Quote: (12-12-2018 12:32 PM)quaker13 Wrote:
You guys under estimate the freedom you have living independently or with roommates. As it's been said by the Dream and Vladimir there are virtually no upsides including the often lauded money saving factor. DO NOT EVER DO THIS. My best friend moved in with his college girlfriend his junior year and to this day reminds me of the fact that he missed out on 2 good years of his life dealing with a relationship that ultimately went nowhere. DO NOT EVER DO THIS. Men on this forum are supposed to have women as accessories or additions to their quality of life, we don't need this bitches. You wanna get married, fine. Nothing wrong that at all, but you will look back at the time you spent prematurely moving in with your girlfriend, no matter how feminine unselfish and sweet she is, and wanna punch yourself right in the nose. DO NOT EVER DO THIS. I moved in my wife a month before our wedding. A month!!!. I even regretted doing that lol. LOL@ moving in with a woman year or more before marriage. What kinda beta maneuvering is this? Listen to a 40 year old OG with a halfway decent lay count of quality women and save yourself the frustration.
What if you don't have time or want to be a player and you don't mind your girl staying with you to cook and clean and always have pussy available for you while you go about your business? What is the difference between living together pre vs post marriage? You are assuming everyone here are just starting out and don't have any life experience. Not everyone fits into that category.
And there's no rule saying you have to stay with your girlfriend for 2 years. You can live together for 3 months and then you can either propose or kick her out.