Quote: (02-10-2012 01:07 PM)Future82 Wrote:
Quote: (02-10-2012 12:54 PM)americanInEurope Wrote:
Quote: (02-10-2012 11:20 AM)Future82 Wrote:
Quote: (02-10-2012 11:07 AM)americanInEurope Wrote:
STAY THE FUCK AWAY FROM MARYLAND...
@Pimpish that's a really good angle man, mad respect! I honestly think that'll work most of the time, as I've found a lot of girls respond better to very direct (yet non creepy) stuff like that. Especially young girls. Might have to steal that I like to video tape shit from you homie.
One thing tho, I see you needing to isolate her to get this done. Saying shit like that in front of her friends... there are too many chances for a hater in the group to be like "WTF he just say!?."
Why the hate for Maryland americanInEurope, some say the Baltimore suburbs aren't that bad, I guess people say stay away from where ever they're having a bad experience, Atlanta is terrible if your a non stereotypical black dude. What's crazy is that i can have any black chick here that i want, but black chicks just don't do it for me, both physically or personally wise, i only hit them up if I'm going through a crazy dry spell.
Man I guess if I hadn't seen the world I really would appreciate all the chubby cute girls I've been dating since I've been here. But it's just kinda hard not to laugh when these 6's act like 10's. I've been spoiled, what can I say. Sorry.
Oh and there's the racial segregation everywhere thing. That's kind of a drag.
Does the segregation in Maryland compare to the segregation in the deep south? States like Georgia, Alabama, Tennessee, South Carolina, etc.
I've never gamed in the deep south but I imagine it's similar. Maryland is actually in the "south" technically. I'm from the east coast and the problem MD has is the same problem PA has. Because of years and years of bad blood between the blacks and whites and them passing it on to their children, people just generally stick to their own group or culture with the occasional outcast mixing. The ones that I've dated have all been either black men chasing white girls or good girls gone bad who don't speak to their family. Or transplants. And they all admit that MD has racial issues. I live in PG County, probably the worst of the worst, and admit that I probably need to see more of MD before passing judgement. But life is too short to stick it out here hoping to get a hottie. I'm going back to Europe. I'll come back this way and try again if everything better dries up.
Quote: (02-10-2012 01:51 PM)PimpishMentality Wrote:
Quote: (02-10-2012 11:07 AM)americanInEurope Wrote:
One thing tho, I see you needing to isolate her to get this done. Saying shit like that in front of her friends... there are too many chances for a hater in the group to be like "WTF he just say!?."
Exactly! I initially approach a chick as a "Wolf in Sheep's Clothing" no matter if she is single or in a group to get her comfortable and get the digits.
"Ohhhhh...PimpishMentality is sooooo nice."
Once you isolate her and gauge her sexual interest you become the Wolf. If she's receptive, your shifting personalities only intrigue and bind her to you further.
If she's receptive. I've seen 9's who get hit on like that a lot and have adjusted their game according. I know really hot girls who have been dogged out by dudes and feel they have to hurt your feelings or be a bitch first before they let you in. There are so many factors. Your game is not air tight. Nobody's is, but I think it's very effective in the right setting. Like bar dates, isolation at the club, generally any place with alcohol involved lol. Seriously that's another thing, if a chick trusts you enough to drink with you and you pull out that stuff it's either going to really gross her out or really turn her on. A lot of girls buy into that freak in the bed lady on the streets mentality, so even if what you're saying is turning them on a lot of them don't wanna look like a slut in the process. I mean if they are a slut then fuck it, but I'm talking about nice girls here. IDK man it's definitely a freak filter lol.
A lot of guys don't regularly escalate girls sexually so quickly, so the idea of getting so sexual so fast with so many girls is a little alien to them. And it's not from lack of game, it's just that a lot of American chicks don't show that side unless they've been drinking or they're MILFs. Overseas, you just get into a zone man. I can't explain it, but I experienced this in Tokyo. You're just fucking so much, you see the nasty side of so many girls, so many girls who in public are so proper and shit, that when you look into their eyes for the first time, you just go there with them immediately. When you take a step back and look at what's going on, you realize that chivalry, being a gentlemen, crying over a breakup, and all that other bullshit that Hollywood teaches guys is completely wrong. Girls wanna get laid as much as guys do, if not more! They wanna be nasty too. You're just so comfortable with talking about nasty shit, that it makes them comfortable too. Every now and then you meet a genuienly prudish girl who will not go there, but like 90% of them will be receptive to nasty talk in some way or shape. If you find yourself getting too nasty then adjust it bit, but you wouldn't believe how refreshing that shit can be if done the right way, as most guys are too pussy to take it there. I am sometimes, especially if she's really hot and got mad social proof around her. Maybe not "drink my babies bitch" but something dirty but cleaned up for delivery.