not sure how to interpret this one.

[Kickb]

I might be wrong but I think she wants to hangout with you. If I was you I would have her meet me somewhere then after a little bit go back to my place and drink some Graffigna Centenario.

[JoyStick]

go for the bang. you got nothing to lose.

[Sourcecode]

she want you to hit it..but not get attached/her get attached

dont fuck her gently..go balls deep and hard..then get out of there..lingering around after the sex is gonna mess with her feelings

[hubris]

Thanks for the replies. Pretty much what I thought.

[Samseau]

She might also really be out of a new relationship, and she's hurting from her old boyfriend.

These chicks, out of all the girls I've banged, have the potential to have the worst LMR or have zero LMR. Either they will fold like a deck of cards or just push you away with Herculean strength.


Do tell us which one she is, I'm trying to figure out what is up with these girls.

[hubris]

This one fell into the worst LMR category.
Turned into a flake after closing for drinks, too bad.

[Kickb]

Whats LMR?

[Samseau]

(01-11-2012 02:00 AM)hubris Wrote:  

This one fell into the worst LMR category.
Turned into a flake after closing for drinks, too bad.

Yeah, she's still hurting from the last guy.

These women apparently cannot forget about their last boyfriend, and are extra cautious with new men in an attempt to protect their shattered ego's.

Of course, dating men and not letting them fuck her isn't going to find her a new boyfriend, so these girls end up accomplishing nothing.


What these girls should do, is heal. Take 3-4 months out of the game and just recuperate before having sex/dating another man. But instead they approach dating with a copy of "The Rules" and make men jump through hoops before having sex.

[hubris]

(01-12-2012 02:04 AM)Samseau Wrote:  

Yeah, she's still hurting from the last guy.

Ditto. She even called herself a douche.

[Gmac]

(01-11-2012 10:26 PM)kickboxer Wrote:  

Whats LMR?

Last minute resistance.

[CJ]

(01-11-2012 02:00 AM)hubris Wrote:  

This one fell into the worst LMR category.
Turned into a flake after closing for drinks, too bad.

That's not bad LMR, in fact that's not even LMR. LMR happens when you have her in bed.

For example, years ago before I got into game, I had a half naked girl under me in her bed, and she told me:

We're moving way too fast. (We had just met that night)
I said something stupid, I'm sure.
She then said, we can have sex in the morning after her parents left.
I said something even dumber, "Ok." And went to sleep.

I never banged her. Today I would've banged her that night, again in the middle of the night, probably in the morning after her parents left, and then never returned her calls/texts.