Quote: (04-18-2018 07:47 PM)Putin Closes Wrote:
This is why you never take girls out for dinner on first date. Never. Drinks only and if she says no, next her.
Exactly this. Only a lame would take a girl for dinner on a first date.
Why invest your money (and time) on someone you don't even know.
Furthermore, many restaurants have a layout which seats you opposite a girl, I hate this. I always want to be seated next to the girl (sitting at a 90 degree angle). Sitting next to them is much better from a body language/psychology point of view, and because of the noise and space it's a million times easier to have a conversation and some basic kino.
Also, many girls feel self-conscious eating in front of a man, might sound strange for us blokes because we don't really care, but it's true.
I don't mind buying her a coffee or share a bottle of wine on the beach... but basically I spend little money on a girl before we smash.
I have an outdoors personality and I live in an outdoors city with lots of beautiful places to explore, so I guess this may not be as suitable for everyone, but walking dates are my thing.
Then after we smash, and I get to know the girl's true character... if I see that she's a quality girl with a nice attitude etc, that's when I don't mind to spend some money, whether it be restaurants, drinks, movies, trips, whatever.
If a man really does have a high SMV, then there's no way a quality girl would decline a date such as hiking/beach/coffee/park date instead of some fancy restaurant. Simple as that.
It's not about the numerical cost. It's about the principle.
I don't mind spending money on quality things, whether it be home, clothes, car, travel, lifestyle, women etc... but I absolutely hate wasting money on low quality things.
Every time we spend our money, we are casting a vote for the type of world we want to live in. Our spending choices have tremendous political power.