Quote: (11-30-2011 11:23 AM)amity Wrote:
Quote: (11-29-2011 11:52 PM)Stitch Wrote:
Hell, I'm in a LTR with a 40+ girl and it's absolutely great; sex is hot, times are fun. Doesn't bother me that she's had a lot of history. I can tell you this--I've had more and better sex in the last 3 months than I had with my ex-wife in the last three years. An experienced woman isn't necessarily a bad thing.
agreed - i would take an experienced woman with the right attitude over an inexperienced 'nice girl', but this is, in my experience, not so easy to find (but this is probably also due to my previous beta behaviour with said experienced women)
and by 'the right attitude', i mean a woman who will not shit test you to the max with (unrequested) details of her sexual past
yeah she doesn't drop any past stories unless I ask though. yeah, the only "testing" she has done is her talking to other guys in front of me but it could just be her since she's outgoing and loves talking to strangers, male or female. I failed that the first night (I had 2 chicks literally hit on me while she was talking to a group of guys and I failed to engage the 2 chicks and just went back to my buddies).
I'm not used to have a date when she's going out with me, talk to another dude. hell my ex wouldn't even answer other guys approaching her when out with me. but after that night I started hitting on chicks in her presence too.
I'll be hanging out with her next week for a few times. We'll see how it goes. I'm pretty high value and I have 2 other options (polish girl - way more reserved, little older and my ex that wants me back; we broke up because I wanted to travel for a longer period) which will give me less headache in the long run. Only reason for me to consider getting into an LTR right now is because I could focus more on my own business. But with the thoughts that I'm putting into this already, it doesn't seem like that's going to be the case later on.
Quote: (11-30-2011 01:17 PM)Pusscrook Wrote:
(2) things would make me enter into a LTR with a whore that has some history. She's hot and rich , or hot and seriously retarded. Preferably the latter.
this. it simply turns me off. call it being egoistic, I don't care. I'll prolly just end up dropping the # question in a question game or something next week, at the same time signalling that I don't care and will take it from there, depending on how credible her body language is. I never had a relationship with a chick that had an extensive history and I'm surely not starting now if I have other options, that provide at least the same level of sex quality or hotness.
Quote: (11-29-2011 12:16 PM)basilransom Wrote:
Is she explicitly pressing you for an exclusive relationship? If she isn't, all this is unnecessary. Don't press it until she does. And if she does, decide whether being exclusive to her is worth all the lost opportunities.
If you care enough to post about it, don't get into an exclusive LTR with her.
well, she's been asking me if I've been with other girls, which I have. She hasn't been going out much and according to her doesn't feel the need to go bang another guy (since the sex is awesome, I can believe that) Also hits me up by end of afternoon every day if I didn't get to do it myself. Also said she can't imagine me being with another girl. her friend told me "I dont know what you've done to her, but keep doing it. I never have seen her like this before. you guys would make a great couple". So I guess, yeah, there's some kind of pressure from her side to make this exclusive.