Position so far - girl sits across from me in cafeteria yesterday, starts talking to me/seems interested, I don't find her too attractive so I talk for a few minutes and leave. She later goes out of her way to add and message me on Facebook, even though we've talked for only a few minutes and all she knows is my first name/class year/the dorm I live in. Looking through her pictures, it seems like she just didn't put too much effort into her appearance when I met her, so I decided to go for the bang without putting in too much effort (I'm giving myself one bar/cafe situation to close, maximum).
She was willing to meet me tonight at a cafe/bar even if it required ditching an event she previously planned to attend, but I'm going to be unavoidably busy until later tonight. Here's the question - is it a bad idea to text her around midnight or so asking if she wants to come over? On one hand, I'm as sure as I'll ever be that she's attracted to me, but on the other, I'm not sure if that's a premature maneuver and I should attempt to meet her at a cafe/bar on another day to build emotional momentum before attempting to take her home.
TL;DR: Girl seems very interested in me despite 5 minutes of conversation. Should I ask her to come over later tonight or instead attempt a standard cafe/bar meeting and take her home on some other night? . I'm fairly sure she finds me attractive, but I'm concerned that I might run into LMR of the "I barely know you" type. What do you think is the best course of action?
She was willing to meet me tonight at a cafe/bar even if it required ditching an event she previously planned to attend, but I'm going to be unavoidably busy until later tonight. Here's the question - is it a bad idea to text her around midnight or so asking if she wants to come over? On one hand, I'm as sure as I'll ever be that she's attracted to me, but on the other, I'm not sure if that's a premature maneuver and I should attempt to meet her at a cafe/bar on another day to build emotional momentum before attempting to take her home.
TL;DR: Girl seems very interested in me despite 5 minutes of conversation. Should I ask her to come over later tonight or instead attempt a standard cafe/bar meeting and take her home on some other night? . I'm fairly sure she finds me attractive, but I'm concerned that I might run into LMR of the "I barely know you" type. What do you think is the best course of action?