[ElJefe]

Goddammit!

I had 3 7's (8's facewise, but lack of ass and tits pulls it down) who I was damn sure I had soldover the phone wednesday after getting digits earlier this week.

They ALL sent texts after our convo asking about when to meet up and... I didn't make any appointments because weekend was coming up. I thought I'd pick it up again today and set up next week.

Only one responded today and she was frigid. Jesus, either my game sucks or what. What a waste of time... I wish I knew where it was slipping. This is frustrating.

I'm going to the gym and smash some weights. I guess at some meta-level my game does suck because my temper is getting the better of me.

[mofo]

Interesting

[thegmanifesto]

Yeah.

You need to get your Mind strong.

Girls flaking are a good thing. You didn't waste time.

You need to think that it is their loss.

Work on metal and inner confidence.

[CJ]

Never let a chick get the best of your emotions, especially when it comes to making you angry. Just laugh it up, and brush it off.

[soup]

Flakes are going to happen. If you are angry, take the energy and put it towards re-doubling your efforts.

Also, try setting appointments next time ASAP- That's the goal when you get them on the phone or text. Keep the weekend clear, but tell them next Mon or something like that.

I actually think it's best to keep everything within the Sun-Thurs time frame for dates because I like to run club game on the weekends. Contact them on either Sun or Mon to set-up dates for Tues, Wed, Thurs.
If I'm contacting them on Thurs, I might suggest getting an early drink on Fri.

[kimleebj]

(01-14-2012 08:44 AM)ElJefe Wrote:  

Goddammit!

They ALL sent texts after our convo asking about when to meet up and... I didn't make any appointments ...

I guess at some meta-level my game does suck ...

The problem is your tactics, not your temper. Multiple women contact you to meet up, you don't schedule, and then it's over. This could be a valuable teaching moment. Next time, Carpe Diem.

If you actually schedule with them and they flake then you have something relatively mundane to complain about. But this one is an exasperatingly easy fix.

[ElJefe]

(01-17-2012 09:04 AM)kimleebj Wrote:  

(01-14-2012 08:44 AM)ElJefe Wrote:  

Goddammit!

They ALL sent texts after our convo asking about when to meet up and... I didn't make any appointments ...

I guess at some meta-level my game does suck ...

The problem is your tactics, not your temper. Multiple women contact you to meet up, you don't schedule, and then it's over. This could be a valuable teaching moment. Next time, Carpe Diem.

If you actually schedule with them and they flake then you have something relatively mundane to complain about. But this one is an exasperatingly easy fix.

Yeah, I've definitely changed my line of thinking about this.

Till now, I thought the better move was to schedule dates on Sundays, even make her wait a few days if necessary, but that's obviously a bad tactic. I got their numbers on period Monday-Wednesday, then called Thursday, touched base, then agree to talk again Sunday.

Absolutely zilch. Going forward, I'll be more open on meeting them sooner. One of them even suggested meeting Sunday, but I said prob not, because I'm in the middle of finals (I really am, but honestly I could've found time for her if I wanted)... guess that teaches me not to play hard to get.

I'm still the guy who, at my worst, will try and control my environment with anger. It's a nasty habit of youth I'm trying to break.