[AlphaGP]

(08-09-2018 05:44 AM)lafouinese Wrote:  

Dutch women can be hard to game in the clubs since most of them go out with a group of friends. But it really depends, Leiden can be super-easy to get laid thanks to student population, Rotterdam/The Hague is mostly hit-miss.

But imho Dutch girls are very easy-going and fun to talk to (and by no means similar to Swedish/German ladies attitude-wise),
Since there are different ethnics and mixed people everywhere in the Netherlands, they are quite open to all races.

I've only had great experiences with Dutch girls in Netherlands and abroad. Shagged a 19 years old 184cm tall (I am 33 yrs old) Dutch girl in Barcelona for three days in a row after she literally eyeballed me while waiting in line at McDonalds (I was gaming a Moroccan cashier in broken Spanish).

Are you saying the German and Swedish chicks are hard and not fun to talk to? In my experiences German and Dutch girls are easy and open; no sufficient experiences with Swedish though, but I remember the Norwegians are also easy.

[kirdiesel]

Everyone has different experiences but German girls (in Germany) are not known to be the easiest going bunch of girls in the world. Outside of Germany I found them to be 100% worth talking to.

[jcrew247]

Has anyone met dutch girls in Hersonissos? It seems like its a hotspot for dutch tourists. But it sounds like they can be difficult or will they be more easy since they are on vacation in Hersonissos? I guess dutch girls are intimidating because they are so tall from a distance. Don't want to waste valuable vacation time on snobby girls.

[stefpdt]

Dutch girls are generally incredible. Especially while they're on vacation. Approach them with positive assumptions and see what happens.

Better yet, tease them about their funny Dutch accent when they speak to you in English.

[AlphaGP]

(08-10-2018 02:28 PM)stefpdt Wrote:  

Dutch girls are generally incredible. Especially while they're on vacation. Approach them with positive assumptions and see what happens.

Better yet, tease them about their funny Dutch accent when they speak to you in English.

LOL, I'm actually wondering how Dutch accent sounds like. All Dutch girls I have ever met in America or Australia either speak with no or almost no accent, or were speaking in an environment too noisy to notice the accent.

And yea, Dutch girls are quite easy to talk in my experiences.

[AlphaGP]

Alright, let me sum up something. Seems most people in this thread say Dutch girls are very easy to talk, both in Netherlands and in foreign countries.

The ones who complain a lot about the Dutch women seem to be:

1. Foreign expats in Netherlands, who are typically left-leaning and love to complain and make fun of the natives of the Western countries and feel entitled of what they have or should have;

2. Local beta males and/or incels.

Correct me if I'm wrong and add some other categories if I missed anything.

[stefpdt]

Just be careful about who you get your advice from.

80% of random guys on the street are chodes and give dangerous advice related to dating and game.

But anyone who's actively going out and *actually escalating sexually* with lots of international women can vouch that Dutch girls are incredibly sexually liberated and freaky.

[Tiger Man]

I don't know that there is much use in comparing Dutch girls who are staying at a hostel in Asia with a Dutch girl back home. As was already said, they tend to lose their inhibitions when on vacation, but pretty much all women do that. But, what about Dutch girls who are more of the national homebody types? I've met a number of Dutch nationals who have not travelled much and have maintained a more "traditionally Dutch" attitude. I'm talking about girls who made the "big move" from Hannut to Maastricht to attend university.

I have found the following trademark behavior to be generally true of many Dutch women who, as I said, are Dutch Dutch.

They are very sexually open-minded, but that does not mean they will jump in bed with you (or anyone for that matter). You can meet Dutch girls who think that a four-hundred man gangbang is a great idea, but then go on to tell you they only want to have sex with one guy their whole life. You will also (often) meet girls who lost their virginity when they were fourteen, but (now in their twenties), they have only had one, two, or three partners. I chalk this up to the Dutch sexual model of being very sexually open-minded, but also very anti-promiscuity. You can take a Dutch eighteen-year-old back to her farmhouse and have sex with her with her parents in the next room. And they will make you breakfast the next morning with a smile. But, they might very well expect you to hang out with the family for the next few days and keep in touch.

Also, the Dutch bluntness takes some getting used to. I could see many men mistaking their attitude for coldness or bitchiness. In truth, they just often say whatever the hell comes to mind. You might have a girl (who really likes you and wants to bang) say, without provocation, "You smell. Are you wearing deodorant?" Many American/Canadian/etc guys would think that this girl is a bitch. In fact, she just thinks it's the most proper thing to do to let you know that. It is a weird thing that requires some patience.

Finally, the Dutch social circle is another odd thing. If you want to get the hottest girls, I think you have to try social circle (when is this not the case?). The problem is that proper Dutch social circle freezes at, like, 25. If they don't know you from university or earlier, it is like you can never truly get in their "inner circle". The only upside is that once you are in, you are in. So if you do a visiting year at university in the Netherlands, you can set yourself in to some great extended networks and keep them for life. But, if you don't do that, it can be very difficult.

NB. I am mainly speaking from experience with more rural Dutch girls (as I may have alluded to). If you are dealing with some Amsterdam-based, cosmopolitan girl, I assume the game is the same as for any globogirl.

[Winston Wolfe]

Everything Tiger Man said is spot on.

(08-11-2018 03:42 PM)Tiger Man Wrote:  

Also, the Dutch bluntness takes some getting used to. I could see many men mistaking their attitude for coldness or bitchiness. In truth, they just often say whatever the hell comes to mind. You might have a girl (who really likes you and wants to bang) say, without provocation, "You smell. Are you wearing deodorant?" Many American/Canadian/etc guys would think that this girl is a bitch. In fact, she just thinks it's the most proper thing to do to let you know that. It is a weird thing that requires some patience.

This is very true about all Dutch people, not just the girls. Being Dutch myself and spending a lot of time in Asia, I get confronted with this quite often.

I once pointed out to an Asian girl on a date that she had a pimple on her nose and she should go take care of it in the restroom. That didn't end well

Truth is though, Dutch people aren't trying to be rude or arrogant when they are being blunt. It's just how we interact with each other.

Here's a video of Dutch ice skater Sven Kramer calling a reporter "Stupid" for asking a question.

(08-11-2018 03:42 PM)Tiger Man Wrote:  

Finally, the Dutch social circle is another odd thing. If you want to get the hottest girls, I think you have to try social circle (when is this not the case?). The problem is that proper Dutch social circle freezes at, like, 25. If they don't know you from university or earlier, it is like you can never truly get in their "inner circle". The only upside is that once you are in, you are in. So if you do a visiting year at university in the Netherlands, you can set yourself in to some great extended networks and keep them for life. But, if you don't do that, it can be very difficult.

I never really thought about this, but what you are saying is true. I am from a rural-ish area in the Netherlands and pretty much my entire social circle was formed before I hit my mid-20's and it's like that for everyone else too. The social circles I am in are VERY tight, we'd literally fly to the other side of the world, no questions asked, if someone's in trouble. On the other hand, it's almost impossible to get into a new social circle beyond surface level.